Cutting Corners off the 4 to 10 Hour Mark

[summary]Dr. Henry Jekyll covers the 49 Laws of Excellence ... in seduction and everything else.[/summary]

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Dr Henry Jekyll (http://www.brotherhoodofchange.com):

The 48 Laws Of Excellence

Law 1

Never Learn From Someone Threatened By Excellence

Never limit yourself to accommodate the insecurities of others. Your goal is your own personal excellence and as such do not curtail the development of your skills, self-confidence or courage for anyone. If you are working for someone who is threatened by excellence, you are working for the wrong person. If you are learning from someone who is threatened by excellence, you are learning the wrong lessons. If you are learning from a man who is scared of being eclipsed, you have already eclipsed him.

Law 2

Make Trustworthy Friends

Surround yourselves with friends you can trust. No man ever achieved anything great alone. It has never happened. Build trust by being trustworthy, and cultivating a shrewd sense of character. Do not allow yourself to fall into believing what you want to believe about a person because they are beautiful, strong and talented. Be honest with yourself. Make trustworthy friends.

Law 3

Be Relentlessly Open About Your Intentions

Inspire others to join with you by the boldness and openness with which you act. Do not worry about others moving to cut off your plans. Your bold and decisive action will cut through such scheming, and seize the initiative. Learn the skill of quick and decisive action.

Law 4

Always Say Exactly Enough To Be Understood Perfectly

Language is a tool. Use it. Learn how to use it as a master violinist plays a violin. It's purpose is simple - the communication of ideas, feelings and concepts. Use it to communicate your intentions and plans, to inspire others to join with you. Just don't talk too much for too long. You have work to do.

Law 5

Your Reputation is Incidental

Reputation is symptomatic of excellence, and not causal - that is to say, it happens around you when you cultivate excellence inside yourself and live courageously. Do not hide from reputation, and do not be ashamed to stand up and be counted, but do not get lost in it's pursuit. If you focus on your reputation in and of itself, that reputation will have no substance to back it up. If you concentrate primarily on excellence, and make reputation a secondary concern, then you will have a powerful foundation should your reputation come under assault. Never attack the reputation of others. Instead, look to their hearts, and see if they pursue excellence, or something else, such as reputation. If they do, their empire is built on a house of cards. It will be no obstacle to you.

Law 6

Do Not Shy From Attention

This is a world of indolence and apathy. Many people are seduced by the myriad of toys, games, flashing lights and drama which surround us i the modern age. As such, mediocrity is commonplace. But the potential for excellence is within everyone. As such, you must expect that your excellence will draw attention. Use it. Use that attention to project your excellence into the world, to inspire others. Do not stand out just for the sake of standing out, but stand out by the quality of your life, and the person you are. And do not hide yourself.

Law 7

Ask for, Inspire and Accept Assistance, and Give Credit Where It's Due

Remember this - your friends and comrades are as important to you as your arms and legs. As and when you rise to a position where people look up to you, delegate to them, but personally speaking, treat them as equals. Use the wisdom, knowledge, and legwork of other people to further a common cause you each share. Make sure that you never allow these people to feel unappreciated. They are so essential to your success that if they leave you it will be like losing a body part. You must understand this. Only then can you achieve greatly.

Law 8

Do not be easily provoked. Cultivate Self-Discipline

If someone is attempting to provoke a reaction from you, you are the one in control. It is always better to meet any opposition on your terms and not theirs. Remember this. If someone is provoking you, they have chosen that battlefield. Do not meet them there. Meet them somewhere else, if at all. Always keep in mind though, that your personal excellence is massively more important than any personal victories you may enjoy over individuals.

Law 9

Take Actions, Do Not Get Lost In Argument, Or Thought.

Opinions are ephemeral and have no reality. Action matters. Opinions and ideas are only of value when they inform action. They only have any worth at all when they are manifested in reality. When in doubt, take control of a situation by seizing the initiative. This is a crucial law, which can be applied on a grand scale or a very small scale - even in conversations. Develop the art of moving decisively, and well. Cultivate the ability of shooting from the hip with accuracy in your life. Hone your ability to choose wisely, fast, then to act upon it in a totally committed fashion.

Law 10

Infection: Avoid the Self-Indulgent and the Skeptical.

Negative emotional states are extremely infectious. If you are keeping company with the lazy, the self-indulgent, those who have a victim mentality or those who are habitually skeptical of ideas. They are all each highly damaging in their own way, but perhaps the worst of them are those of a victim mentality, and those who criticize the ideas of others. Self-indulgence and skepticism are easy and cowardly. These people attack excellence in all it's forms and plant seeds of doubt in the minds of others. Fight this in any way you can. Make a long term commitment to freeing yourself of their influence in every possible way.

