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The Secrets of an Extended Full Body Orgasm: An interview with Steve P. (www.sensualawakening.com)
So the following article is a very special treat. It is an exclusive interview with one of the most influential people in the world of dating, as well as a connoisseur with unmatched knowledge about the female body. Before we get into this, perhaps a little introduction to his work would be appropriate.
Who is Steve ?
Well, if you read the book that many consider to be the “Bible” of the seduction community, “The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pick-Up Artists” by Neil Strauss (www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060554738), Steve is described as one of the most powerful hypnotists in the world. Many have read the book and had a hard time determining if Steve is really an existing person, or just a fictional, supreme being; amongst men who are considered masters, he is a master. If you consult his students, they will tell you that Steve is a master of tantra, who can help any woman achieve the most mind-blowing climaxes imaginable. If you ask his friends, they will tell you that he is one of the most knowledgeable men with a heart of gold. And if you ask a random stranger who saw him walking on the street … well … I’m not sure what they would tell you ! As a hypnotist, a seducer and a close friend of Steve’s, I can tell you that all of these statements are in fact correct. Steve is, simply stated, the most amazing man you will ever meet. With a sharp wit, a unique style, and enough knowledge to fill up a library, he has made his way to the top of the list of most famous individuals within the “pick-up” community. He now lives in California with his two sons, where he practices hypnotherapy, sex therapy, and is often seen speaking for the dating community.
Today we’re talking about one of Steve’s life long passions. At a young age, he found himself fascinated by the female body. His thesis paper, which led him to get his degree in community psychology at Springfield University, was entitled “Mitigating Stress in Female College Students Using Hypnotically Induced Orgasms.” Yes ! He was indeed fascinated by helping women achieve powerful orgasms. He had started working on a hands-on method, but the school would not allow him to write about it. Throughout the years, he pursued his studies and developed what is now known as “White Tiger Tantra, awakening and releasing powerful female orgasms.”
What is the White Tiger Tantra ?
To sum up, this is a technique developed entirely by Steve. It begins with a massage that he calls “sensual enhancement,” which is used to awaken muscles that produce hormones and to get blood flowing into the erogenous zones. This is not necessarily a pleasant massage; it is a deep tissue massage mixed with shiatsu techniques in order to awaken the female body. The second part of the method consists of the part called the “awakening.” This is the part where the man (or Steve) enters the vagina with his fingers. With this method, Steve teaches men how to help their partners achieve “extended, full body orgasms” as opposed to orgasms contained in the genitals. These orgasms, which any woman can experience, often lead to projecting vaginal liquid, an action that is referred to as “squirting.” These techniques do not deal at all with hypnosis, and you don’t need any experience or knowledge to learn this. Anyone can learn it.
I had the distinct honour of interviewing Steve about this method and his thoughts on what it accomplishes for your reading pleasure. I beg of you, if you find yourself chuckling at words like vagina, orgasm, or squirt, you might want to read this at a time where you can take it more seriously. Also, if you are not comfortable reading about extremely sexual material, then this interview might not be for you …
Spidey: So I’m here in Montreal with the famous Steve Piccus, to talk about the White Tiger Tantra and “extended full body orgasms.” The first question that I know is on a lot of readers’ minds is: “Can every woman ejaculate ? And if so, what do you think of women who claim they cannot ?”
Steve: Well, those women haven’t met me yet ! (Laughs a little.) Or they have met me and haven’t paid me (laughs even more.) Look, it’s quite simple. A lot of women just don’t understand the equipment they’ve been given. They have the tools, but they don’t know how to use them. If there’s a problem with your car, you don’t sit there and complain that it won’t work. You take it to a mechanic. Think of me as a vagina mechanic … I just know where everything is. I normally deal with clients over the age of 25. I will never go under the age of 18, but a lot of people misinterpret what the purpose of this is. There are a lot of therapeutic advantages involved in releasing such a powerful orgasm.
Spidey: So is this pleasurable for you ? In other words, do you feel a sexual bond with the women you work with ? I mean, they are naked, on your table and you are pleasing them immensely. How does the service provider / client dynamic work here ?
