She Went On Again About How If She Were Single She'd Date Me

There is this friend of mine whom I last saw when I was 14, and met again recently. She had a long term childhood crush on me for awhile, also.

She is really nice and fun, but kinda dumb. I don't say that to disrespect her, I really mean it ... like an IQ in the 80s tops, and that could be relevant. So she is now 30, in a lame relationship with an AFC who doesn't wanna marry her or give her kids, which she wants soon (I'm not interested in anything serious with her). She claims she never fooled around, and possibly had only a few boyfriends in her life.

She says that, although the sex is good (he pleases her first), it's repetitive and she's not in the mood most of the time. But she still puts out out of habit.

She is quite attractive, but has low self-esteem although she knows she is pretty. She's the type who would put herself down at a job interview about how she screws things up. She is on welfare taking 2 classes per week, and it's overwhelming for her.

Basically, I re-met her through another girl. The 3 of us are at a bar, eventually I grab her hands across the table and go “Hey HB, blah blah blah,” and she holds my hands back tightly while locking eyes with me and going, “Oh, wow, me too !” She's really into my bullshit.

I leave for the toilet. When I get back alone with our common friend, the friend tells me that while I was away HB kept saying how cute I was.

Then HB kept saying stuff like, “Oh, I wish I was single, I would so date you.” I say lame AFC stuff like “Durr, I find you cute, too, uhhhhhhh yeah, uh ... how's your drink ?” and I'm uncomfortable in this unfamiliar territory.

We met again like a month later, with our common friend. That was the night she whined about sex with her boyfriend being lame (which she blames on her having low libido), and also on how he's not romantic enough, and it hurt her feelings when he didn't even give her a little something for Valentine's Day or her birthday (he took her out to a restaurant).

She went on again about how if she were single she'd date me.

My view is that she is settling down with the one AFC provider willing to put up with her shit (welfare, no effort at anything, getting older, wasting days on youtube) because she's hot and puts out.

Anyway, if I wanted to date her, I'd have no scruples at getting her to bail out. But for just a fling, I don't want to leave her worse off than when she got in if she decides to confess to her boyfriend and gets herself tossed out the door. But then that would be her fucking up.

Anyway, to make something happen, how do I go about it ? I have her on Facebook alone. Both times we met through our friend, so we never spoke on the phone. What kind of LMR do you think I'd encounter if I make things clear beforehand that I'm not gonna replace her boyfriend ?