Cliff's List Seduction Letters Archives

Break down all resistance and get what you want. Better yet, don't get any resistance.

Break the ice like the mysterious stranger you are.

Navigating the minefield of friends and logistics.

Kenrick Cleveland explores the moral “grey area” of seduction.

Why you shouldn't even try talking to girls ... just go straight for the sex.

How to help yourself with self help ... the right way.

Exploiting the social loopholes of same-sex relationships ?

The real reason we get into the Game.

Yes, it's possible ... here's how, step-by-step.

Why B*lair doesn't care ... in depth.

Why B*lair doesn't care ... in depth.

Why B*lair doesn't care.

Why you should never listen when she tells you her ride is here.

What are two closes when you're only improving at 1% a month ?

A step-by-step guide to physical escalation.

PUAs in training have an educational evening on the town.

Sometimes success comes just when you least expect it.

If she stood you up twice, would you give her a ride home ?

Mr. Montreal Madison's pulling technique.

The power of positive indifference.

Sometimes they kick you out.

A seduction in three acts, starring Mr. Montreal Madison.

If your date is a psycho, just remember ... persistence pays.

Women can't resist a guy in a feathered boa.

The joys of out-of-town women.

When getting fired isn't such a bad thing.

The men's issue that nobody wants to talk about.

Everything you ever wanted to know about cold reading (but were not intuitive enough to guess).

The story of a man who stays in state no matter what it takes.

When a girl's mom is your best wing.

If at first you don't succeed ... kiss again.

What happens when you take the wrong girl home ?

Mr. Montreal Madison finally gets the girl.

Berserker perseveres with great results.

Social circle game can be amazingly easy and fun.

How do you let her know that you have no intention of replacing her boyfriend ?

A fortunate series of pick up breakthroughs.

Carbon's approach for picking up hired guns.

Ron Louis enumerates the difference between a “player” and a “man of the world.”

B*lair illustrates the power of indifference.

TheMack takes a trip to Cuba.

Zardoz covers the top 5 reasons you're not getting laid.

The third step to successful MTLRs.

The second step to successful MTLRs.

The first step to successful MTLRs.

5 common myths even advanced pick up artists often have about style.

TheMack covers the basic principles of text game.

Alexander's 5 Golden Rules for having threesomes (over and over).

Dr. Alex (aka Dr Ali Binazir, formerly Dr. Alex Benzer) on the fatal dating mistakes of college men.

Seven rules for giving a woman mind-blowing orgasms.

Dwacon responds to the plight of Anonymous.

If you're having problems getting your woman in the mood, you should learn a little more about female arousal.

The dire consequences of an ordinary booty call.

How do I satisfy thee ? Let me count the ways ...

Having the right moves on the dance floor can get you more than you might think ...

Johnny Soporno discusses the benefits and advantages of dating a porn star.

A little game can take you a long way ...

The hidden benefits of being social.

If you've ever wondered how to seduce an old crush, here's your answer !

Some tips on cranking up the sexual volume in your interactions.

How to have a threesome ... without booze.

Too many guys learn pick up from porn. You need to have more realistic expectations.

Being a “Pick Up Artist” is unethical, sexist, bad for your social life, and just plain wrong. Why you need to stop trying to be a “PUA” today.

The top 4 rules for learning the game quickly.

Etienne Charland offers his reflections on masculinity and femininity.

A Cliff's List reader struggles with jealousy and frustration.

Think flirting is child's play ? Think again ! If you're missing these three essentials, you're doing it wrong !

Why you need to stop lying to women and have more sex now !

Think it takes a lot of work to get laid ? Think again !

Sometimes breaking down resistance is just a matter of keeping at it.

It is not what you experience, but how you react to it.

Picking up girls in class is easy and fun. Just don't make too much noise.

Does the seduction community encourage immoral behavior ?

Always leave them wanting more.

How to react when a girl knows you're a pick up artist.

Flying over the Atlantic with a l’embarras du choix.

Girls on vacation are always ready for adventure.

… and how to have one step-by-step.

A mysterious traveler in a distant land scores a threesome ... with a little help from the local bouncer.

How your relationships with women are influenced by your relationships with others … and what you can do about it.

Discover the secrets of the female brain and how they can help you meet women online.

XXS discovers there is often much more to women than meets the eye.

The most common way guys undermine their own success … and how to keep it from happening.

The quick and easy way to learn a woman's darkest secrets.

Etienne Charland gives the top 7 ways to improve your charisma with women.

Cuisine reviews some of the more popular dating sites and offers tips on how to sharpen your online seduction skills.

The right way to seduce a porn star.

How to turn a boring introduction into a mesmerizing approach … with just a simple pause.

Three tricks for creating a magnetic online profile.

Do women really like jerks and bad boys ? The answer might surprise you.

Opening's no problem, but every time you try to close ...

Dr. Paul on the secret to successful first dates.

Spidey's trick for figuring out if a girl is into you online.

The road to monogamy is paved with good MLTRs.

It's always good to know what your options are ...

Cliff's List interviews Jeremy Soul.

How to seduce a girl and get her boyfriend to buy you a drink.

Becoming a better pick up artist starts with becoming a better man.

How to join the Mile High Club with minimal game.

Girls will always go home with a gay guy ...

Cliff's List readers respond to Barron.

Why too much confidence can be a bad thing.

How to seduce a girl in less than an hour.

Intriguee reviews a weekend boot camp in Sydney with Brent.

A Cliff's List reader is disillusioned with the Seduction Community.

In 2010, there's really no such thing as a blind date anymore.

Ever get the feeling that you're only attracting the girls you don't really want ? Here's the reason.

If you're not attractive, why bother trying to seduce women ?

Boring conversations ? You may not have to change what you say … just how you say it.

A skillful pick up artist doesn't just know how to seduce women … he knows how to keep them from getting away.

Why you should always call at least twice.

Being a “nice guy” has its perks.

How to make a high-powered CEO jealous of a waitress.

If you're feeling too lazy to go out, here's why you should reconsider.

Sticky Fingers pulls off a seduction with virtually nothing but text messages.

