I don't get it

alright, well as of the last year or so I've just went into ass hole mode with most everyone, sometimes unprovoked, but most of the time because I was being treated like second class, I've got to be honest it really pisses me off when I'm treated like second class. I've noticed as of late though some of my friends will look at me and say "you keep acting this way and your going to loose friends" and to be honest that sets me off more than any thing when they say that kind of shit, I usually reply with "I've got enough friends" and that's that. Sometimes I think maybe I should be a little nicer to people and then I watch my buddies ass get used, and it brings me back down to being an ass again. I think what this post is about though is the fact that I've been trying to use cocky funny but it's just coming off as ass hole, so I don't know if I'm doing things right or not