How To Have Several Girlfriends At The Same Time.

How To Have Several Girlfriends At The Same Time.

By R. J.

I’ve said to several guys in the past, why not have a few girlfriends at once? The answer
is usually something like,

“You've got to be joking! I'm having enough difficulty with this one!”

It’s a pity they didn't bother exploring this particular option as it's not that difficult & a
lot of fun. This is how I discovered how to do it & there's no reason why it can't work
for you.

A while ago I had just come out of a monogamous relationship with a girl I had been engaged to. She was a blonde haired, blue eyed very sexy model though we had some conflicting values I had found the relationship too claustrophobic. I felt it was getting too serious too quickly & fun. I wanted my freedom & to have sex with more than one girl.

Every day when I went to work I would listen to a few of my work colleagues at tea-breaks chatting about their ‘bits on the side’ that they were seeing. Several of these guys were married & had children. They were lying & cheating on their partners & risking everything just so they could have sex with someone else. Some of these guys were not surprisingly worried about what the consequences would be if their partners found out about what they where up to.

I listened to them & thought to myself that certainly wasn’t the answer I was looking for. It sounded far too complicated to me & it grated with my values & I thought there must be a better way. Then one day it came to me.

I thought to myself,

What would happen if I went in the opposite direction to what these guys were
doing?

What would happen if I found a girl that I was attracted to & was completely
open & honest from the word go?

What would happen if I made it very clear where I was coming from & I told
her what I wanted & didn’t want in a relationship with her?

A short while later I met a girl who I was genuinely attracted to. I liked her in many ways. I told her that I found her attractive & would like to begin seeing her, though I also told her that it wouldn’t stop me being attracted to other girls. I made it clear from the start that I did not want to be in a monogamous relationship because I wanted to have sex with more than one girl.

Even though I did think I might get a slap around the face or told to go to hell, I asked her to go away & think about it in her own time, no pressure either way. I wanted her to choose what she wanted to do. I was suprised that the following day she phoned me & told me she would be happy seeing me & said that she appreciated me being honest with her!

Of course I said that she was free to be her own person too so she could see anybody else she wanted to see. For it to work properly, it had to work on equal terms. If you truly don't feel you can handle that, it's best to put this option to one side & stick to 1 girl. You have to feel comfortable & secure within yourself to try this.There is no other way.

A little while later I did meet another girl. I told her that I would like to see her, though I said I already had a girlfriend who I was very happy with & did not want to stop seeing her to see the new girl. I told her to go away & think about it. I wanted her to choose. I told my first girlfriend what had happened & as she was happy with me & I had been straight with her, she accepted it.

To cut a long story short within 18 months I was seeing 5 girls at the same time, by using exactly the same approach. There was a little competitiveness involved though no major problems for anyone & was it certainly no more challenging than being in a monogamous relationship. No mind games. Up front & honest from the start. Looking back, like in any relationship, I guess there must have been an element of luck involved for it to work so well, though being clear about what I wanted & didn't want from day 1 made a big difference.

Respect,
R. J.

www.mantek1.com

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