How to get your girlfriend hooked on threesomes.

Sticky Fingers seeks advice about a girl in a sticky situation.

When it comes to seduction, sometimes less is more.

Sticky Fingers' quest to improve his dance floor game.

The 7 biggest problems shy guys face when dealing with women.

If you want to have a same night lay, you need to know what signs to look for.

The adventures of an elderly man who is into college girls.

Why you should never go to too many afterparties.

The only thing separating you from success is experience … and the only thing separating you from experience is success. How to break the vicious circle.

Why Sin never uses routines … and why you shouldn't, either.

Adam Gilad on the importance of good housekeeping.

How to get a stripper's number … the easy way.

A great list of pick up lines for texting.

Pick up these days seems so complicated … but it's really very simple.

Rob Judge on the five “phases” of a developing pick up artist.

DRH covers the basics of dance floor seduction.

Brad P. shares three new openers and gives advice on how to use them effectively.

TheLetter weighs in on the wing debate with a solution he calls Tandem Soloing.

Why seduction at the gym is better than seduction in the club.

Why a simple dinner date is a minefield of screening and tests … and how you can successfully navigate it.

Coach Bill on the 3 most important things you need when meeting women.

Kevin Feng makes time in his busy work schedule to pick up girls.

If you're looking to score a perfect 10, the local club is the wrong place to look.

Swinggcat's detailed guide to changing a girl's self-image and getting her into your reality.

Kevin Feng recounts one of the easiest pick ups in history.

Entropy lists the top 3 habits of the most successful pick up artists.

Mr. M's strategies for successful phone and text seduction.

Christian Hudson takes a fresh look at the question of what creates attraction in women.

Kevin Feng discusses the advantages of going out with a group of women.

A regular guy shares his story with the seduction community.

Newly monogamous New York playboy Paul Janka gives his thoughts on why a man might want to leave the game.

Asian Playboy reveals three easy steps for avoiding the friend zone.

Cliff's List readers reply to a post from Mark of LA.

Feel like your game is missing something ? Saying all the right things, but getting none of the results ? Find out how mad dogs evolved to avoid predators and pick up women.

Everybody knows that, when it comes to the art of seduction, a wingman is your closest ally, right ? Wrong ! Aaron Sleazy reveals why sarging with a wingman may be more trouble than it's worth.

Is Carlos Xuma a mind reader ? Is your target thinking about changing her toothpaste ? What does buckshot have to do with seduction ? These and other mysteries explained !

A Cliff's List reader discovers that enlarging your penis isn't all that different from picking up girls.

Scot McKay gives all aspiring pickup artists some valuable advice regarding women's “tests” … they might not be what you think.

Mark of L.A.'s call to action for Cliff's List readers and the Seduction Community as a whole

How Zardoz exemplifies the bartender's innate powers of seduction

David Shade shares the one simple secret behind everything he teaches on the subject of giving women amazing sex and full body orgasms.

Carlos Xuma responds to Noodleboy's approach anxiety problem. Six rock-solid rules for beating your approach anxiety and strengthening your seduction skills.

Etienne Charland lists the top ten mistakes guys make with women, and Noodleboy seeks advice from experts on opening to overcome his approach anxiety.

Number closing with the help of local law enforcement. Never feel rejected again.

A beginner's question for the seduction community, and thoughts on the use of Speed Seduction patterns and poems in seduction.

If the seduction is going well, under no circumstances should you ask for her Facebook !

Cliff's List exclusive interview with the master of fast seduction, Sleazy !

Midasthemadhatter drops his pearls of wisdom on married women and seduction.

Boring venues, cockteasers, gay friends, drama queens ... will Sleazy ever get a blowjob ? Here's what happens when a man with the right attitude meets a girl with the wrong priorities. Also, GameMaster reveals Kentucky's best-kept secret. It may not be fried chicken, but it's finger-lickin' good.

Next time you go to a party in Japan, dress up as a butler. Sound silly ? Maybe so, but it's a great way to meet asian women. Of course, it helps if you've got a collection of furs and are an expert at "lightning game," but the good news is, you don't have to be Asian. Threesome stories are only the beginning ... pretty soon, you'll be having baristas for breakfast.

Is he her boyfriend ? Is she his girlfriend ? Maybe the question you should be asking yourself is ... does it matter ? Carlos Xuma shares some tactics for knowing when she's “just not that into” the guy she's with. Plus, Sasha's “no excuses” policy for approaching. No time to pick up girls ? Who needs time ? Approach !

Zardoz's seduction manual: from the art of approaching to making the close, Zardoz explores female psychology and explains why many of the most well-known seduction techniques actually work. Whether you are new to the seduction community or an experienced pickup artist, this step-by-step guide to picking up women is a must-read.

Scot McKay tells us how to kiss a woman for the first time ... simply by knowing your town like the back of your hand. Dating is just easier when you never run out of dating ideas ! Get insecure girls offering sex and strangers offering condoms, even with low energy and a sore throat. L-I-Te demonstrates the power of positive thinking.

Papa of Real Social Dynamics tells how he got involved in the seduction community and became the master pickup artist he is today. IceDragon comments on the importance of emotional stability, both in seduction and in relationship maintenance. Zardoz proves that age doesn't matter ... at least, if the girl hasn't had sex in six months.

Spidey interviews Steve P., master of hypnosis, orgasm techniques, tantric sex, and the female body. If you've ever wanted to know how to make a woman orgasm throughout her entire body, you'll want to read this interview ! Also, Dennis comments on why "going outside your comfort zone" when it comes to picking up women can be a geographical as well as psychological shift.

Think there's more to life than picking up women ? Why Hoobie wouldn't trade his skills as a pickup artist for all the money in the world. And maybe you feel you've really accomplished something if she talks to you for an hour. But the truth is, she just wants to use you for sex.

It's okay to be a pervert. Even strippers do it. Pick up girls tonight, or I'll burn $100 of your hard-earned money in front of your face ! If you meet married women at a bar, invite them back to your place to watch cartoons.