Law 11

Learn to Inspire Independence in those who wish to Join You.

Another person is always of more use to you as a powerful ally than as a sheep-like follower. Never accept blind adulation, and never allow others to rest their self-esteem on your goodwill. Always expect independence of those who seek to join with you. Reward emotional independence in your friends with respect. A bond of trust between brothers in arms is always stronger than a bond of validation and power between leader and follower.

Law 12

Use Honesty and Generosity From a position of Strength to Disarm your Enemies

Do not allow yourself to be taken advantage of, but cultivate the ability to keep your ego out of the decisions that you make regarding those who you dislike, or who dislike you. Attempt, as far as possible, to distance yourself from negative feelings toward others. You have bigger fish to fry than getting involved in personal dramas. At the same time, remember that a man is always more use to you as an ally than as an enemy. Extending an olive branch to someone is simple, and if you are offering it from a position of strength, it will most likely be accepted, which will mean that you have one less enemy and one more ally.

Law 13

When Forging Alliances, Do not plead like a bleating sheep.

Get yourself to a position where you have something to offer, then propose an alliance of mutual benefit with someone who's skills complement your own. It is easy to forge win-win relationships with people if you have something to offer them. Both of you together can achieve more than either of you individually. Make certain that you do not compromise yourself, and do not be quick to remind others of past acts of charity. Your charity is your own business. Generosity is its own reward. What matters in the moment is the pursuit of excellence, of real achievement. Remember this.

Law 14

Do not Spend Time Obsessing Over Rivals

They are an irrelevance to you. You are not gauging your success by that of others, but only by the distance you have travelled on the road to personal excellence. If you are under threat, deal with the threat decisively and shrewdly - but only if you are under threat. Remember that your genuine cultivation of personal excellence makes attacking you at a deep level very difficult. Even if someone could successfully portray you as something else, such a deception, no matter how convincing, would be no more than a facade. Reality itself is on your side.

Law 15

Transcend your Enemy Totally

Do not pick fights. End them. Make certain that you are the most difficult-to-provoke person in the world. You are succeeding on your terms, not those offered to you by well-meaning friends or the terms offered to you by those who attack you. If you get sucked in to fighting personal battles, your excellence will always be something that exists relative to another. You have bigger fish to fry. As far as you can, beat your enemies by transcending the petty concerns they wish to squabble over with you. If you need to eliminate a threat, someone who is attacking you, always remember that if they provoked the fight they have done so because of a weakness in them, probably based on some form of self-deception and fear which they have not overcome. As such, the truth is on your side. Look for that truth. It is a weapon of incredible power.

Law 16

You Are Defined Most By How You Handle Damage

When you are weak, when you feel low, when you have been struck in the most personal and heart-wrenching of ways that is the time to fight harder than you've ever fought. It is in those moments of absolute truth where we decide our own worth. It is when all logic and reason are telling us to give up on what we know is right, on what our hearts desire more than anything in the world, that we must fight the hardest. Let the blows of your enemies and the cruel twists of fate be spurs to your efforts. Cultivate your defiance of them to an extremely high degree. Optimism is not an alternative to pessimism. It is the state of mind of those who refuse, in the face of logic and reason, never ever to give up on themselves or on their heart's desire no matter what the situation in which they are placed.

Law 17

Keep On Your Toes: Cultivate an Air of Dynamism

Humans are creatures of habit, and fall into patterns. You are not immune, and neither are those around you. Cultivate in yourself the faculty of creativity and imagination, so that your actions are neither predictable nor ineffective. Demand constant and persistent action in pursuit of your heart's desire, and do not get bogged down in worrying about the correct method. If in doubt, act. You will make mistakes, but you will also score victories and the more action you take, the better you will become at taking action. Effective action is like a muscle. Work it.

Law 18

The World Is A Mirror, So Drop Your Guard

The world is like a mirror. If you walk about the place with your defences high, the world will raise its defences to you, and you will be alone. If you walk around the world looking for weaknesses and openings to exploit, people will not connect with you and you will be alone. If you walk around the world with your guard lowered, wearing your heart on your sleeve, you will be attacked and it will hurt. But if you are willing to take any pain associated with lowering your guard as a lifestyle, you will make strong, effective and useful connections with other people of worth and value. You will also condition your heart to be strong, as well as open. This strength will serve as one of the key ingredients for excellence.

Law 19

Be Mindful Of Creating Enemies.

