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Response to Persian Player's 2nd Question.
When you're escalating/taking clothes off/giving or receive hand jobs, do this:
While kissing her, reach around to your pants on the shelf or wherever, and grab your condom. Continue to kiss her and touch her with your free hand. While doing this, take the hand holding the condom, slide it up her arm, and place the condom in her hand. She doesn't have to see the condom; she knows what it feels like. You don't have to tell her what you're doing; she will know once she feels the condom. You don't have to say anything; she will understand that you want her to open it up and put it on you. Note: this does not work well with an inexperienced woman
IceDragon Does a Same Day Lay
I was starting a new women's self-defence class in the south side of Glasgow yesterday, and couldn't find the bloody place.
I stopped the car, and asked a group of 3 people for directions. I did my usual: cut into their conversation and shouted, “Hi, can you tell me where xyz is?” One of the guys wasn't sure, but the girl told me roughly where it was. She was tantalizingly hot, and looked middle-eastern. She gave me a couple of IOIs, looked and me and smiled, then said, “Where have I seen you before?”
It soon became apparent that the guys didn't know the girl either, and they were asking directions or something. I ignored the guys and said to the girl, “If you're going that way, I'll drop you down. I'm really running late for my self-defence class. My students will all be panicking.”
She said, “Cool,” and jumped into the car. I said, “Do you wanna come and watch the class? Who knows, I might even end up with a new student.” Found out she was a beauty therapist and reflexologist, and lived in the west end of Glasgow, where she had her own place. (I noted this down for later.)
She watched the class, and watched the female students give me IOIs. I decided to really put on a show. At the end of the class, I told some stories about my experiences.
Anyway, the class ended. I walked her outside, and she was about to phone her mum, and realized she had no credits in her phone. She asked me if she could borrow my phone. I said, “Yeah, but it'll cost you.” She called her mum. I thought, fuck it, and offered her a lift into Glasgow, as I was going there anyway. She spilled some Red Bull in my car.
We got outside her flat, and I said, “I'm coming inside, need to get a towel or something to clean your mess up.” She giggled and said ok.
We got upstairs, and she went to make a cup of tea. Found out she had no milk, so we took a walk to one of the shops, and bought milk and a couple of rolls and cakes.
Got back to the flat, she made the tea, and I made the rolls. I constantly teased her about the state of her kitchen and how disorganized she was, just like a bratty little sister. She told me of her family background, how she was a Hindu, and about her beliefs. I said to her “To be honest, I couldn't care less.” She was like, “What?” I said, “I'm just here to eat your food and get my car cleaned, then I'm outta here, got to go and see my girlfriend.” I did this to create scarcity. Also, I didn't want to be stuck in the friendship zone, and I gently touched her as I said this. Plus, I had very strong feelings that a fuck-close was in the cards.
The IOIs started coming, she touched my ass by “accident,” I brushed against her breasts “by mistake,” smelled her hair, and breathed on her neck.
We went into the living room, where she offered to massage my feet. I agreed, and I massaged hers.
I then offered to give her a back rub, then she said “I need to go for a shower...” She showered, and I talked to her on the other side of the curtain. She said, “I hope you don't think I've brought you here for something, I think you're a really decent guy, but I'm not that kind of girl.” I said, “I'm not that kind of guy, either, plus, I really need to get going.”
She came out of the shower, and I started massaging her shoulders on the couch. I said, “I'm too uncomfortable here, lets go somewhere more comfortable.” She led me to her bedroom.
She lay on the bed, I lay next to her and started kissing her. We kissed for a while, and she started to moan and grind me...then the phone rang. I don't know who it was, but it was male. She said, “My friend's coming, he really cocoons me, let’s get out of here, take me to the hills!” (wtf?!) I said, “What hills?” She said, “Loch Lomond.” I said, “Fine, get your coat on.”
We drove to Loch Lomond, and I let her drive. Remind me never to let a woman drive my car again.
She started making plans about us going camping and shit, which I didn't entertain at all. I did not want to start seeing this girl.
We went down to the pier, kissed and caressed. Popped into an Indian restaurant and bought some pakoras.
I said to her, “I don't sleep with girls till after I get to know them, I find it's always better to wait, it's more electrifying. The anticipation is like opening a Christmas present.”
She was confused.
She said something like, “Yeah, it's much harder to keep control, than give in to your lust.”
I then said to her, “Our friendship is important to me, I feel like I've known you a long time, and don't want to ruin it,” then I give her the longest, most lingering kiss, then stopped and said, “We should get going, I need to get home.”
We drove back to the flat. I said, “I've got to go now.” She said, “No, just come up for two minutes, and make sure I'm safe.”