Sex does not necessarily equal happiness. Can you even tolerate her long enough for a same night lay ? Can't understand why she's dating an ugly guy ? Maybe she can't understand why you're not dating a skydiver. And you can easily learn how to be a player ... if you're a steroid-using pervert who fakes porn auditions to get women naked.

It's time to put the "community" back in the "seduction community." What do you look for in a wingman ? Less talk ... more seduction. SIN lays out the foundations of reading body language, and Etienne comments on abundance mentality. The more you give, the more you get.

You might think you want to have sex with her, but you're wrong. You might think you're in the game to seduce women, but you're not. That's right ... you have ulterior motives. You just have to find out what they are. If your girlfriend is psychic, you'd better make sure you're thinking about sex at all times. Also, two universal truths of inner game. Seduction based on your life.

Day 3 is for people who can't get what they want on day 1. How to get your friend's permission to steal a girl when he won't close the deal. Give a little value, get a little sex.

Nice guys pick up girls, bad boys whine and talk about philosophy. Persian Player's advice on cold approaches: mentally challenged guys asking for toothbrushes can be an asset. And so what if she's a drunk, coked-up manic depressive with multiple-personality disorder who can't remember her last STD screening ? She's, like, a 9.5 !

Midasthemadhatter thinks about ex-girlfriends while Cory Skyy protests the Internet. Who needs sex when you can give her a ten-minute orgasm at a family restaurant? IceDragon touches a girl's medicine balls; Kelly Monaco touches a guy's bottle. Be on the lookout for expensive watches. Zardoz talks during a movie.

This issue of Cliff's List features Scot McKay's guide to provoking feline utterances, Spidey's challenge to the challenged, and some guy in the military who gets ignored on Facebook. Find out why Persian Player isn't ashamed of his stomach, why Etienne doesn't get confused, how iceman_MTL broke a camel's back, and why Zardoz is feared for his power. Also, how to address your woman when you're home late after a night out with the guys. More guts, or more balls? Just pray there aren't any heroic dogs around.

So what if she's tantalizingly hot? IceDragon's never letting any woman drive his car again. Sasha concludes his day game opening guide aided by a comedian with a massive nose. Shit your pants and still pick up girls. Spidey thinks of a bartender for more than five minutes, and Cory Skyy weans you off the blanket that's behind the brick wall that's in your head. And be sure to check out Patrick's vintage sex guide. Not your grandfather's Kama Sutra...or is it?

Sasha hates to run, and uses that to his advantage in the second part of his day game opening guide. David Shade gives us the three truisms of mental foreplay. Cory Skyy teaches guys not to get numbers, and Persian Player seduces a girl with a cigar (no, you haven't heard this story before.) Also, paper-pushing tax officer, or sleek, highly-skilled agent busting corporate criminals? It's all in how you present yourself, says Ice Dragon. And Greggarious gives his thoughts on a juicy topic. Squirting leads to enlightenment? Just like in the fairy tales!

In this issue, Cory Skyy warns that your ship won't just “drift into port” (not quite the heavy-handed metaphor you're imagining.) T-Dub explains how to get your ex back by telling her “thanks” for nothing. Sasha details openers to avoid, unless girls regularly ask if you can fuck as well as you can whistle. Dewey advocates knowing what you want, Noodleboy covers the finer points of squirting, and Diehard spends eight months on a bus for one night with a girl.

Rapport is a word you hear everywhere these days. DJ gives us a much-needed analysis of rapport: what it actually means, the various types, the various stages. Not just for seduction, but for any kind of connection! Ice Dragon covers all the essential points of nightclub game, and then illustrates them with his own field report. Persian Player gives us the lay report sequel to his "FR: It may be Love." Find out how he finally succeeds in getting a girl with a boyfriend of ten years into his bed.

Brad P. gives his views on keyboard jockies: guys who spend too much time collecting information and not enough time putting it into practice. The bottom line? Guys who read the most get laid the least. Are you a keyboard jockey? Read on to find out.

Trying to pick up girls at school is not usually the best idea...unless she's been living with her boyfriend for the past ten years.

Not sure how to talk to a girl ? Maybe you should just shut up.

Who chases, men or women ? Both of the above.

If you've ever wanted to seduce an erotic massotherapist, Persian Player has blazed the trail. And forget your routines. Zardoz will show you how to be in state constantly.

Meet Dr. Yen, sniper. Master of vantage point. If you're going to bars and clubs to meet women, then Carlos Xuma suggests changing a different kind of vantage point. Milachku conquers threesome resistance, and Rion Williams shares the joy of SIM cards ... your international local phone number that lets you pick up girls in virually any country !

Can you boast a 9.8% number-to-lay rate ? If the answer is no, then you need to read our interview with a guy who can: Paul Janka. Never pay for dinner again.

Oliver Turner reveals the deadly sins of day game, and Frank Kermit weighs in on the ethics of pursuing women with boyfriends.

IceDragon debunks the myth of routines, and Johnny Soporno comments on real value of Inner Game. Also, the proper use of "afterplay."

Women want what they can't have, guys want what they can't talk to. Crossing the seduction brigde takes some getting used to.

How to pick up a girl in her office.

Johnny Soporno's Seductive Reasoning reviewed.

The biggest mistakes guys make with online dating.

How to get your girlfriend into anal sex.

Science reveals some shocking truths about DNA and female infidelity.

Alex Allman on what intimacy really means for a woman. Hint: she should be using four letter words.

While in Toronto for the Real Social Dynamics seminar, Persian Player learns a valuable lesson about last minute resistance.

How an average but mature man can pick up super-hot MILFs without an agenda or fear of strangers ... using nothing but a tie.

Alex Allman's anytime, anywhere, guaranteed 3-step orgasm method.

Why you should be mastering how to pick up 5s and 6s instead of 10s.

Persian Player on the art of street approaches. You'll never want to pick up girls in clubs again.

Ciaran calls it the pinnacle of direct game, the ultimate way to pick up girls. Prepare for Shock and Awe.

Women don't want nice guys or bad boys ... but they may want you to be a bit more selfish.

Carlos Xuma reinvents the traditional dating advice concept of "Just be yourself."

Carlos Xuma on how to talk to girls about past relationships.

