Need your advice on this one

a report by WISO. (view WISO's blog)March 4, 20103 comments

Let's get right to it shall we?

... I received an email a few weeks ago from a friend of mine in Montreal telling me that her best friend (a model apparently) was moving back to Lebanon for good. She asked me to contact her, help her out in searching for a job and take care of her.

I immediately sent the girl an email, introduced myself and proposed we get together. A few days later she replies thanking me and.... hell i'll just post what she said:

"Hi thanks for ur quick reply i really appreciate this. Sorry i couldn't answer you before i was so busy with family and friends... still cant sleep the difference in time is killing me and the way people drive here is driving me crazy!
Ill call u as soon as i sattle down. Thanks a lot again and see you soon."

I replied back to her and told her that i'll be waiting for her call... It's been almost 3 weeks and i haven't heard anything from her.

What in you opinion should i do? do i re-initiate contact... what do i say? should i neg her?

Your input is greatly appreciated.

W!SO

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3 comments

Sat, 03/06/2010 - 04:21

lurd says:

re-initiate and flirt but

re-initiate and flirt but slowly,,,dnt neg,at least not my mail

Sat, 03/06/2010 - 12:38

Shaggy says:

The larger perspective

I am going to give you advice which I am sure you were not expecting and not seeking.
It really is an expanded variation of what Lurd wrote.
Simply, I agree with him: Send her another email and then back off entirely.
If she wants or wanted to contact you, she would. This is analogous to the comment from some mPUA Look up this term that if you call a woman and get her answering machine and leave a message, and she does not return the call, don't call again. That second phone call is death. It communicates NEEDINESS on your part (whether or not you actually are feeling needy, that is how she is likely to interpret it.) The more interesting question is not what she is doing or thinking or even what you shoudl do, the more interesting question is why are you worrying about her? You left yoru message and she has not gotten back to you. That is an important piece of data. Yes, maybe she is just busy and needs a reminder, but, if getting back to you was that important, she would.

Worrying about what one should do with any specific, individual girl is AFC Look up this term thinking. You have to get out of AFC mind. Is this girl the only single, cute girl in your city? I feel that an important aspect to the PU Arts is to NEVER worry about rejection from any individual, particular girl. She does not want to play with you? Then move on. Do not worry about her, do not think about her, do not over analyze about what you could do or why she is not calling back (you really do not have enough history of interaction to know what might or might not have happened.) When you find a wine bottle and attempt to pour from it but find that it is empty, do not look inside and ask where the win has gone. Just open another bottle.

Sat, 03/06/2010 - 13:43

WISO says:

Thanks Lurd, Shaggy... No

Thanks Lurd, Shaggy...

No she is not the only cute girl you're absolutely right. I tend to over analyze and get stuck in a whirlpool of ego-trips.

I just emailed the girl again. And that's about as far as i'm going to go about this. Tonight i'm off sarging Look up this term . I figured it's mathematical, the more you do it the higher your chance of hitting jackpot.

Thnx again.