Steve: Well a lot of guys come up to me and say, “Man, you came up with a way to stick your fingers in women and get them to pay you … wow !” So I ask a girl who did a session with me what she felt during the sensual enhancement massage and she says, “I wanted to rip your eyes out !” These people have it all wrong. The reason I’m getting women to pay me is because this is hard work ! I’m not having fun doing this stuff. When I get clients who come in with their husbands or their boyfriends, I’m trying to get them to reconnect with their partners and share an intimate bond. It’s not all about playing with the p***y. Often, women will look at me and say, “That feels amazing !” and I will tell them, “Don’t tell me, look at your husband and talk to him, he’s the one paying to learn this stuff for you.” (Note from Spidey: when Steve talks about this stuff, you can genuinely feel that there is nothing sexual going on for him, that this is a science to him, like a gynaecologist.)
Spidey: We’re dealing here with “extended full body orgasms.” What is the difference between that and a regular orgasm ?
Steve: A lot of women think that there is a difference between a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm. The problem with that claim is that most people misidentify the clitoris. A lot of people think that the clitoris is that little button at the top of the vagina that protrudes. Truth is, that is just the tip of the iceberg. The clit actually extends down into the vagina. The urethra has fibres of the clitoris running through it, so with this method, we’re essentially stimulating all the nerves. There are approximately 8,000 nerve endings in the vagina, and approximately 15,000 in the pelvic/pubic region. When you use the Swedish deep tissue massage techniques mixed with the shiatsu techniques, followed by the sensual enhancement and the awakening, you are stimulating those nerve endings. Due to the techniques we teach, the orgasm is not contained solely in the genitals. It extends to the entire body; they can feel it in their hearts and in their minds. They often say that it is the most amazing sensation they have ever felt. A full body orgasm comes from the parasympathetic system, which is responsible for the entire body’s natural chemistry. When a woman experiences one, she releases pleasure throughout her entire body (more about this later.) The genital orgasm runs on fear-based emotions; it feels more like it’s a duty and one has to release. If a woman feels like she has to have sex, the orgasm comes from the sympathetic system, and it inhibits the serotonin uptake receptors, and limits the production of pleasure hormones like dopamine, serotonin and oxytocin.
Spidey: You talk about a lot of areas that nobody really knows much about in the DVD. What about the G-spot or the A-spots … do we care about those ?
Steve: The G-spot, the A-spot and the U-spot are all named after the sex researchers who “discovered” them. They are not impossible-to-locate areas; they are just fancy words for bundles of nerve fibres. Like I said, there are 8,000 nerves inside the vagina, and they are all important. The G-spot is named after Ernst Grafenberg. The medical term for it is the “urethral sponge.” It is very important, but the pleasure felt varies from woman to woman. For example, some women feel more pleasure when the anterior fornix is stimulated, whereas others prefer the posterior fornix. It’s important to communicate during sexual activity. I never stop talking. Since all women are made differently, they all like different things, and it’s not just about finding the spots. It’s about finding the right ones.
Spidey: So how does it feel ?
Steve: Exactly like a genital orgasm, but throughout the body, and longer. Men tend to climax for about 10-20 seconds. It’s kind of like that, but a lot longer.
Spidey: How long ?
Steve: Depends on the woman. Sometimes up to 30 or 40 straight minutes (notice, minutes … not seconds !)
Spidey: And then what ?
Steve: Well, you keep working it until they release, or ejaculate.
Spidey: Do all women ejaculate ?
Steve: All women ejaculate, but not all women squirt. It’s kind of like men. Some men ejaculate and it falls on their foot; others can shoot across the room. It depends on the woman. Some of them just gush, but there is always a release of liquid. It depends on the shape or the diameter of the urethra.
Spidey: Okay, so what is being ejaculated ? What does the liquid consist of ?