Why you should ... and shouldn't ... be out getting phone numbers.

Ever been LJBF'd ? Qubert has ... and here's how he beat it.

Milachku explores the "slow track" concept.

Who needs routines when you know how to speak directly to a woman's emotions ?

Savoy's Love Systems Relationship Management Seminar reviewed.

What do women find more seductive ? Respect ? Or revenge ?

Want to seduce a stripper ? Make your girlfriend squirt.

Dr. Alex Benzer on the importance of self-love to any relationship.

What the "experts" don't want you to know about Approach Anxiety ... and how you can be free of it, right now, forever.

Ever get dating advice from friends and family who clearly aren't qualified ? Scot McKay analyzes the most common kernels of dating wisdom, and exposes what's really behind them.

Dr. Henry Jekyll covers the 49 Laws of Excellence ... in seduction and everything else.

Rock-solid masculinity is possible for any man. Here is how you can achieve it.

Boy meets girl, boy pulls girl, boy field reports girl...girl field reports boy.

Reviews of Frank Kermit's "Everything Out of Her Mouth Is a Test" and Michael Marks the Dating Wizard. Johnny Soporno on turning friends into girlfriends; Carlos Xuma on managing fear.

The latest news from the Men's Sexual Liberation Front

How David DeAngelo changed the life of an aspiring young pick up artist.

RSD Foundations reviewed. Carlos Xuma on why affirmations don't work.

Wanna date a 10 ? Are you sure ? Here's why you might want to think twice.

Is your girlfriend thinking about dumping you ? You should be proud of her.

The adventures of Cliff and Payton Kane in the Dominican Republic.

The Stylelife Challenge winner recounts his Intensive Inner Game training with Hypnotica, Steve Piccus, and Cameron Teone.

The best cure for approach anxiety just might be the biggest mistake you ever make.

Michael Marks on why you'll never drive her nuts with your big car and your college degree.

Carlos Xuma advises young Alpha Males in training: sometimes it's okay if she flakes.

Michael Marks on the dynamics of attraction and superiority.

Review of the RSD London Superconference; Brad P. on why you have to work less (as in, quit your job. Now.)

Good looking guys have trouble getting laid, too ... even when they make David DeAngelo look like Stephen Hawking.

Any pick up artist can learn the tricks that will get a woman into his bed. But a true seducer actually knows about the women he seduces.

A Cliff's list reader reviews the Dr. Paul seminar.

A Cliff's List Reader reviews the Cliff's List Convention 2006.

How to pick up a movie star in front of her friends.

Why society doesn't want you getting good at your inner game.

A Cliff's List reader recounts his adventures with Elvis in the Dominican Republic.

The Bruce Lee of the Seduction Community, Carlos Xuma, shares his philosophy of “Jeet Kune Dating,” and offers a cure for the “six diseases of seduction.”

Don't let her show you who's boss. So what if she's cheating with the gardener and took your toolbox ? No rain, no rainbows.

Badboy's advice on establishing MLTRs.

Dr. Alex Benzer on the single biggest challenge to dating and relationships.

Dr. Alex Benzer on why you shouldn't care...about anything. In fact, you should even stop trying to.

Shark lays out the hard path toward healing for gay aliens and ball busters. Learn a fancy way to say “one-itis.” Make her parents hate you. She'll love it.

Kirin reviews Carlos Xuma's Alpha Man Immersion weekend intensive.

The real secret to getting girls to approach you.

Interview with Asian Playboy.

Review of Alan Roger Currie's Mode One.

How a short, bald, skinny, language-challenged, middle-aged Asian man gets his game on with girls in their late teens.

Another review of Zan Perrion's seminar.

Elvis is questioned; Zan Perrion is not. Frank Kermit on the pain of success.

The continued story of the Cliff's List reader who met Elvis.

A Cliff's List Reader recounts his experiences with Elvis.

Carlos Xuma on creating romantic obstacles.

Ross Jeffries criticizes Carlos Xuma for "fortune cookie" advice.

Carlos Xuma exposes the Hollywood myth of the "Player."

Cliff's List readers review Zan Perrion's seminar.

More Ross Jeffries - Payton Kane mutual lambasting.

Ross Jeffries lambasts Payton Kane, and Payton Kane lambasts back.

The adventures of Cliff and Payton Kane in Puerto Vallarta.

Rion Williams on what "American Pie" can teach us about pick up and contemporary culture.

Dr. Alex Benzer on understanding the mind of a beautiful woman.

Cameron's definitive guide to understanding the differences between direct and indirect game.

Ross Jeffries agrees with Carlos Xuma; Dr. Alex Benzer on the seductive allure of self-sufficiency.

VIP status from tipping the bouncers and waitresses ? Here's an even better way to do it ...

Cliff's List readers review the Shark CD set and Attract and Date, and get a female opinion on The Game.

Review of Badboy's bootcamp. Carlos Xuma on choice and the search for more options.

Cliff's List interview with Elvis Preston King.

Dwacon achieves mixed results shooting sexual energy at random girls.

Can't think of an opener ? Total nonsense will usually do.

More reviews of the Cliff's List Convention; how IN10SE deals with last minute resistance.

Style picks up Britney Spears.

The reviews are in ! Read all about the Cliff's List Convention from Cliff's List readers who were there !

Media coverage of the Cliff's List Convention.

Ovulu's guide to authority: why you need it, and how to get it.

Ross Jeffries interviews a guru master.

Alek reviews the Fidentia workshop.

Carlos Xuma sets the record straight about what it means to be "Alpha."

Cameron on the real purpose of becoming socially adept; Carlos Xuma, a guru master and others respond to Mark B. on whether or not attraction is physical.

A guru master masters the art of scoring threesomes.

David Shade tells all: the renowned sex guru reveals how he started off as a lonely guy just surviving divorce and discovered how to make a woman orgasm in ways she never thought possible.

Ross Jeffries and David DeAngelo agree—for once—on being careful in choosing a teacher.

David DeAngelo clarifies what he means by "Attraction is not a choice."

