FR: Sarging in South Beach

Everyone should have goals. There is some research which shows that people with specific goals which they have written down, tend to have greater success in life than those who have no written goals. Hypnotica in his Confidence series of CDs asks you, in the first audio portion, to write down your goals, in regardsto building confidence, and PU Arts before continuing on with the rest of the audio CD. I have a set of goals, also. I want to be able to walk in to one of those exclusive clubs on South Beach, and feel comfortable and be able to open any set and to be able to at least #-close. Why South Beach? Because it is a place which has many, many clubs and attracts very beautiful women. It is an arbitrary standard. It is a place with club after club and attracts women of jaw dropping beauty. I would like to be able to do that on South Beach with some consistency. I want to be able to master Club Game, Day Game, and Game in strip clubs. I define mastery in this regard as having no fear of opening any set, be able to open 2, 3 4 and mixed sets; being able to work with a Wing, and having f-closed a few times; and having a cascade of women in various stages of progress towards f-close. It is that old fantasy of MLR (multiple long term relationships) and of having a local community of Wings. Last night, N-Dub and I went down to South Beach again. This is going to have to be just an occaisional outing down there since we end up getting home at 5 AM when we go. South Beach starts later and closes later than places up north here. Also, it is abotu an hour aay from my house and an hour and a half from N-Dub's house. Still, we had a great time. We met up with our new Wing, Mr. Right and his crew. It was fun to partner up with a different Wing. Mr. Right has a gentle sort of a style. He claims to use Gunwitch's model. I still have yet to read up on Gunwitch. Mr. Right tends to use a conventional opinion opener and then uses Natural Method. His focus seems to be more on having fun, and enjoying the converwsation with a women or set of women rather than pushing a specific end goal. He and we (me and N-Dub) share the same idea of creating community and a larger social circle. We surely will be hanging and and cross pollinating ideas with him.

What I observed this weekend, is that the more you open, the less any single encounter will cause anxiety. It becomes just another interaction. When there is no rejection, and it is reframed as a pleasureable experience of information gathering, it becomes almost fun to just walk up to someone, male or female and open.