# closing problem
yesterday I met a 9 in a taxi i'm not always comfortable with aproaching women with elderly people around ( it's concidered disrespectfull by many of them) and the taxis here are mini busses which carry 10( passengers) so i waited for something to talk to her about. i scanned her up and down for somethinhg to comment on or ask about (the jealous girlfriend opener has been successfull for a few days now but it was becomming monotonous i needed something that would feel fresh so i dont get bored) .
it goes like this:people put their money together and pay collectively this only starts once the taxi is full and the door is closed but while i was reaching for my wallet she tapped my shoulder and gave her money ,she gave me something to talk about i opened with a neg "relax girl whats the rush?"
she hurriedly tries to explain her self i interrupt her with a joke and we have a great conversation she opens up to me and tells me how stressed she is about her dad in hospital ,the taxi breaks down prolonging the conversation.
we discover that we actually have tons in common( i never thought i would have anything in common with a 9) when ever someone else spoke to me or sopmething happened outside i ignored her and she would try to get my attention back ,the whole time i'm thinking "man shes eating out of my hand but when and how do i number close?)
we ended up parting with no number exchange and a lot of questions in my mind
"what should i have a said?
does the fact that she didnt say anything about uspssibly meeting again mean that her ioi
s where false or in my head?
and how do you when the right time is?
i've read about it but why couldnt i remember any thing on number closing?
anybody have answers?
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2 comments
Sometimes we get carried away
Sometimes we get carried away with what we do. You should have made a moved before parting ways. Just take this as a lesson to be learned.
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Next Time
Next time put a limit on it and just ask for it.
For example: hey, I dont mean to interrupt but my stop is next, I really would like to know what happens with your dad, whats your number so we can keep in touch?
Or if you have something she needs that you find out in the course of the conversation such as: Oh wow, im sorry your dad has cancer, have you ever read the article from ...........blah blah.......whats your email ill send it to you?
The key it to gather as much info during your conversation and use it to your advantage as much as possible, showing concern and being helpful is an easy way to get contact info