How will other men react to your three-way make outs ? Manage envy if they're white; field “mad props” if they're black. Seducer vs. schizo: when she's not attracted to you, but she wishes she was.

In this issue, Style presents his guide to being a total asshole—or, rather, his guide to picking up women with online personals.

Ross Jeffries, Mark B., a guru master and others comment on the Sean Stephenson interview.

Cliff's List interviews the "3 Foot Giant" himself, Sean Stephenson.

A little dirty talk never hurt anyone ... did it ?

Cliff interviews Ross Jeffries, the self-proclaimed Father of the Seduction Community !

Tyler Durden on how to blow her off the right way.

Models don't have to be insulted, and strippers are people, too.

Could this be the worst pick up line ever ?

Girls fall for the lamest pick up lines.

Cliff's List interviews Carlos Xuma, author of the Dating Black Book and Secrets of the Alpha Man.

Don't care what women think ? Maybe you're doing it wrong ...

How to tell a girl you're in love with someone else ... and keep her.

Why a guru master feels like the hottest girl in Montreal.

How to pick up a girl on a subway. Turn your weaknesses to advantages.

Dwacon humps a dancer and inadvertantly triggers an avalanche of attraction in every woman he meets.

Cliff's List interview with Stephen (Playboy LA from "The Game").

Brian finds himself in unexpected circumstances.

How the man who has everything loses it all, gets it all back, and gets laid in the process.

Lovedrop and others review the Shark material.

Get opened by an Indian girl and close her in 10 simple steps.

Why being happy is more important than being healthy.

Veroxii's pick up method.

Cliff interviews Doc, the master of MLTRs.

How Papa scored a kiss close from Paris Hilton.

Cliff's List interview with Steve P.

Jeffy of Real Social Dynamics scores his first threesome.

Brother Frank Kermit's adventures in Vermont.

Being a jerk vs. being a jerk: Shane questions, Mark B. clarifies. Moodiness vs. snottiness: Gregory Rasputin has a solution for both. RL reviews the Real Social Dynamics bootcamp.

Real pick up artists don't eat microwaved food and have better things on their mind than threesomes.

Is Ross Jeffries really the only guru teaching proper inner game ?

Tyler Durden gets pregnant at the Double Your Dating Seminar in Sydney. Carlos Xuma replies to Mark B. about neediness and the importance of looks. Seduction tactics are sleazy, manipulative, and fake: Ole Flirty Bastard explains why that's a good thing. According to Thundercat, the biggest challenges in approaching women are—laziness and fear of loss ? Meanwhile, a local guru master gets dragged to McDonald's

Chariot reviews the Real Social Dynamics Seminar in Sydney.

Every girl has a little devil inside her, just waiting to be unleashed ...

TylerD offers some solid advice on when not to act like a stripper, Genemachine reviews the Real Social Dynamics Seminar, and Ish takes an instant popularity pill.

Cliff's List readers review RSD's live programs and share tactics for spying on spouses.

Top hats, bandages, condoms, and K-Mart ... and if you're still out of ideas, practice your seduction skills on a bum. Thundercat's Tale of Woe, or, How and Why to Approach a Battletoad. Xaneus makes a stripper cry 5 times in a single night.

Is it a golden key ? Or a silver bullet ? If seduction fails, give her a nervous breakdown. Style has to choose between a girl and his coat. Ross's solution ? Bang the girl and buy a new coat. And if you want to be a pick up artist, you have to accept a little discomfort. We can't all start out with anatomically incorrect Ken dolls.

Presto-change-o sex magic vs. positive suggestion sex magic: when a great piece of ass is a waste of energy.

You can stick to using routines on girls ... or you can seek to transform the lives of everyone you meet, forever.

The basic principles of Pimpology.

Swinggcat on the rules of qualifying and challenging, push-pull, reframing shit tests, and not having a threesome.

How pickup artists spend the New Year.

Ross Jeffries dispels some poisonous ideas about women, and Papa gets lucky on a Party Bus with the help of Mystery Method.

How a speech-impaired pick up artist seduces girls with a note pad.

Can average-looking girl be a pick up artist? Cliff's List readers offer a variety of opinions, from “Maybe if you learn how to deep throat” to “Even a dog-faced Russian babushka can do it.”

The seduction community misunderstands the true appeal of the badboy.

Who would you pick up: one girl who wants to be your girlfriend ? Or a group of girls who don't ?

Zan Perrion recounts his seductive adventures.

All about Zan Perrion.

Why some guys can just walk into a bar, grab any woman they want, and leave with her.

"Just be yourself" would be great dating advice if only more guys knew how.

Maybe all this Seduction Community wisdom about not paying for drinks and dinner is wrong after all ...

Think rock stars have it easy ? You only know half the story ...

Why being a true alpha male makes other men hate you.

GameMaster sets the record straight about his philosophy ... and everything else.

Dr. Alex Benzer's now famous metaphor for why you absolutely don't need money, fame, or power to succeed with women.

How girls react to being told your dog is more important than they are.

Why GameMaster can take any man's woman, and there's not a thing they can do about it.

Ovulu's two-stage seduction process, which involves talking about sex as little as possible. NightLight9's basic rules of winging. How to use Speed Seduction on a lawyer. If you're always attracting girls who love drama, maybe you love drama yourself.

Girls face off over GameMaster just like in an old western.

If a guy answers the phone, don't let your limiting beliefs get in the way.

The cursed ring that can seduce any woman ... even if she knows you're gaming her.

Review of Mystery's workshop in Montreal.

Mark B. on non-verbal seduction.

Ross Jeffries gets a lot of pussy ... and you would, too, if you had so many affectionate cats. Want to seduce older women ? Send them pictures of your big cock ... from a poultry website. Had enough of the puns ? Find out why women call Ross Jeffries “the lizard.”

How one highly-skilled pick up artist overcame a lifetime of prejudice.

Why you should never believe what your girlfriend tells you about her ex boyfriends.

GameMaster's guide to star signs and sex.

Why sex talk is effective even when she doesn't speak English.

GameMaster's tale of a blind date gone horribly wrong.

What would you do if a professional baseball player stole your target ?

