Is This What Charlie Sheen Meant By “Tiger Blood ?”

Maude was the cutest girl I ever met. Black hair, pale skin, freckles, blue eyes, and quiet like an angel.

I invited her to my 7th birthday. She didn't show up. I saved a surprise party bag for her, and gave it to her Monday morning in class. Without saying a word, she took it, opened it, and gave all the toys and candies to the other boys, who were laughing their heads off. I was devastated. I came to the conclusion that girls didn't like me, and that they liked the other boys.

That was my incident. You've got one too. Regardless, move on. It didn't mean whatever you made it mean. And it doesn't mean anything, actually.

So I wanted a girlfriend since the age of 6, and was never able to get one. At 22, I couldn't handle the pressure of being a virgin anymore, as it totally threatened the deepest sense of my masculinity. I hired a prostitute off Craigslist and got it over with. I kissed my first girl at 24. I had unpaid-for intercourse for the first time at 25.

Here is a list of breakthrough shifts that had me go from total virgin to recently being in bed with the woman of my dreams. I'm not particularly good-looking, I'm not rich, I'm overweight, I have a small dick, and I'm obnoxious. So there is no reason for you not to get more sex than you can handle.

Start 5 conversations a day with anyone—men or women, young or old. It doesn't matter. You'll handle your fear of people, and at the same time your fear of people you're attracted to.

People usually laugh off this exercise saying that they can do that, but they don't want to. That's false. They actually can't, because they're too scared. The secret to being successful with this exercise is opening immediately and for no reason at all. Don't look for a good reason, and don't try to get rid of a bad reason. Just do it.

Let go of the shame you have of being a man, and of being sexual, and of wanting a woman. Yes, I'm a man. Yes, I'm attracted to women. You're a beautiful woman, I'm attracted to you. That's it. (Then invite her somewhere).

Go out 4 times a week. That will make you realize that you are not in action. Not at all. 99% of my success is because I showed up. I was there and I said hi. That's it.

Always ask, always invite. All the time, including all the times you don't think you have a chance. Invite her for a conversation, invite her to give you her number, to see you again, to kiss you, to sleep with you, to sleep with you again, and to engage in your wildest fantasies. Ask until you get a no. When you get a no, ask again. Persistence is sexy.

When I ask a girl out, I am giving her the gift of my masculine approval and attention. That is the most valuable and validating thing I can give her. She is lucky for that. Whether she shows it or not, she is cherishing it.

Take out a spreadsheet and make the following lists:

1. The girls that gave you any kind of contact information. (Phone, email, Facebook ...)
2. The girls you went out on a first date with. (A date is a meeting between a man and a woman at an agreed upon place and time. That's it. If it fits that definition, it's a date.)
3. The girls you made out with.
4. The girls that gave you oral sex.
5. The girls you had vaginal intercourse with.

Next to each name write the date of the event. Track your success. You're much more successful than what you think. If you asked me this question before I made my lists, I would have told you that at most I went out with 4 girls. A quick list came up with 19 girls, a more thorough effort came up with 24. I had forgotten some.

Say that to yourself. And believe every bit of it. It will drastically improve the quality of your life. And that will improve the quality of the lives of everyone else around you. Every man and woman should say that about themselves.

One day I decided that I was going out with myself. That flooded open my success. In the relationship of you to yourself, if love isn't present, who isn't providing it ? You are the owner of your self- confidence. You either give it to yourself or you don't. Give it to yourself.

Be ok with being bothered. Be ok with bothering people. Be willing to risk yourself. The goal of life isn't to get on a comfort trip. Get out there, get embarrassed, put yourself out, take crazy risks, live life ! You'll get high off the adrenaline and enjoy the experience, regardless of the outcome. And chances are you'll be completely shocked at the amount of incredible success you'll have. When you mess up or piss off / hurt someone, clean it up (apologize !) and move on immediately and definitely.

Girls don't care if you're less attractive than they are, they don't care what your experience is, they don't care about most things about you. They only care about how you make them feel. Stop trying to feel good and give her the best time of her life. It will be hard for you not to have a good time if you do that.

I live in a city with 3 million people. 1.5 million women. I take out 0.5 million for the too old and the too young. I am left with 1 million. I consider myself to be at least 1% attractive. 1% of 1 million is 10,000. Right now, today, in the city where I live, there are 10,000 women dying to go out on a date with me and to sleep with me. If I am alone tonight, it's my fault. It's because I am lazy.

Chances are if I go out, I will be able to find one woman out of that 10,000. And I also understand that I will never be able to fulfill the sexual needs of all these women who are dying for me to take them. But I will try my best to provide the most sexual relief as a good citizen of this city.

It's not your business if someone finds you attractive. It's theirs. Some people are sexually turned on by overweight people, by short people, by ugly people, by clumsy people, etc. Anything, really. You have no idea why, and they don't either. It's deep down in their unconsciousness. Regardless, it doesn't matter. If someone finds you attractive and you turn them on, and you are attracted to them, you shut up and comply with their desires. I have no idea why gorgeous women sleep with me. I am thoroughly clueless about that. Regardless, I shut up and fulfill their desires.

I don't. I will have the most amazing time. If you are on a date with me, we are going to have fun, we are going to be wild / unpredictable / creative, and we are going to be very sexy with each other. I have it no other way.

I don't care if she is ugly and overweight. That woman is blessing me and honoring me with her feminine energy. I will reward her for that. She is going to feel very special, appreciated, respected, valued and desired at levels she did not know existed.

Go out with anyone.

I've gone out with young, old, thin, fat, beautiful, ugly, smart, stupid, rich, poor, educated, uneducated, virginal, experienced, calm, wild, local, foreign, anyone. Don't be picky ... that's pretense because you ain't getting none. If you have a choice between a 9 and a 6, go for the 9 obviously. But if you only have a 6, take the 6.

I was in bed with a 3/10 once. I was lying down and she came in and lay down beside me. It was one of the most beautiful moments of my life. She was completely defenseless, all her guards were completely down. She was so vulnerable. The intimacy was breathtaking. I told her: “You're such a beautiful woman.” She laughed, asked what I meant. I looked straight into her eyes silently. She turned her head away and started crying. I will never forget that.

Everybody's got something to give you. And you've got something to give to everybody.

Guess what ? I've got plenty of problems, issues and fears. You too. And so does everyone else. Don't be fooled by people who hide that. Don't think you can fool people into thinking that you don't have any. You can't escape your human condition.

When someone says no to you, you have no idea why. Even if you asked them. Some girls said no to me because they had very low self-esteem and were totally surprised by my invitation. They said no out of complete nervousness.

When someone says yes to you, you have no idea why. Even if you asked them. One girl was falling in love with me. I later found out I looked like her younger brother who had died from cancer. You have no idea what's going on, and you'll probably never find out.

99% of my suffering was because I was not in action. I suffered and hurt so much over not having a girlfriend that it felt like I had tried and I had failed. Truth was I never tried. But I was exhausted from the stress of it. Stress or action will exhaust you. I'd rather be exhausted by action. Get out there.