Steve: Actually, it was tested, and they found that it has the exact same composition as what men release, minus the sperm. Sperm comes from the testicles, but if you ignore that, the liquid being released by women is the same as men. Women actually have a prostatic gland, which is where the liquid comes from. Women often feel a sensation of having to urinate right before they ejaculate. It feels almost the same, and so they confuse it. Often, women stop doing what they are doing because of it. The problem with that is when later on they have sexual intercourse, or fingers are inserted into their vagina, it pushes the liquid back into the bladder, which is why a lot of women have bladder infections after sex. They should be releasing the liquid instead of holding it in.
Spidey: Great ! So, we have the massage, we have the awakening, we have the ejaculation … now what ?
Steve: Often women experience what we call a “teargasm.”
Spidey: What is a teargasm ?
Steve: Wilhelm Reich was a psychiatrist who said, “Issues are trapped in the tissues.” He was referring to muscle memory. The muscles store negative emotions. When the women experience such a powerful release, certain emotions surface and they begin to cry. Often they know why, but in a lot of cases, they don’t know why they are crying. See, the genital orgasms are trapped in the pubic area and they come from fear-based emotions. If you are neurotic, you cannot have a full body orgasm, and if you can have a full body orgasm you are not neurotic. A full body orgasm releases a lot of chemicals. Often when the woman is sharing a caring experience, she releases built up negative emotions.
Spidey: And so how do you deal with a teargasm ?
Steve: A lot of guys try to figure out what’s wrong. Thing is, often, even the woman doesn’t know. All you have to do is offer the woman some comfort. Just say, “I don’t care what’s going on, but I am honoured that you trust me, and I am taking this time and this space to honour you.”
Spidey: How about using sex toys to climax ?
Steve: Well, if the woman wants to use a dildo, that’s fine, but don’t use vibrators. Some of those things go so fast that it just numbs the nerve endings, so then when the woman is having sex with a man, she can’t feel a thing. She’s sitting there thinking, “C’mon and get it done, I was having more fun watching the nail polish dry !”
Spidey: Now you also talk to men about dating. Would you advise a guy to use your work to get a woman into bed ?
Steve: Look ! I’m not a pick-up artist. There are all these guys who used to give me the PUA (pick up artist) title, and then they changed it to mPUA (master pick up artist.) What’s next, Doctor PUA ?! These guys are ranking themselves, then creating new ranks when people start catching up to them. My work is all about sensual healing. If you’re going up to a woman and getting her into bed using a bag of lies, what are you suppose to do 4 months into the relationship ? Tell her, “Everything I said to you in the first 3 months was a lie ?” It’s important to be true to yourself, and to be honest with those around you. So, as long as men understand that this stuff creates really strong connections, it’s fine !
Spidey: As a man, if I recently learned this stuff and I wanted to introduce it into my relationship, how would you recommend I go about doing so ?
Steve: Just do it ! Don’t lie about it. Show your girlfriend the videos and tell her that this is something you want to share with her. If you try to hide it and go about it differently, she will think you’ve been cheating on her. Think about it. It’s like if a man goes on a trip for a week, and before he leaves, during oral sex, his wife can barely get the helmet into her mouth, then he gets back and she’s taking it in all the way. He’s going to be thinking, “Damn, I wish I could marry this woman ! Wait a second, I am married to this woman ! What the hell have you been doing while I was gone ?!?” You’re learning this for her, so just introduce it into your life.
Spidey: What are some of the advantages of releasing Full Body Orgasms, other than the obvious, pleasure-related advantages for the woman ?
Steve: A happy wife is a happy life. This is also a very effective method for stress release. Hysteria is a condition that a lot of women have which is a stress-related illness. During the Second World War, when the soldiers were away, doctors actually had to masturbate their female patients for stress relief. Also, there are high levels of endorphins (natural pain relieving hormones, related to pleasure) and other chemicals released into the body. Another thing is that after experiencing a release like this, mundane thoughts can no longer affect you. For example, if you’ve been having sex with nobody but yourself for quite some time and you cross a random guy on the street who says, “Wow ! You would wear that shirt with those pants ?” You would want to punch him right out ! But if you just had a wonderful sexual release, you wouldn’t give a f*** what he thinks. You’ll just smile and say, “Hell yeah I would!” To tell you the truth, the advantages are limitless: the connection, the intimacy, the stress release.
