First Post and a Serious Sticking Point

a report by Mouse. (view Mouse's blog)November 29, 20093 comments

I'm new to this seduction thing - sort of. I am a senior in college (at one of the most attractive campuses I might add), and I've spent most of my time here tied to the problems and aftermath of a long-term high school relationship. I've been painfully single/girl-less now for months and it's slowly starting to kill me. Before the aforementioned relationship, I was always able to initiate conversation, establish a report, and frequently number close with some less 'intimidating' girls. I had a raw, but natural talent with girls my age, and it got be through high school.
Now that the relationship is safely in the past, I've found myself out of the game for nearly four years and I have seemingly, and hopefully understandably, lost my mojo.
The difference between the game I played as a 17 year-old high school senior and 21 year-old college senior is almost overwhelming. Bars, overnights, school, every aspect of the pick-up has changed before my eyes, and I have become a bumbling terrified fool in front of women - I truly have embodied what it means to be an AFCLook up this term, totally against my will. Now I'm doing something about it. I was told by a friend to read Neil Strauss' (Style's) "The Game" and it has consoled my inner AFCLook up this term, and inspired me to dive into this online community for help. I hope I can find the friends and guru's here to bring out the PUALook up this term that I know I have in me.

So after the long-winded context, here is my first sticking point: My body language.
I am a lanky, pale, 5'7" Harry Potter look alike (glasses and tiny scar on my damn forehead) with...and here's the kicker...turret's syndrome. I squirm and twitch my arms, shake my head, kick my legs, and cramp my stomach at uncontrollable intervals, only made worse by stress. After each twitch or tweak, I typically let out a subtle whimper. I'll let you imagine what being around a nice girl is like. I have ways of making it seem almost normal, but I was looking for a good way to incorporate this into my game so that it doesn't freak out targetLook up this terms, because believe me, it has the potential.

Please hit me with some ideas.

I'm also looking for good routines for the library, studying, and class. Finals are coming up, and it's the best environment to find women. I have some ideas, but am always looking for tips.
Tomorrow I'm going to try and meet a smokin' HB9 from my morning class, and I'll let you all know how it goes for critique.
Tell next time,
Mouse

3 comments

Mouse's picture
Mon, 11/30/2009 - 14:36

Follow-up Field Report

Today i wasn't feeling well, blah blah blah...long story short, I wimped out on the approach to the HB9 from my morning class. She was out the door before I even had a chance to make eye contact. Timing and body placement are definitely something for me to work on.
Nonetheless, I followed some advice I read from Cliff in his: 10 mistakes men make around women (I'm sorry if i butchered the title). I started socializing with everyone. The bus driver, people waiting at the bus stop, stopped individuals in the student union, etc: it's always a simple "How's it going?" followed by an expecting look as if to solicit the same question. If they ask the same, I'm in and make neutral statement, usually something about the day.
While this tactic has gotten me some strange looks and responses, I have found people are generally friendly and happy to talk to a pleasant stranger. This is already helping with some interpersonal confidence and I hope that these skills will transfer to the puLook up this term.
Ideas?
-Mouse

xSamurai's picture
Fri, 12/11/2009 - 02:16

Hey! You're on the right

Hey!
You're on the right track, what your doing at the moment naturally is something i did a year ago to work on my confidence skills. I started a program called "Demonic Confidence" which is a 30 day program, and the whole point of this teaching is to work on your anxiety to approach random people. The "missions" are like Day 1: Ask 20 women for the time. Day 2: Ask 20 women for the time while wearing a watch... etc.
Start with this and after accomplishing this their wont be no need for routines and memorized lines. You will start to notice that you will naturally start talking about situational topics, and those are the best ones .
Let me know how it goes, cause for me it really really helped.

Peace

IRONCROWN's picture
Mon, 12/14/2009 - 20:03

WHY YOU SHOULDN'T BELEIVE EVERY PUA LINGO

I THINK YOU NEVER ATTENDED OR HAD A MATERIAL THAT OF ROSS JEFFRIRES. AFCLook up this term ARE PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT IN CONTROL OF THEIR LIVES. NOW I ASK A QUESTION IS DONALD TRUMP AN AFCLook up this term FOR NOT BEING A PUALook up this term THE ANSWER IS NO. IS GORDON RAMSAY AN AFCLook up this term THE ANSWER IS NO. IS BARACK OBAMA AN AFCLook up this term THE ANSWER IS NO. IS OSAMA BIN LADEN AN AFCLook up this term THE ANSWER IS NO. WHY IS THAT? BECAUSE ALL OF THEM ARE MORE SUCCESSFUL THAN PUALook up this termS AND THEY SHADOW WHAT PUALook up this termS ACCOMPLISHED. IN FACT THEY ARE MORE SEDUCTIVE THAN PUALook up this termS BECAUSE WOMEN DIVE TO THEM ESPECIALLY OSAMA BIN LADEN WHO HAS 40 WIVES AND HAD CHILDREN WITH ALL OF THEM. GUESS WHAT HE NEVER FORCE THEM TO MARRY HIM MUSLIM WOMEN OFFER THEIR PUSSY TO HIM. SEE THAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH THE COMMUNITY THEY THINK IF YOU ARE NOT A PUALook up this term YOU ARE AN AFCLook up this term. IF YOU SAY THAT TO A SUCCESSFUL PERSON THEN YOUR DAMN RIGHT STUPID.

I SUGGEST ALL OF YOU TO GO TO ROSS JEFFRIES SEMINAR BECAUSE THE SEDUCTION COMMUNITY LINGOS ARE QUITE MISUSED BY PEOPLE ESPECIALLY MYSTERY. FOR HIM IF YOU ARE NOT A PUALook up this term YOU ARE AN AFCLook up this term. WELL I DARE HIM TO SAY THAT TO BARACK OBAMA AND I THINK HE DOES NOT HAVE THE GUTS TO SAY IT BECAUSE MORE WOMEN WANT TO OPEN THEIR PUSSIES TO BARACK OBAMA THAN MYSTERY.

THIS IS THE PROBLEM WITH A LOT OF ROOKIE PUALook up this termS THEY EASILY BELIEVED WHAT A LOT OF GURUS SAY AND NEVER DO A LOT OF RESEARCH FOR ITS AUTHENTICATION.

I HAVE BEEN DOING THESE FOR FOUR YEARS AND GOING TO FIVE AND I TELL YOU MOST PEOPLE WHO GET LAID A LOT BY BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ARE NOT EVEN PUALook up this termS SO STOP BELEIVING TOO MUCH OF THE PUALook up this term LINGO. GET A LIFE!!!!!!

ATTEND ROSS JEFFRIES SEMINAR OF SPEED SEDUCTION 3.0 SO THAT HE CAN CLEAR YOUR MIND OF THE PUALook up this term LINGOS.

BY THE WAY HE IS THE ONE WHO INVENTED THE TERM AFCLook up this term AND MOST OF THE LINGOS. FOR HE IS THE FATHER OF MODERN SEDUCTION.

P.S. DO A LOT RESEARCH OF DIFFERENT PUALook up this term COMPANIES AND ATTEND ALL OF THEM WHETHER ONLINE OR IN BOOTCAMPS