I went up, she locked the door and hid the key!
I said, “I really do have to go, honey, I'll keep in touch.”
She said, “Just come to the living room for a minute, I want to show you something.”
I went there, she kissed me, and I stopped her again. She then pushed me onto the couch, and straddled me, and started grinding against me and had her tongue down my throat.
When we came up for air, she said, “You've got me so horny, and I'll have to have a cold shower if you don't fuck me now, you can't leave without fucking me.”
She had me pinned to the couch, and wouldn't let me move! Imagine if a guy did that to a girl!
I said “Baby, this isn't right, I've got to go home.”
She started taking my clothes off, undid my belt, I started stripping her, at the same time as giving her reasons why we shouldn't do it.
For some reason, it only drove her wild. She was a total animal.
After the living room, we moved into the bedroom.
All this time, I still hadn't number-closed her. As I was leaving, she forced me to take her number! I number-closed a girl, AFTER I'd fuck closed her.
She kept telling me that she will cook things for me, and wants me to stay weekends, meet her friends and shit like that. I didn't say anything. She said, “I really like you.”
I had no intention of seeing her again. True, she will probably come to my class, and I now have a stalker.
However, when I got home, I checked my pocket, found her phone! I was holding it, while we were at Loch Lomond. Need to find a way to return it now...maybe another session?!
Sasha's Semi-Ultimate Day Game Opening Guide: Part 3 of 3
Hey guys! Welcome to the finale of “Sasha's Semi-Ultimate Day Game Opening Guide!”
Another type of opener is so powerful and so simple it’s almost ridiculous. It’s called HONESTY.
Specifically, in relation to direct openers.
This can be any thought that you think in the moment (i.e. a situation opener) such as, “Hey, that’s the coolest button ever!” but in this case I’m really talking about something genuine. If it doesn’t seem that way, you’ll be told, “It’s just a line.”
A lot of guys find their first girl of the day the most difficult to open. How about this:
“Hey, I’ve got this rule where I approach the first really cute girl I see. And today, it’s you. There’s no prize or anything. You just get to meet me. Hi, I’m Sasha.”
Isn’t that an awesome opener? I just LOVE it! It’s so simple. It’s so GENUINE. And it’s funny! And direct, too. It’s everything!
If you’re really nervous – tell her!
“Hey. Oh, you don’t know me – but I saw you from over there and I thought you were sooo cute. And I was nervous about coming up to you. And I’ve got this rule where I do anything that makes me nervous. So…hello there, bringer of fear. How are you?”
Same as above…but if you bring up the fact that you’re nervous when you seem, in fact, nervous, it’s congruent. You’ve pre-framed her. She can’t say, “You seem nervous!” as you’ve already said it.
This kind of an opener shows weakness/tenderness. It’s real, it’s honest. You will never get blown out harshly when you say something like this to a girl. What kind of complete bitch would turn you out for being sincere with her in this way? I don’t want to get to know that type of girl anyway. Would you?
If you’re going to say something genuine that sounds like a line…say you see a girl who you truly believe is the hottest girl you’ve ever seen in the world...you can tell her that. But add in, "Ok, I know this sounds like a line, but...you are truly the hottest girl I have ever seen!”
It will come off as genuine because it is. Not only that, she can’t say it sounds like a line, because you’ve already said it. It’s kind of like a pre-frame.
Let me just delve into that for a moment. What exactly is a pre-frame, and how can it help you in pick up?
A great example is this: one comic on the London circuit has a massive nose. First thing he does is walk on stage and just let the crowd laugh at his nose. He looks left, right, every which way so that everyone can get a look. Then he says “Don’t you hate it, how in pictures, at certain angles, your nose just looks really big?”
Now nobody can heckle him about his big nose – he’s already beat them to the punch!
If it’s genuine, AND if you use the pre-frame, there’s nothing she can say but say thanks…and it’s much more likely to be taken as a genuine compliment. Then you just have to transition into your hook story…
So, if you’re really short, your opener might involve a joke about that. Then you’ve acknowledged that you’re short, and also shown that you are ok with it. You’ve shown that you’ve got a sense of humour! You’ve turned disadvantage into advantage!
On occasion (for the stonking hot women) I’ll go super funny/honest/direct.
I’ll tell girls they’re so hot they should be in jail.
“Hey! What the hell are you doing walking around looking that GOOD? Guys are going to be smashing their cars up checking you out, fighting each other in the streets! ARE YOU CRAZY! They’ll be rioting out there! And you’re making yourself look ever HOTTER on PURPOSE? Are you crazy? Loose the make up, at least! Put a paper bag over your head when you leave the house! You’re a MENACE TO SOCIETY! YOU SHOULD BE BEHIND BARS where you can’t cause harm! What the hell is the MATTER with you, woman?