Spidey: Great, so do you have any final words for our female readers ?
Steve: Find good-hearted guys and invest time into cultivating relationships full of love and not just sex. A connection is supposed to be heart to heart and soul to soul. These emotions come from the heart, not the pants. It’s all about nourishment. When people join together in a relationship, it’s all about nourishing the heart and the soul. If you ignore this, you will be the one who will eat a full meal and still be hungry; you will walk in a crowd and still be lonely.
How To Meet Women No Matter Where You Live
You know what’s funny ? That 9 out of 10 men only look for women to meet and date in the areas where they themselves live, because otherwise “she lives too far away.” That means this could get ugly for 90% of the people who read this … because they’re cutting the success with women they could have in half, or more.
Because distance is relative ... and I can assure you: you will double, no triple, the number of women you’ll meet when you realize what kind of opportunities the world really offers you, and how relative distance really is ! If you live in Chicago and think you can only meet women from Chicago, for example, then you’re living inside a comfort zone of distance … meaning you don’t believe anything beyond your city could work. Allow me to slap some sense into you ...
The Relative Value of Your Game – Why Small Cities, Towns and Rural Areas Don't Suck
First of all, we all have our obligations and daily routines to do: brushing our teeth, taking a shower, going to work or school, eating, making homework, dressing up, doing our hair, paying our bills, washing our clothes, etc. Week in, week out, they haunt us … and these kinds of activities almost bore us to death.
We’re living in quiet desperation, in a hell of repetition: going to our boring jobs over and over and over … patiently waiting and hoping for something exciting to happen, somewhere exciting to go, or someone exciting to meet ...
Women in small towns and rural areas have even more boring lives than the obligations and routines of city women. A hot farmer girl only knows farming and hardly any partying, so imagine what happens when you text message her with your stories of fancy night-clubs, exciting adventures, and compelling drama that she simply does not know ? It has a higher impact on them than on inner city women, who are used to more (or spoiled with more, lol.) It’ll stimulate their imaginations so much more, it’ll tickle their senses and make them insanely curious about your city life ... which makes it easier to create attraction by telling stories, teasing and busting their balls, and conveying the sense of an exciting life she could only dream of …
And these women in rural areas, small cities, towns and villages ... man, the only men they could ever get were the farmer boys, the country trolls ... those ugly bastards with their boring lives ... because there simply wasn't anyone else ! They had to settle for that, because there was no one else around. But you ... you’re unique, you’re the outsider, and even if your game sucks compared to other guys in your city – the man with one eye is king in the land of the blind. Women in the countryside or the quiet cities simply aren’t used to your levels of adventure, of teasing, of partying, of excitement, of class, of wardrobe, of style, of conversational skill. I call this the “relative value of your game.” In your city, you may be average, but there ? You’re king.
It’s like locking a woman in a room with an ugly, boring country boy for twenty years (or whatever her age is) …and suddenly introducing a handsome, talkative, stylish, exciting stranger to the room – she’ll almost jump on the stranger's lap, lol !
So go get yourself a map right now, a Google Map, whatever ... and search. It changes your entire range of action, because there are hundreds, maybe even thousands of villages, towns and rural areas in your region (and other regions) that have flown under your radar. You most likely haven't even heard of most, or never thought about looking there …
One of the most profound discoveries I've had over the last couple of years is that this not only counts for small towns and rural areas ! Think about it ... what would be the difference between gaming New York women and gaming women from Nijmegen (this little city in the Netherlands ?) Exactly ! There are also lots of cities where your game is of much higher value, relatively speaking, because women there simply earn less and are used to less ... they're used to less excitement, less ball busting, less selectiveness, less fashion, less sexuality, less body language, etc., and most of all: you are the (very interesting) odd one out, the one who stands out from all those boring guys she dated before because she simply didn't have more options ! Do you see now, how even the game of meeting and dating women itself is a rather relative thing ? I guess now you know why I love travelling so much …
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