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| Subject | : | Spotting Greedy Women by Aaron Sleazy |
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Most guys in the “community” sooner or later want to have a girlfriend. Hopefully, though, they won’t settle for any girl who wants them but make a careful choice instead. Since one of the main gripes with Western women is their rampant materialism if not downright greed, which makes them view men as walking wallets, I’ll give you some good tips on how to easily spot the greedy ones. After all, if her main interest is your bank balance, you better spare yourself the experience of entering a relationship with her.
Some of you now probably think, “Well, Sleazy, I pull down more than 100 grand a year and I don’t care that much if she wants a new pair of shoes every other week. I can easily afford it!” If this is you, then you have never dealt with a woman who has an unjustified sense of entitlement, or have no idea how expensive shoes can be. Just talk to some of your married friends, and ask them how it goes. Some of my friends who recently married are currently learning the hard way that despite their wife’s earlier insistence of wanting to remain “financially independent,” they all seem to eventually change their minds.
They quit their job for whatever bogus reason, and spend their husband’s salaries with great joy now that they have that ring on their finger. Interestingly enough, the spending habits of those women are such that their husband is always making a tad too little, and even my more affluent friends now find themselves himself in a situation where it is sometimes not that easy anymore to make ends meet, thanks to this new restraint on his cash flow. Nonetheless, their wives keep nagging about wanting to move into a more luxurious apartment or a bigger house.
Nobody can guarantee how things will turn out, especially because some women are very adept at putting on a façade for a long time. Fortunately, the majority isn’t and wants to have everything right this very moment. For those you can use some simple tests to figure out how your potential future sweetheart ticks. If you believe that women are primarily interested in your personality, you may be in for a big surprise.
The first test is designed for dates. I am not a fan of expensive and long-winded dinner dates and generally recommend shorter ones. So, just tell the girl that you want to meet her at some cozy coffee shop. This is the first hurdle already. One of my friends once couldn’t believe what he was hearing when the girl said that he had to take her out to a decent restaurant if he “wanted to get anywhere” with her. Obviously, this raised a red flag, so he laughed and hung up the phone. Those women are hopefully just a tiny minority.
But back to the coffee shop! Make sure that you are on time and sit down. She will probably be late anyway, so just enjoy your reading for a while. As she arrives, exchange hugs and kisses, talk a bit, and then ask her whether she’d like to get the two of you something. Hand her some cash, and make sure it’s more than enough. The reason is not to impress her with your spending power, but to give her a lot of room to make mistakes. A 20 Euro bill or a 50 dollar note allows you to observe her habitual spending habits, and quickly tell you whether she belongs to the category of women who view money as something to get rid off as quickly as possible, especially if they didn’t have to earn it.
The worst reaction is if she is all indignant and makes a statement about “independence.” You haven’t even finished pulling the money out of your wallet, and she already has to defend women’s rights in front of you! Of course, to her it’s demeaning that she should order a drink at the counter, but that you pay for both is completely normal. Frankly, if this happens to you, then feel free to tell her that she is a bitch, pack your stuff and leave. Women like this are not worth it. If you have a hard time getting dates, this may be difficult to do, but if you don’t, then she’ll show you what hell on earth is like.
But let’s say she has some decency, smiles, and says, “Of course I’ll get us something!” You may wonder what else could go wrong, but there is a lot. I once met a girl for a date at a Starbucks in Berlin, and gave her a 20 Euro bill. I said she could get anything she liked, and that I want a caffè latte. Some minutes later she came back and said with a smile, “Here’s your change!”, as she put at a 2 Euro coin into my palm! The total shouldn’t have been more than seven or eight Euros, so I wanted to ask her what had happened to the rest of the money. But before I could do that, she spouted out that our drinks would be ready soon, and that she’s gotten two pieces of cake as well, and then she had to tip the barista because she was so nice. I was speechless.
I was even more taken aback when I got my regular-sized caffè latte, while she received some super-sized and elaborately named drink whose name I could barely pronounce, “…and they asked me whether I wanted an extra shot of espresso, so I told them to add one. Do you want to try?” After barely twenty minutes, I told her I had “stuff to do” and left. This is not because I am “cheap,” but because I couldn’t help but think that this woman was greedy and selfish beyond measure. That all she could talk about was shopping for clothes and shoes or taking vacations didn’t really spike my interest in her either.
If you don’t even want to risk wasting time on a date, then you can be more daring. As many men have learnt, a woman’s statement along the lines of “Money isn’t important. I make my own money” is not to be interpreted literally. If you yourself make good money, then you probably don’t want to enter a relationship with a woman that only wants to spend your hard-earned dough, or do you?
Women may show a lot of interest in you at first, but it could easily be feigned. This is an hypothesis you can quickly test once she asks you what you do for a living. Some women are so blunt that they ask for this piece of information within less than a minute. Just look at her with a straight face and tell her that you’re unemployed, or have recently gotten laid off. If this is really your situation, I feel sorry for you and hope you’ll find another job soon. However, a lot of women won’t be so understanding. Instead of saying, “Oh, I am sorry to hear that,” she is more likely to immediately walk off.
Now, if you think that this is a stupid move because, one, you have a job and make good money, and, two, you found her sexually attractive, then think again! What she did in fact quickly revealed that she was mainly interested in you because she thought you made a lot of money, and nothing else. I really think you deserve someone better than that.
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What I'm trying to do is be more like a badass snake that circles its prey, building the tension slowly with no rush to eat, and then explodes and snaps.
I'm calling this grinding her mind into a fine powder.
Its really not as evil as it sounds. The goal is to build authoritative sexual tension, almost the way a turbo hot girl would with you. She wouldn't actually “pursue you” in the interaction. She would just radiate that she is in control of herself. That may also include picking you apart mentally just for fun and breaking your mind.
What happens is almost magical. About 95% of the time, that girl you approached thinks: “Who was that guy?”
She basically spends those 1 to 5 minutes thinking and talking exclusively about you.
Here’s another incredible thing...the effect is increased dramatically when she’s with a group of friends. She’ll start asking them: “Do you know that guy? Do any of us know him? Should we know who he is?”
You can imagine how this works to your advantage...
They get this game rolling in their head where they’re trying to figure out who you are.
Are you famous ?
Pull to dance floor, dance close, a few spins, no grinding. Lots of swaying back and forth so she falls into my rhythm physically and emotionally. I'm trying to take her into my world. Eskimo kiss, forehead kiss. I don’t go for the lip kiss. I try to pull, but her friends are leaving and she has to talk to them. I lost a girl last week by hovering over her too hard for 10 minutes when she was talking to her friends. So this time I stay like 10 feet away and do my own thing. I check in every 4 minutes. I tell my buddy to wing
the friends and try to bounce them all to our terrace for an after party. No dice.
A few years ago, I turned the NLP
world and the world of persuasion upside down by revealing 17 of the most negative (and most powerful) patterns of persuasion and influence that exist. Since then, there isn't a week that goes by that I don't get questions about how to use those types of patterns to get even or exact revenge.
I do believe it's helpful to understand how to go on the offensive if need be. After all, martial artists practice for years learning how to defend and attack … all in the hopes that they never have to use it.
So today, let's look at a rather “grey” application of one of these skills ...











