Seeking advice
Newbie to the game, read "The game", "Double your dating", "The Mystery Method", etc. My internal game, not so good, so my external game is TERRIBLE.
Reconnected with a girl I knew from back in the day. Just connected, but not romantically. She and I talk and hang out and whatever. Tonight, we're talking about sex- just kinda came up. She was bitching about not getting any. If I didn't know better (and I don't) I think she was trying to insinuate I should fill that role. Two questions:
A) Was she trying to get me in her pants? and
B) Did I totally fuck up, and can I salvage it?
Any advice would be appreciated.
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She was both doing an s-test and an IOI
You are trying to over interpret her behavior. She was communicating two thingsto you at the same time, and those two thing were somewhat contradictory. She was indicating her iterest ( IOI
) and she was also testing you to see how you would react. The proper response would have been, on a verbal channel to totally ignore her sexual comments, and on an unconscious or physical channel to communicate yoru physical interest. Really, you shoudl at that point, also perhaps have pulled back slightly so that she would sense your Zen Coolness (See Mystery's new book).
Quit thinking in terms of salvaging it and any particular individual girl. Are you going to see her again? Do you think her state will be the same as that time when she sexualized the conversation? Are you able to communicate to her your coolness and move her to feeling comfortable with you?