FR: Saturday's fun--- An off night

I got back from my overnight trip to Orlando and met with Nightwolf to go sargingLook up this term on Saturday. We followed our usual pattern of meeting before hand to talk about what we wanted to practice, and what we have been thinking about. I felt off my game. I was wearing my fedora and a blazer. It was way too cold down here in Florida. I do not care if you boys up north are hiking through snow, but we here in South Florida should be revelling in sunshine.

We went to the first club, opened a few setLook up this terms, got flaked out a couple of times, warmed up, then went to the other club. I personally violated that 3 second rule. You know the one, where if you do not open within three seconds of that first eye contact, you are lost.

My goal is still to work on my AA (approach anxiety). Also, I have gotten to the point that when I/we get blown out, I feel more amused than upset. Yes, I used to feel terrible when rejected after approaching someone and getting flaked on. Now, I just look for another setLook up this term to open.

I have been watching videos of Hypnotica and Steve doing their NLP-Hypnosis stuff. They are truly amazing!

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Sun, 02/14/2010 - 23:45

I too am guilty of violating

I too am guilty of violating the 3 second rule. My new idea is going to be, Don't think, just approach. Lets see how that works for us this upcoming weekend in the field.