You can't make an omelette without breaking a few eggs, and there's no need to tiptoe around people's egos when you have to do what is right. At the same time, if you can do what is right without offending others, do it that way. This is not something to obsess over, but make certain that if you are making an enemy, you are aware of what you are doing and you've thought through the consequences. There are millions of ways to achieve each and every goal you set yourself. It's better for you not to put yourself in a position where you might come under attack in the future.

Law 20

Commit to your conscience, Commit to yourself.

Your moral sense is the core of your being, whether you like it or not. Never be ashamed to act upon what you believe to be right. At the same time, and as much as is possible, retain your integrity, and hold control of your anger. Always control your indignation do not allow it to control you. At the same time, your morality is critical. It drives you to do what is highest and best, and it will show you the path that your life should be taking, if you let it. Listen to it, and commit to its call. It is the heart of you. If you walk in tune with your morality, you will be at peace with yourself, even if the road you tread is a difficult one.

Law 21

Never Be Ashamed Of Your Gifts, And Do Not Hide Them

If you are intelligent, be openly intelligent. If you are eloquent, be openly eloquent. If you are skilled at your job, be openly skilled at your job. If you have a skill, do not hide it for the benefit of others. The only part of them you are benefiting is the lowest and least worthy their ego. Develop your excellence in the light of day. Those who feel intimidated by this and who shy away from you or snipe at you, even if large in quantity will be totally outclassed by the quality of the people your pursuit of excellence will draw to you.

Law 22

Use the Surrender Tactic: Give the Baby His Bottle

If you are being sucked into a conflict, it's often better to surrender graciously very early on. The key is knowing whether or not the conflict is something worth fighting. Most of the time it isn't. It is hard to see this sometimes because when you are provoked, many people will stand their ground over a point of principle when the actual reality of the conflict is basically irrelevant to them. This is anathema to excellence. Cultivate within yourself the ability to step back from conflicts and examine them dispassionately. If it is apparent that someone is throwing a tantrum over an issue that has no higher meaning, give the baby his bottle. You will often find that it is insecurity and fear which motivated them in the first place, and once they do not see you as a threat, they may indeed become a useful ally.

Law 23

Concentrate Your Efforts

Achieve things by focusing your efforts totally on the achievement of one task at a time. This is critical. Focus yourself on completing that task to a degree of excellence and effectiveness, and then move swiftly on to the next task. Focus completely on that. This is the principle of the application of maximum force. Focus all your energies at one challenge at a time, overcome that challenge, then focus all your energies on the next one. You are invincible in this as long as you do not let up, or lose focus, and you continue to assault the problem for as long as it takes for that problem to be overcome. No task is beyond your power to accomplish.

Law 24

Never Play the Courtier

It is far better to offend someone than it is to make a habit of lying. The excellence of your genuine self is what you seek to develop. Deception and trickery are a gamble and a trap. If you allow yourself to use these tools out of fear or greed then they can and will obscure your true self from others, and from you. This is catastrophic. Instead, work on the development of your skills of self-expression, and make the genuine self you express a powerhouse of excellence. There will be no limit to how far you can rise in the world.

Law 25

Re-Create Yourself In Line With Your Deepest And Most Noble Desire

Look into yourself. Take a long time with this one. Really plunge deeply. Work through all the layers of propriety and social programming, all the things you've been told are important and all the things you just want for reasons of ego. Punch down through those layers and really find your heart's desire. What do you want to be? Ask yourself that, and keep asking until you find a clear and distinct answer. That answer is the meaning of your life. It will give you a clarity of purpose, a goal which you can focus on to rise above the irrelevant dramas of the present and something to move toward. No matter how wild or amazing it seems, hold to it. It is what you want the most. It is your Arete, your excellence. Picture it clearly and often. Never, ever let it go.

Law 26

Get Your Hands Dirty

Get involved on every level. Never be above the grunt work. Make the amount that you are willing to actually do in the pursuit of excellence exactly this: as much as it takes. Do whatever it takes. Make things happen. Build your castle stone by stone with your own bare hands if you must. No task is ignominious that is part of the pursuit of excellence.

Law 27

Utilize People's Desire to Connect to Create a Group of Staunch, Powerful and Creative Allies

People have an overwhelming desire to believe in something. Never, ever become the focal point of such desire. Remain grounded in yourself, and fully human in public. Do not set yourself up to be something you are not, because it is a gamble that you do not need to make. Also, the benefits which it will give you will be transitory and weak the worship that you are given by someone is not a comment on your greatness, but on their insecurity. Instead, remember that the greatest and most talented people in the world need friends also. No-one is above gaining one more ally. Share with them your vision of what you will become. Fuse your heart's desires together into great projects. In a world filled with apathy, indolence and selfishness, your honest pursuit of excellence will be a breath of fresh air.

