Beta Method
I am by no means an MPUA
, but I have developed my own form of game which contradicts much of what has been said by PUA
's in the past. I call this technique the beta-method. You see, it is commonly stated that 'the nice guy finishes last'. What my method teaches is that the nice guy will always finish first, unless lacking in confidence. I hope you enjoy:
The alpa-male, it is believed, has something of a bad boy image - and women are attracted to this. A womans ideal man doesn't care what anyone thinks, is reckless, and answers to no one. This belief is untrue, and does not give anywhere near enough credit to women. Women are inherently rational. They are brought up by society (generally) to believe that the ideal man is one that will be loyal, can provide for them, will treat them well, and will keep them interested. Most guys tend to ignore that girls are attracted to guys that will treat them nicely, and keep girls interested in the wrong kind of way.
Game is like cooking. It involves several key ingredients which must be included, and then one can add their own secret ingredients after. I think every PUA
is in agreement with me when I say confidence is the most important of these ingredients in one's game. Confidence involves having the balls to approach an HB10 and hold eye contact whilst smiling.
Next, is wit. One must ALWAYS have a comeback ready. Be prepared for a bitch sheild, or an ASD
, for example, and have a witty comeback at the ready. However, NEVER put a girl down. Negs do nothing but lower a girls confidence. This may make the sarge
easier for you, but won't make the girl feel good. Come on guys, you aren't that cold hearted that you are prepared to hurt a girl just to get yourself laid - especially when it's not necessary. If a girl tells you she isn't interested, tell her you aren't either - your gay! Then use kino
throughout the conversation until she realised you aren't (this is just an example).
The third, the final thing you will show the girl which will make her want you more than any guy she has ever met, is to be like a breath of fresh air to her. Speak to her like no-one ever has. Tell her you are different to other guys, you treat girls well. Feed her some story about a bad break up, show her your sensitive side. Then, tell her a different story about how you went out with the lads to the pub and got drunk (so she doesnt think your a pussy). Mix it up, but dont be mean/rude at any point. Listen to her, if she tells a sob story (which she might to in response to yours), then listen. Maintain eye contact throughout. Tell her noone should go through that and your so sorry for her.
Now you mix things up. Go dance with her. Take her somewhere romantic perhaps. Further down the line take her on abnormal dates, like minigolf or ice skating. If possible, go scuba diving or something. Dont just go out for dinner or the cinema. Keep her interest through being different, not through pretending not to be interested - its usually very transparent.
You can still throw in other techniques such as cocky funny, just always remember those 3 key points and you will win every girls heart and yet remain a nice guy. You will become every girls ideal man, in both senses: what a girl wants, and what she thinks she wants (which are by no means the same).
Please do comment and let me know what you think of my method, it is still a work in progress after all :)
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2 comments
Beta is Omega
Evolutionary psychology and evolutionary biology contradict some of your basic tenets. Further, it just sounds like you have taken established models, and merely decided to change a few basic ideas but keep everything else. It sounds as if you are wanting to be an expert by giving birth to some theoretical model of your own (which is really not unique, but is a rehashing of what is already established.) What empirical evidence do you have for your theory? Also, you raelly do not understand what a neg is and what its purpose is on an interpersonal basis. It is not an insult. It is playful teasing, and serves to reframe status.
My question also...
Nice theory, I've already discussed with you about it JakeyC.
's confidence, but do it in a semi humours way.
Well.. I guess he is trying to call it his own, but from what I know, we weren't familiar with that approach before, so he called it his own.. =/.
JakeyC and I have been trying to define a NEG. What's your idea of the definition?
I believe using a neg is okay, unless you don't totally shatter the TARGET