Clarity on Sincerity
What's up ladies and gentlemen. I'm Taiga, thanks for taking a look and reading! :)
Now, what I'm going to ask is what every guy on the verge of friends to "just friends" wants to be prepared for.
The most feared confrontation of all. The killer. The "talk."
I'd like your thoughts to be shared not with only me, but with all my brothers who endure or continue to endure with this oh, so very common scenario.
How should we, the guy, handle when the girl becomes unsure and ambivalent about the "relationship when we try to step the relationship up to the next level.
My story has past, but in the future I want to be prepared for it if I have not already avoided it.
I underwent many ideas on how to go about it myself. But from an objective point of view, I want to remain unbiased. I want a main concept to keep in mind overall, to be considerate for her and for myself. The bottom line is, I want to be able to see whether it is best to be distant or to end the relationship maturely and peacefully and move on. If there is hope or no hope. Which depends on the relationship on a whole anyways.
Your thoughts/solutions about/to the question?
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I don't quite understand what
I don't quite understand what you're asking. Do you mean how to end things if it isn't working out? Or how to avoid being "just friends".
If she puts you in the "friend" category then you're pretty much dead in the water, in my opinion. If you're explicitly talking about whether you're "friends" you're done. Be friends if you want, but move on.
common misconception - the
common misconception - the friends trap isn't such a bad thing. it can be used to your advantage. it allows you to see her likes and dislikes, her turn ons
and turn offs. use that to your advantage. if you dont want it to be over then dont let it be. make her choose (in a non-dickish way) between being more than friends or having you out her life. do this with suggestive insinuations and body language, and dont stop until you get a straight up 'leave me alone' or a kiss close.