Law 28

Cultivate Effective Audacity

Hone your audacity like the edge of a blade by being audacious whenever you can to the best of your ability. If you wish to achieve something, but are unsure of a course of action, attempt it anyway. Audacity and boldness are crucial skills for achieving excellence. Even if you fail, you will learn more about taking action, about seizing the initiative instead of overanalyzing an opportunity until it is gone. You will learn more about how you react under pressure, and what it feels like to face down fear. These skills are more important than any contingent victory. Cultivate them. Remember that any mistakes you commit through audacity may well be corrected with more audacity as long as you act swiftly and well.

Law 29

Make Specific, Contingent Plans

The detail is everything. Making specific plans is a creative effort, and like any creative effort it is a skill which can be developed to a very high level. Excellence is something that must be cultivated, and excellence at making specific plans for effective action is skill that is impossible to do without. No matter how well you react to others, and no matter how effective an opportunist you are, sooner or later you will need to seize the initiative in a sustained way or lose it. As such, this skill, the skill of practical planning, is effectively the skill of taking control of your destiny. Do not be without it.

Law 30

Do Not Rely On Clever Tricks

When your actions are in line with your expertise, they are natural and executed with ease. All the toil and practice that goes into developing them becomes invisible. Do not feel you need to hide this excellence is not a magic trick. It is something that you must be developed, cultivated, built up from solid foundations. Your excellence is not an illusion. Do not build it with clever tricks, but around a core of rock solid central skills. You do not need to have a dizzying repertoire of tricks let all your tricks and shortcuts be totally incidental. Build your excellence on just doing the obvious things really well.

Law 31

Create the Options: Play By Your Own Rules

An option is nothing more than an idea. It is very rare that there are only two ideas which can resolve a situation. Usually, there are millions of different ways to resolve a situation in your favour. If you are presented with a stark choice where you lose either way, detach your emotions from the situation and think dispassionately and creatively. Avoid choosing the lesser of two evils. Always look for a way out that benefits everyone involved there is almost always one to hand.

Law 32

Appeal to People's Best Selves Give Them A Chance To Shine

The truth is often avoided because people are afraid of it. Many people spend a great deal of time and energy building up their fears into something big. Fear is ugly and unpleasant. Never appeal to weakness and insecurity if you do only weakness and insecurity will answer your call. If you build an empire on that, you are building it on sand like a fool. The truth may be harsh, but it is solid. Build an empire on truth and reality. It will have a strong foundation. If you appeal to courage and excellence, courage and excellence will answer your call. There is great power in tapping into the excellence of the masses. That power can be focused and unleashed, and as you build an empire of excellence in the world, you build an empire of personal excellence inside yourself.

Law 33

Discover Each Man's Excellence

Everyone has a strength, one practical ability which they can develop to an extremely high degree. It is what they love, it is their passion and their calling. Whatever it is, if you can encourage it in others, you will draw out of them all that is highest and best. You can create extremely strong alliances this way with people who quickly become highly effective and highly skilled.

Law 34

Respect Yourself.

Self respect is based on a simple recognition that you are a human being. Do not allow yourself to be treated badly. Do not compromise your dignity. You are a human being, and all human dignity has worth and value. Therefore your dignity itself has worth and value. Do not compromise on disrespect. If someone disrespects you, call them on it do not allow your feelings to be provoked, but call them on their disrespect. Respect is something that your humanity demands. It is not something you need to earn. It is your birthright. Moreover, do not be cruel to yourself. Refrain from berating yourself over past errors. You would not savagely berate someone else for their mistakes - their humanity itself affords them the right to err and still be of great intrinsic value. Your humanity affords yourself the same right. Recognize that and act accordingly.

Law 35

Master the Art of Opportunity

Your hard work and diligence is only as useful as the direction in which you move. The opportunities that you seek are critical. Keep a weather eye out for any chance of a break, and if you get one, act swiftly and decisively. Your plans exist for you to seize the initiative, but always understand that it is only through capitalizing on the opportunities that are presented to you, and the opportunities created by your victories that you will achieve greatly. If you fail to take an opportunity, or fail to capitalize on an opening, do not beat yourself up. Redouble your efforts. Create another opening. Capitalize on that. Seize opportunities with both hands. Drop everything and pursue them trust your instincts. They are what you have been waiting for.