Sometimes, girls find it charming when you compare them to cars.

Conclusion to the review of the Mystery Method workshop in San Francisco, where brides blush, boyfriends are destroyed, dragons are kinoed, and evil is embraced.

A review of Mystery's workshop in San Francisco.

Six men walk into a bar for the Mystery Method workshop. Mystery shows up twenty minutes late, notices the bartender is an 8.5. He does some routines, levitates a plastic cup, but can't close the deal. So Mystery says to the bartender, “The only reason you're acting like this is because you aren't seeing me with my social proof !”

A highly effective method of online seduction.

If you're picking up girls at the gym, you need to lighten up.

Women can neg the target, too.

Women are looking for honest men ... the "your skirt makes me want you" kind of honesty.

You can learn a lot about seduction from politicians ... both good and bad.

If you don't have looks ... then what do you have ? Find out what your strengths are.

Why Mystery is the Sherlock Holmes of seduciton.

Would you approach a 6 set and tell your target that you want her directly in front of her boyfriend ?

Can you learn anything about seduction from watching porn ?

Mystery tells guys to stop posting on Cliff's List.

Surprising seduction advice: be the most low-key guy in the room, and ask her about her job.

Ciz on diet and sexual performance: foods youy can eat to last longer, stay harder, and have more energy.

A review of Mystery's Sex Magic Workshop.

Mike Tyson, the prototypical pick up artist. Why forty foot men don't go to jail. “Cool:” another word for “good looking.” Maybe your mother wasn't lying after all.

Ross Jeffries' review of the Kenxtions System.

Seduction by compliment: don't just affirm what she already knows... give her a genuine expression of what she does to you.

Ross Jeffries discovers the benefits of being photogenic in online personals.

The right way to play "Strip Heads or Tails."

The benefits of exercising your love muscle (and no, it's not what you're thinking).

Why Mark B. tells girls that he jerks off ... and why they love it.

Swinggcat's guide to using Speed Seduction in bars.

In defense of the Mystery Method; beware unmarried women over the age of 32; practice your skills by sarging with AFC friends.

The four types of men women are most attracted to ... and the one type they despise.

Are pick up systems designed to be helpful ? Or just to be sold ?

How Mark B. learned to achieve the success he enjoys today; a statistical look at seduction.

When arranging threesomes with bisexual women from the midwest, always remember ... you're not in LA anymore.

Why do you try to sell yourself so hard ? Because you keep buying into your limitations and selling yourself ... short. Why Ross Jeffries doesn't spend time with children. The only way to conquer fear is by repetition. Intellectualizing won't help.

The sexual benefits of eating oat meal and playing sports.

How to keep a woman: be more like heroine, less like the nicotine patch.

Ross Jeffries on the mechanics of triggering attraction.

Mystery lays out the basics of Group Theory.

Ross Jeffries and Mark discuss the nature of attraction.

Ross Jeffries' guide to dealing with flakes.

Mark on women in relationships, Speed Seduction and NLP, and the difference (percentage wise) that looks make.

You can work hard to get rich and famous ... or you can learn to make women hallucinate and orgasm just by talking to them.

Nothing goes together like seduction and confusion.

Don't be scared of leaving seductive messages ... on her mother's answering machine.

Lots of women want to kiss you; you just have to find out which ones. The key success factor in seduction (hint: it's not “cocky and funny.”) I realize I'm not fat, but could you see yourself being attracted to me ? Yes, Virginia, there is such a thing as rejection.

Want to seduce women ? All you have to do is open your mouth and talk.

Dwacon scores success even without a wingman.

Like a professional musician, a pick up artist must forget what he's doing in order to attain mastery.

Why the bratty sister frame is only good for girls who are too immature for real seduction.

Is pimping the ultimate form of pick up ? And why do well dressed women snub guys in suits ?

What's wrong with Bucky ? Dr. Ross Jeffries' diagnosis: forget the phone close.

Running the cube at an Indian Wedding can have unexpected consequences.

Manipulation, deception, seduction, and self-improvement

More Cliff's List readers on David X; Marcus shares his frame for open relationships.

Embedded commands are easier to master than you think !

A guru master on how to seduce religious women.

The proper use of self-talk in learning seduction. Don't say don't.

Sister seduction secrets ... or, how to show loving concern for your LTR's sibling when she's having problems with men. And when you get tired of her sister, there's always her best friend.

NightLight9's "Hitting On Me Connection Pattern."

Ross Jeffries recounts his meeting with David X.

A guru master and Formhandle discuss their impressions of David X.

Want to pick up girls and feel great all day ? Have some egg whites with your oatmeal.

The ultimate solution to the age difference problem.

David Shade on why married women have affairs.

A guru master explains how he picked up his girlfriend.

Mystery discourages artists; Ross Jeffries defends self-improvement; a guru master defines control.

Seduction techniques are no substitute for personality. If you're boring, you'd better get a lawyer.

What pimps, porn stars, politicians, athletes, late bloomers and selfish people have in common ... and how you can appeal to their sense of higher purpose.

Shark attempts to unify all schools of pick up with what he calls the "Linux" of seduction.

Mark on seducing black women, eating right, and trying a guru master's pick up lines.

A guru master compiles a master list of negs to demonstrate how they work.

A review of David X's seminar; Ross Jeffries comments.

Ross on body language; a guru master on David X.

Ross Jeffries provides guidelines for telling women that you're gay and seducing them.

Where's your favorite place to sarge ? The bus stop ? The mall ? How Ross Jeffries seduces black women and deals with his enemies.

a guru master presents his "shallowness buster."

Ross replies to David DeAngelo on the issue of power in relationships.

David DeAngelo on power, relationships, and treating a girl like your bratty little sister.

Cliff's List readers respond to "Blow Job Etiquette."

Careful with your funny bone, lest it misfire. Whether she's a Sunday school teacher or a $1000 a night hooker, she should make you want to “pass her that book.” Energy-building methods for psychic seduction techniques. Sometimes, being a pick up artist is like buying a dog. If you get one that's eager to please, then the training is easy.

