“In Or Out” In The First 30 Seconds

It's Brad P. here, bringing you the freshest new openers from me and my students. The first 2 were created by me, the third is from one of my students, who goes by the name of Bruce Wayne. All of these openers have been tested over 50 times by me and by students.

So here we go !

“Hey, I just wanted to point out to you guys that we (motion to you and the girls) look stunning … mostly me ... but you guys look good too.”

“Hey, someone just handed me this drink, and it tastes a little funny. I think it might have a roofie in it. Can you drink some of it to test it out for me ?”

This one is crazy. Hot girls love it.

Average girls will hate you forever and yell at you on the spot.

“What do you think about my shirt ?” (It can be any piece of clothing. Then say:) “I got 25 compliments on it today !” (Small pause.) “From 1 person.” (Longer pause.) “My mom.”

Now I'd like to talk about the dos and don'ts of learning openers.

This is an important issue, because it's not enough to just read some openers … implementation is everything.

Remember, the “theory” side of pickup has been around for years, but the results people get from it are sporadic. It's the art of teaching, learning, and implementing that gets people results.

After 6 years of teaching, I've become a connoisseur of great teaching methodology. Theory by itself is worthless without implementation.

In order to get good at these openers, I suggest you adopt the following practices:

1. View every attempt at using a new opener as an experiment. The purpose is to learn about the game. If you can pick up a small kernel of knowledge, that's a big win. It's not all about you personally. It's about learning and experimenting. If one girl rejects you, she's not really rejecting you as a human being. Rejection doesn't mean you're worthless or that the opener sucks. It's just part of the learning.

2. Try an opener at least ten times before you form your opinion on it. Don't read it once in an email and say “I love it,” or “I hate it,” because if you haven't even tried it, then you really don't know what you're talking about. You're just speculating, and speculations will fill your brain with bad ideas. Speculation is a mixture of your unrealistic fears, your unrealistic hopes, and your ability to concoct new reasons not to leave the house to do approaches.

A better idea would be to just print out these openers and go straight into the field without thinking about them at all. Pickup students love to sit at home and think. Read and think. Then think some more. Guess what, it's doesn't do your game any good at all. Only when you have real field experience to reflect on does the thinking and reading become beneficial.

3. When you're trying an opener ten times, be sure to make adjustments along the way. Don't just do it the same way over and over. Try different types of delivery, different kinds of body language.

The idea of “experimenting” with pickup is that you keep certain variables constant, while changing other variables. Once you've tested many different variables, you are eventually able to create a combination of the right variables, and this will get a good result.

For example, you might try the same opener over and over with 4 different types of voice tone. When you find the one that works, you keep it. Then you try it with 4 different types of body languages. Then you might try different kinds of follow up material, or different types of clothing.

After a few months of manipulating all kinds of different variables and reading the results, you will start to find winning combinations. That's a great way to learn pickup.

So to review, be sure to try each opener ten times, change lots of variables along the way, don't take rejection personally (it will just make your results harder to interpret) and don't over-think the process. Just go out and try it.

Every opener I've given you has been field tested by students and by me, so you can be sure the material works about 80% of the time.

I also feel it's important to note that my students and I do not expect an opener to work 100% of the time. Openers that open every time tend to be too safe and will land you in the friend zone.

Our attitude can be summed up in one simple phrase: “Blow me or blow me out.”

We only want massive attraction or a quick blowout (to save time.) We avoid long conversations that lead to nowhere. By getting the girl “in or out” in the first 30 seconds, we can dramatically increase the amount of lays we get.