Again – if you don’t think she’s fucking gorgeous, don’t even attempt that move. But if it comes from the heart – why not? It will feel good getting if off your chest!
Whoa! I seem to be going on and on…maybe it’s time to bring this baby to a conclusion.
Be honest. Be original. Be bold. BE FUN!
I can sum it up in one quote.
“Judge not, lest ye be judged.”
Oh wait, that quote had nothing to do with it.
"A man can be happy with any woman, as long as he does not love her."
No wait, that wasn't it...
"It's better to burn out, than to fade away!"
Wait, hang on. I’m just getting goofy now. Maybe I got caught up in the moment!
Or maybe I was just having fun! I’ll let you guys decide. :P
Thanks for reading. I hope you enjoyed reading Sasha's Semi-Ultimate Day Game Opening Guide as much as I enjoyed writing it!
P.S. The next time you see a girl who's so hot she makes you shit your pants, tell her! She may be more receptive than you think! ;)
Alright guys, I RARELY post FRs, because I feel like my personal life is private and my style is difficult to understand for those who don't really know me. But this one is worth telling, partially because there is much to be learned from this story, but also because I am just SO proud of this one. Also, keep in mind that for some odd reason I am VERY good with Hired Guns. My last 3 girlfriends were Hired Guns, and I connect SO deeply with bartenders regularly...it's ridiculous!
So this one is a bartender at a bar I go to a lot. She has worked there for a few years now and she is HOT! I rarely find girls outstandingly hot, but this one makes 10s look like my grandma...she's flawless in my eyes!
So I'm at the bar with my social circle, as usual, and I do a quick trick for her, then I start talking to her about all kinds of random bullshit and I can see her falling...you know when you can just SEE it? Well I did! Then I engage this guy at the bar into our conversation to demonstrate that I have no intentions with her, and establish what I call rock star status (obsession phase.) The guy ends up buying me a drink (ever heard of getting social proof from guys? Well this is it!) I keep talking to her and show her this neat little thing that involves the subconscious mind. Once again, she's blown away. I go to talk to some of my friends and they can all see how she's totally watching my every move. Then she comes to talk to me several times, and finally I just stop her in mid sentence...
starts making faces behind my back when I go talk to her...jealous fuck! One of my friends tells me that this guy is making faces so I go tell him off, basically telling him to stop being an asshole. Then she comes to me and pulls me to this little dark corner to talk to me. I'm thinking if she was going to tell me off for what I said to the AMOG, she would have told me right at the bar in front of everyone.
would apologize.)s, they can't take it.) kino...talk talk talk...then I look at my phone and start texting, and walk out of the room.
She follows me out of the room and tells me, "That must have been an important text. You look bothered."
kino kino...send in my Wings...all is good...
End of the night...we're leaving...I go to her, grab her...she holds on...I give her a sensual kiss on the cheek and tell her, “You know, I just want you to know that in the three years that I've been coming here, this is the first time I will leave and POSSIBLY think of you for more than 5 minutes.” She grabs my hand, pulls me in, and gives me a hug that translates to, "If we weren't in my bar, we'd be making out."
Talk talk talk...I say bye and tell her we'll talk. She's happy!
I will see her this Thursday. She will be buying tickets to my show next week...
Moral of the story: success isn't measured by the kiss close, the full close, or the number close, but by the amount of progress you make and the level of game you play!
The Brick Wall that Prevents Guys from Being Great with Women
You can have beautiful women in your life—as many beautiful women as you want—if you’re willing to accept change.
A common theme with many guys I work with is resistance to change. All of us were brought up with a certain set of beliefs about life and the world—some good, some bad, but all of them affected how we perceive ourselves. Some of these beliefs came from our childhood religions, our parents, or society’s values in general. These beliefs colored our existence and the life decisions that we made from childhood through early adulthood.
The guys who are most successful with women—like me—never let any of these beliefs affect us. We never bought into the B.S. We never followed the crowd. We never did what we were told to do.
The guys that fell in lock step with the crowd (which is the vast majority) allowed these beliefs — beliefs that didn't come from within their true selves — to be carved into stone. They fomented, crystallized, and in many cases hardened into brick walls in guys’ belief systems.
When a guy comes to me and says, “Cory, I want to be great with women,” I start by asking lots of questions and digging deep into his life experiences. When I do so, he and I are often amazed at how much opportunity has been right in front of him, but the brick wall in his head is so thick that we need to do a lot of work together to knock it down and replace it with new beliefs that create new possibilities.