Mystery the pick up artist introduces his “envy theory” to the seduction community, and Cliff's List readers offer a variety of insights and comments.

Cliff finds out what happened to Claude. Ross Jeffries explains just how ugly he is (and why it doesn't matter).

Want to free a married woman from the guilt of cheating on her husband ? Ask her how to put a giraffe in a refrigerator.

Ross Jeffries' guide to seducing women under 25.

Know what kind of lover a girl is by her favorite color !

Seduction is for girls. Everything David DeAngelo needed to know about picking up girls he learned from Assman.

Cultivate her inner bitch. Is she acting like an asshole ? Encourage her ! David DeAngelo doles out the compliments, and Ross Jeffries reads one handed. Masturbate 30-40 times a day and call me in a week.

If you're in a bar with Brad Pitt's twin and aliens land, forcing the women to choose to have sex with one of you or die, here's how to make sure they pick you. Ross Jeffries defends the penis against claims of misogyny. Why you definitely don't want to be her type.

The infamous Cube routine.

Feminist men vs. Ross Jeffries: are women really nothing more than acronyms ? David DeAngelo defends his bathing habits, and David Shade debunks “touchy feely” squirting methods. Why a natural pickup artist can sometimes get bogged down by his own seduction techniques.

Is David DeAngelo wrong ? Do women care if you smell ? Does NLP really work ? A letter to Ross Jeffries from a Cliff's List reader.

Why Ross Jeffries knows everything about NLP, and always uses it.

How to master cold reading: suggested resources.

Why David DeAngelo knows everything about NLP and doesn't use it.

What scholars and AFCs have in common. Rasputin's "marriage destroyer."

Ross Jeffries reviews. David DeAngelo on looks. Even bouncers get approach anxiety.

Mark lays it on the line proves his method works. Or is he just that good looking ?

Don't overcomplicate the seduction process. Do not compliment strippers.

Mark refines the game of picking up strippers; Mystery comments on "A Stunningly Beautiful Woman."

Forget night clubs; stick to picking up strippers.

What happens when your 19 year old daughter catches you using Speed Seduction patterns?

The Swingers rules. 15 laws of seduction.

The three phases of Speed Seduction, and an explanation of Speed Seduction patterns. There's always a little sadomasochism involved in being a pickup artist. You can't meet her halfway if you want to go all the way.

The ultimate method for dealing with flakes.

What a basketball coach can teach you about seduction. How to pick up a girl in front of her boyfriend.

David DeAngelo on the six critical mistakes men make with women, and what to do about them.

How to seduce with silence.

A variation on the boyfriend destroyer. Ross Jeffries comments on David X.

The rules of David X.

Why you need to pick up a bartender today.

Think it's easy to game language challenged foreigners ? You'd better ask yourself who's gaming whom.

Making the journey from Omega to Alpha.

Ross Jeffries on authority, obediance, and why you don't need biology to explain either one.

A woman's perspective on Swinggcat's sarge. Do women know Speed Seduction ? Is Swinggcat an underwear model ? The truth will shock you.

Swinggcat's first post on Cliff's List, all about how he picks up a girl at Barnes & Noble.

How Ross Jeffries turns girls fat when they stand him up.

The celebrated seduction techniques of Don Juan, Sun Tsu, and Ronald Regan. She may look 18, but that's 36 in girl years. Be grateful that she has a boyfriend. It gives her something to do when she's not with you.

A review of David Shade's sex manual.

Mystery on Cat Theory.

Boyfriends destroyed. Nothing attracts women like women. Ross Jeffries explains.

Think you're going to seduce her with your sad love poems ? Word of advice: girls read poetry. So for those of you planning to use poems in seduction, make sure you actually write them yourself. Also, why hot chicks don't like sex. At least, not in online personals.

Online Dating scams exposed. Girls respond well to stolen poetry when they're just pushing a multi-level marketing scheme.

David Shade explains why women cry after orgasming, and how to make them do so by hypnotic suggestion.

The Orgasmatron ... and how to use it.

Mystery on why you should give emotionally damaged girls a chance.

Ross Jeffries exposes Mystery's irrational rationalism.

Mystery explains how to simplify your mental model for greater efficiency.

Is Speed Seduction really just for dabblers ?

The adventures of David Shade and the remote controlled dildo.

Should you actually use a car to get laid ?

Ross Jeffries on why hot girls are so angry; Mystery on why guys might want to date strippers; how GameMaster stopped thinking about his ex.

Ross Jeffries thinks that Mystery may be trying a little too hard.

Mystery the pick up artist on stripper seduction, being a bad boy, and more.

Ross Jeffries on stripper seduction ... how you should, and why you shouldn't.

A Cliff's List reader seeks advice on seducing strippers; Ross Jeffries defends state.

Mystery finally shares his opinion on "state," and exlpains why PUA is a performing art.

A male perspective on the "sex on the first date" issue.

Ross Jeffries on the finer points of relating to super hotties and becoming part of their inner circle.

Why 10s have less choice than 7s.

Rude women are everywhere these days. Are they worth the trouble ? Or should just you simply bust their bad behavior and move on ?

You've just got to seduce your girlfriend back ? Make her cry. Have sex with her former best friend. Show her videos of you and her ... and videos of you with your ex. Make her read fifteen page stories about reunited lovers. And if she asks you to wait for her until she has another baby ? Send us the link to her new porn site.

How to handle boyfriend objections, the Speed Seduction way.

The debate over negging continues.

The latest installment in the ongoing debate about who has the better seduction method: Ross Jeffries or Mystery. Is Speed Seduction just about making her feel good ? Does the Mystery Method succeed because Mystery is a prettyboy ? Are we dealing with a straw man, or a slippery slope ? Is this even a productive dialogue ?

Want to get laid ? Forget the cologne: just chop up some cucumbers and open a bag of Good & Plenty.

The differences between Speed Seduction and the Mystery Method.

Mystery defends neg theory from its various detractors.

45 Rules of Manhood, and the seductive allure of nonsense.

GameMaster offers some online dating advice: when meeting women online, they will often ask you for a picture. If you're worried about your looks putting them off, here's how to reframe them.

