You Saw Seth Rogen At Your Supermarket Buying Ten Pounds Of Bananas

When it comes to getting dates with “in demand” hotties, some guys have huge advantages over the rest of us.

Some guys have great social circles and get introduced to new women every week. Some guys are 6'2” and look like models. Some guys have been dating fine women their whole lives, and their years of experience allow them to remain cool, calm, and collected when talking to intimidatingly hot women ...

Other guys (like me) don't have these things going for us. We don't get introduced to as many women as we'd like, we're average looking, and picking up hot women can make us, well, a bit flustered ...

But, I've found a way to level the playing field and gain access to massive amounts of quality women ...

It's all thanks to my “wing-man” ... my HP laptop.

In other words, I go online.

Believe me, online dating isn't a “cake-walk” by any means, and many guys who are good at picking up chicks in real life actually struggle more with online game than they do in person.

But, when you know what you're doing, online dating can be the great equalizer that allows regular guys like you and me to get dates with the hottest women in town. Women we just flat-out would not be dating otherwise.

Online dating can turn your dating life around fast. Here's how and why:

Out in the real world, there are several factors at play, such as: the location, the people you are with, your mood and confidence level, your degree of approach anxiety, your body-language skills, your tonality, and so on.

Online, you have total control.

Every single guy who sits down to create an online dating profile starts with the same thing: a blank text box. We all start at the same spot. You and you alone have complete control over how you choose to present yourself to women online.

You have all the time you need to create the perfect, powerfully attractive image that you want to put up there.

You also have no one else to blame but yourself if you do a hack-job, and are utterly unable to create online attraction.

Depending on how good a job you do, you could have new girls emailing you everyday like I do.

If you've been trying to improve your online dating results for any length of time, you've probably heard about amazing systems which promise you quick and easy success by merely cutting and pasting the same email template and sending it to hundreds of women.

That is not what I'm talking about.

Those types of methods do work in a way, because any time you cast a wide enough net, you are likely to pull in something ...

But ultimately what you pull in with these methods are the easiest, least desirable, least “in demand” women. Not women I personally want to be with.

Instead, I want you guys to understand what attracts women, and then leverage this understanding to create a profile that attracts women on auto-pilot.

By setting up your profile the right way, you can attract any type of woman you want with laser-like precision. In fact, there are things you can do to your profile that will keep undesirable women from even contacting you, without hurting their feelings.

Here are three easy things that any guy can do to quickly fix your profile and make it way more date friendly. These three things alone can have a major impact on the amount of women who go from reading your profile to emailing you or sending you a “wink” or “icebreaker”:

Most guys write dating profiles like they've got something to prove. They've got to show girls that they're fun, that they live exciting lives, that they date other hot women, that they have friends, that they are cocky and funny, that they make dough and so on.

Everything in these guys' profiles is there to persuade women that they are cool, and that therefore they should get “picked” by the woman. If you are familiar with PUA lingo then you know about those pesky DHV hits, and the bogus mantra that you've got to display your “higher value” to women.

The problem is that by trying to show your value, you actually put yourself in a weaker position. A position where you are trying to sell yourself to women online, and that's not a position that you want to be in. Blatant self-promotion makes you look like a desperate car salesman working his ass off to get the sale.

Instead, let your inherent value subtly speak for itself. The men that are most attractive to women don't need to prove shit to them. For example, for my profile picture I always use a pic I took in the bathroom mirror. There are no friends in the picture, no flashy motorcycle, no hot chick kissing my cheek ... just me.

Most guys' profiles are so lame that they could put you to sleep. Between the cliché lines like “My friends tell me I'm funny !” and the colorless descriptions of their lifestyles (“I like to go out sometimes, but other times I like to stay in, too ...”) 90% of guys' profiles sound exactly the same ... and completely suck !

Writing a fun, attractive profile doesn't mean you need to be outrageous or edgy. The main thing to do is look at what other guys are doing, and make sure that your profile doesn't have any of the boring worthless phrases that everybody else's does. Instead of telling her that you are close with your family, tell her about something original, like how you jumped over a live man on your skateboard, or how you saw Seth Rogen at your supermarket buying ten pounds of bananas ...

Women are typically looking for men, not little boys or girly men. So it's a good idea to go through your profile and make sure that it has a masculine vibe to it. That means don't talk about childish things or make immature statements, and definitely don't go getting all feminine and talking about feelings or relationships. That's not manly.

You don't need to go overboard and talk about “guy stuff” that she can't relate to. Just make sure that a reader could tell that the profile is written by a dude without looking at the picture.

You've probably heard the statistics that say 98% of men fail miserably at online dating. And while I can't vouch for that statistic, I'll tell you that I talk to a lot of guys who couldn't get a single date online because they just couldn't put the puzzle pieces together.