The problem is that most guys do not want to let go of the comfortable blanket of coziness in which they have wrapped themselves their entire lives. It’s much easier to hide inside the box you’ve built, wrapped up in your blanket, safe from the responsibilities of success.
With success in anything comes an escape from the person you used to be. It can be a difficult and staggering task to say goodbye to that old self in whose blanket you have been kept so warm.
When I show guys a reality that they couldn’t possibly imagine before, such as hanging around with beautiful women twenty years younger than themselves, dating multiple women at once, or enjoying relationships with super models, guys often shut down because they fear letting go of their old selves.
The center of this old self is a belief system that says that none of this is possible. But when you condition yourself to accept that not only is it possible...but that it’s just another Friday night…your reality is literally rocked to the core.
This is why it’s so important to be open to and accepting of change. Be willing to take chances. We’ve all heard the term, “No risk, no reward,” and I’m here to tell you that’s how to live a full life with an abundance of beautiful women.
You must take risks. Risks are a critical part of every successful guy’s life. Every guy who has ever been great at anything has had the courage to step out of his comfort zone and take chances. The guys who don’t take chances will literally watch their lives pass by right in front of their eyes. They will grow old and wonder how it happened while they sit on their rickety porches with a beer, chanting society’s mantra of “I wish I had…”
Don’t be an “I wish I had.” Be an “I’m glad I did.” With no regrets.
Accept change. Love change. Relish change. Let go of your old self. Enjoy your time here on earth. We only get one chance at this thing called life. Let’s live it to the fullest.
The decision is yours. It’s up to you to knock down the brick wall that stands in your way.
Sex Tips From 1894
I managed to come across this list of sex tips from 1894 that we heard on the radio. Here it is with the link: www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/article1833968.ece
Some things never change.... - zen
1894: Give little, give seldom, and above all, give grudgingly.
THE wise bride will permit a maximum of two brief sexual experiences weekly—and as time goes by she should make every effort to reduce this frequency.
Feigned illness, sleepiness and headaches are among her best friends in this matter.
MOST men are by nature rather perverted, and if given half a chance, would engage in quite a variety of the most revolting practices, including performing the normal act in abnormal positions, mouthing the female body and offering their own vile bodies to be mouthed in turn.
A SELFISH and sensual husband can easily take advantage of his wife. One cardinal rule of marriage should never be forgotten: give little, give seldom, and above all, give grudgingly. Otherwise, what could have been a proper marriage could become an orgy of sexual lust.
JUST as she should be ever alert to keep the quantity of sex as low as possible, the wise bride will pay equal attention to limiting the kind and degree of sexual contacts.
MANY men obtain a major portion of their sexual satisfaction from the peaceful exhaustion immediately after the act is over. Thus the wife must ensure that there is no peace in this period for him to enjoy. Otherwise he might be encouraged to soon try for more.
A WISE wife will make it her goal never to allow her husband to see her unclothed body, and never allow him to display his unclothed body to her.
MANY women have found it useful to have thick cotton night-gowns for themselves and pyjamas for their husbands — they need not be removed during the sex act. Thus, a minimum of flesh is exposed.
ONCE in bed, the wife should turn off all the lights and make no sound to guide her husband in her direction, lest he take this as a sign of encouragement.
WHEN he finds her, she should lie as still as possible. Bodily motion could be interpreted as sexual excitement by the optimistic husband. Sex, when it cannot be prevented, should be practiced only in total darkness.
DO not encourage him — nudity, talking about sex, reading stories about sex, viewing photographs and drawings depicting or suggesting sex are the obnoxious habits the male is likely to acquire if permitted.
IF he attempts to kiss her on the lips she should turn her head slightly so that the kiss falls harmlessly on her cheek instead. If he lifts her gown and attempts to kiss her any place else she should quickly pull the gown back in place, spring from the bed, and announce that nature calls her to the toilet.
IF the husband attempts to seduce her with lascivious talk, the wise wife will suddenly remember some trivial non-sexual question to ask him.
SHE will be absolutely silent while he is huffing and puffing away — she will lie perfectly still and never under any circumstances grunt or groan while the act is in progress.
AS soon as the husband has completed the act, the wise wife will start nagging him about various minor tasks she wishes him to perform on the morrow.
CLEVER wives are ever on the alert for new and better methods of denying and discouraging the amorous overtures of the husband.
Arguments, nagging, scolding and bickering prove very effective if used in the late evening about an hour before the husband would normally commence his seduction.
BY their tenth anniversary many wives have managed to complete their child-bearing and have achieved the ultimate goal of terminating all sexual contacts with the husband.
By this time she can depend upon his love for the children and social pressures to hold the husband in the home.
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