Ross Jeffries accepts Mystery's challenge.

David DeAngelo shares more seduction wisdom.

So what do you do for fun ? -- Who, me ? Oh, the usual ... sports, cars, seducing girls ...

Mystery challenges all pick up artists to the ultimate contest of skill.

David DeAngelo's phone game tactics.

Ass grabbing seduction techniques. Do not try this at home.

Ross Jeffries and Mystery agree: the game is better in real life than online.

David DeAngelo on the selling points of online game. Want to be a seducer? Go to church.

David Shade on the finer points of suggestible women, long term relationships, and hypnosis.

David DeAngelo discusses the difference between being cocky-and-funny and just being a jerk.

A kiss close routine as easy as shooting fish in a barrel ... or at least putting them in an aquarium.

Cliff and OHW on the importance of looks to seduction.

A true seducer holds the key to her imagination.

What strippers really think, how models really feel, and what women really know about seduction.

If you've been to an ashram, you can probably seduce a stripper just by making her laugh.

The greatest quality a pickup artist can have is flexibility. GameMaster seduces a former Victoria's Secret model.

GameMaster scores a threesome.

A sneaky trick for learning and beating the competition in online dating.

Marc, Ross Jeffries and others reply to David DeAngelo.

More seduction wisdom from David DeAngelo.

GameMaster elaborates on his seduction methods.

How do you define a 10 ?

Valentine's Day with your mother ... and all your girlfriends.

Ross Jeffries on why women are confused. The five star method for getting a girl to call you.

Do you have to make yourself “look cool” just to attract women ? Why your mom is the ultimate wingman.

David DeAngelo develops his ideas further.

Nice guy ? Bad boy ? Maybe you should try being the romantic hero.

The Seduction Community responds to Mystery and David DeAngelo.

Ross Jeffries on seduction: is it about giving them what they think they want ? Or about offering them new and more interesting options ?

Ross Jeffries explains why looks matter, why peacocking works, and why cocky-funny gets the girls.

The subtleties of college campus approach and pick up.

Mystery the pick up artist comments on the seduction advice of David DeAngelo.

The now legendary original post, right here on Cliff's List, that became the David DeAngelo book Double Your Dating.

Happiness is a lot simpler than Mystery makes it out to be.

The Romantic Dinner revisited.

Invite her back to your place for a romantic dinner ... with a cute cook. Mystery on the frustrations of not speaking Russian. Seduction is fun (repeat that 10 times to yourself.)

How to seduce a woman with just a little perfume.

Mystery insults the insult a woman a day theory.

Could Speed Seduction save a marriage ?

Do you really need to be a social climber just to get the girls ?

Want to pick up girls ? Get comfortable chatting up strippers.

Why hookers and married women won't let you kiss them. Mystery comments on what to do if you have to shoot yourself in the foot.

Why you should be insulting at least one woman a day.

Mystery on "blurring."

Mystery on why you can never be happier than you're designed to be.

Even old, fat women have standards ... so the guys that want to seduce them better have, too.

Do AFCs seduce older women because they don't know how to pickup girls in their 20s ?

Why talking to a chick through your car window counts as frame control.

If you want to seduce a supermodel, stop thinking about how hot she is, and ask instead how suggestible she is.

Mystery and Riker defend suburban girls as viable, not-too-screwed-up targets.

Frustration doesn't necessarily lead to anger ... but it can lead to seduction.

Maybe hot girls can be nice people, too.

Relax, I'm just a geek. Wanna try some Speed Seduction patterns ?

Fun facts about pheromones.

When apologizing, minding your verbs is very seductive.

Excuse me ... but that's not a very good opener.

Seriously ... why would anybody want to pick up girls at a bar or club ?

A biker's dirty seduction tricks.

World-famous pickup artist Mystery answers questions on a variety of subjects including storytelling, AMOGing, kiss closes and more.

The surprising benefits of bedding a chubby girl.

Why women don't care about age, looks, height, money, or whether or not you're a bad boy.

When a guy who acts like a girl meets an AFC (Average Frustrated Chick).

Strippers with one kid vs. strippers with two: a tactical distinction.

World-famous sex expert David Shade reveals the mysteries of the female orgasm.

Never buy an unmarked bottle of pheromones from a catalogue ... unless you're into dogs.

Guide to the proper use of pheromones ... better for seduction, or better for sex ?

How (and when) to tell her you're seeing other women.

What's more attractive ... money ? Or ambition ?

Everything you need to know to attract women.

Never treat her like a science experiment on the first date.

The morbid truth about women who love to be hog tied.

Ross Jeffries vs. a hot girl ... who do you relate to ?

The bisexual girl who wasn't.

What's good for the goose is good for the gander, unless the goose is Asian and the gander is white. Who has time to read a book when you can get a blow job in your truck ?

So she laughed at you ? Seduce her sister. Her sister accuses you of trying to seduce her ? Seduce her anyway. But not until you make her pay.

Walk out on your girlfriend and she'll chase you; stay, and she'll start arguments with you so you can show her your indifference.

The seduction techniques of a great kisser: kiss her like she's the most important person in the world, after hypnotizing her with a voodoo dildo.

If you're looking for a girlfriend who smells bad, dresses poorly, and looks dirty, you won't have to look very far.

Get in the friend zone. Take all the power. Arouse passions ... covertly. The female mind won't be able to process it.

If you think twelve weeks of monogamy is outrageous, don't back down. She may go as low as six.

Men love to be told what to do. Want to make love to her? “Quotesify” it.

They don't care how good you smell in the promised land.

Reel them in with romance, keep them aroused with mustache twisting dastardliness.

Get your subscription to the Pick Up Times. For the benefit of mankind.

What is she going to look like when she's 70 ? More importantly, why can't she resist guys with a Masculine pole ?

Let her know that she's a mature adult and that she has to blow you. Away. How to say anything to anyone.

That 6'3 model you're living with? The one you just met three weeks ago? The one that lets you have sex with other women when you're bored? You may be smothering her.

Clifford runs with a dangerous crowd. The seduction techniques of a sexual maniac. Never pay for clothes again.