FR: Anti-slut defence
This is my first post. I'm new to the community, but have had great success with my new-found knowledge. Having recently broken up with a long term girlfriend, I decided to go out sarging
on the rebound. Having f-closed with a stripper and k-closing several other random girls, I hit a major problem. Over 5 different girls this week have put up an anti-slut defence which just cannot be broken down by me. I found it difficult to play push pull after having shown interest (instigating some kind of chemistry which resulted in the ASD), and dont really know what else to try. The girls all seemed to say something along the lines of "I dont kiss/give out my number to guys I just met". They all showed me IOI's but suddenly rejected me for no apparently reason.
Please help me!
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Welcome! and a suggested solution
Cliff is a wonderful host, and has welcomed me when I first arrived here, so in turn, I welcome you here.
My simple suggestion is that you are not developing enough feelings of comfort in the target
, and that is why she is showing that resistance. You had success in the past, and perhaps you are now using the bulldozer method (just pushing forward using your charisma based upon feelings of confidence from past success) alone. Pushing forward is great, but building comfort before pushing forward is better. Even though you got all those IOI
s, could you review the tape of that whole set
in your mind and imagine a heads up display in your mind, parallel to watching the imagined video of you and the target
. That heads up display is showing her comfort level. Try to imagine what you did and did not do to help her feel more comfortable. By the way, there is no sudden rejection for no apparent reason. There reason is there, our task is to make it more apparnet so we can learn and remedy the situation so that next time, there is a different outcome.
Thanks a lot Shaggy! I will
Thanks a lot Shaggy! I will give that a try, it makes sense.
I haven't acutally been using the bulldozer method, I have actually developed my own form of game which goes very much against certain things some MPUA
's have said - I try to be the ultimate beta-male! I will post a blog tomorrow about this theory in detail. Perhaps this method is flawed, but I would like to develop it more as I find the bad boy image too hard to sustain given my inherent nice-guy nature.
Thanks for the help, check out my post tomorrow if your interested in my beta method.