Law 36

Disdain Things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best Revenge

By focusing on problem, dramas and conflicts you distract yourself from your goal personal excellence, alliance and the attainment of your heart's desire. At the same time, you will encounter a myriad of problems, dramas and conflicts in your pursuit of excellence. Sometimes these things cannot be avoided. Some battles must be fought. What you focus on is what life gives you. When facing problems, focus on solutions. When facing drama, focus on resolution. When faced with conflict, focus on victory.

Law 37

Be Spectacular

Let your excellence be a beacon to others. Develop yourself until you can compete at the highest degree, and win. Be a fireworks display of humanity, a living example of what can be achieved through endurance, faith and courage. Find an arena where you can excel openly, and excel there. Dominate it. Own it. Once you have demonstrated that it is your own, find a bigger arena. Inspired by your excellence, others will join with you, lift you higher and raise themselves up in turn.

Law 38

Cultivate the skill of connecting with others, And Guard Against Arrogance

If you have the ability to genuinely connect with others, you can go against the times, explore and utilize unconventional ideas and ground breaking methods, and people will still love you for who you are. Never lose touch with your humanity, for if you do you will lose touch with the humanity of others. Make sure that you cultivate a love of humanity as part of your excellence disdain for the weak is the thin end of the wedge of arrogance. Look for the humanity in others, and cultivate compassion for those who live enslaved by fear. Do not allow them to infect you with doubt, but do not let them infect you with a sense of superiority either. The only person you can gauge your success by is you.

Law 39

Let Your Enemies Defeat Themselves

Do not provoke others into conflict for the sake of glory. At the same time, understand that in attempting to better yourself, in pursuing excellence, you will threaten others who will seek to attack you and bring you down. Answer only the intellectual content of their attacks, and do not repay their vitriol in kind. Always seek to link your ideas with theirs over shared common ground instead of annihilating their intellectual position it is always better to broaden your position so that it includes the main thrust of their attack within it. In doing so, you will undercut their attack and broaden your perspective. If they continue to attack you, it will be increasingly obvious to anyone that they are not motivated by rational concerns, but by jealousy, envy and spite. They will lose by default.

Law 40

Despise the Free Lunch

Learn to accept help from others when it is offered. Your pursuit of excellence will be inspiring to many who you cannot directly assist. If they wish to help you, accept their help. Generosity is a blessing which can center a person and transcend the petty concerns in which they are bogged down. It allows them to become part of something higher and greater, and their assistance to you, as an act of kindness on their part, allows them to pursue excellence in their own lives. There is nothing to fear from accepting help when it is genuinely and freely offered. At the same time be mindful that no-one uses the memory of past assistance to blackmail you emotionally into compromising yourself.

Law 41

Stand on the Shoulders Of Giants

Do not try to reinvent the wheel. Learn from others and then develop new directions with innovation and creativity. Always strive to be at the cutting edge. Do not slavishly follow anyone, and appreciate the fallible humanity of those you look up to. All the legends in your chosen field of excellence were nothing more than people, just like you. You are capable of more than them. Much more. Think of them as the people who cleared the path for you to blaze a trail further, brighter and higher than any who have come before.

Law 42

Be Mindful Of The Profoundly And Consciously Selfish

Understand that some people who attack you will do so convincingly and well. They are threatened by the existence of excellence because they worship self-interest, manipulation and the control of others. You, and especially your success, represents a critical threat to the entire belief systems of these people, and they dare not face the darkness in their own hearts because, in truth, it terrifies them. If you come across such people, avoid them like the plague. Cut them completely out of your life. They will become a convergence point for dissident elements who wish to attack excellence itself. Do not play by their rules, do not get sucked in to their games, and remember this like vampires, they thrive on shadows and darkness. They cannot stand the light of day. Do your work in the open, and they will be unable to move against you decisively without revealing their rotten nature.

Law 43

Connect With the Hearts and Minds of Others

If you openly coerce someone into helping you, they will nurse a grudge and wait for an opportunity to take you down. Even if they do not do this, they will spread poison behind your back, slipping stilettos of doubt between the ribs of those who can help you. If you manipulate someone into helping you out, the second they realize they are your pawn they will attack you with a vengeance many times as powerful as if you had openly coerced them. Moreover, they will spread the truth of your deceitful nature among your allies, and weaken your alliances. Coercion and manipulation are desperate fall-back options when everything else has already failed. As lifestyle choices, they are doomed to failure. Instead, connect with someone's strengths. Do this by finding common cause among others who pursue excellence, and those who you inspire to pursue excellence. Do it also by forging true friendships among those you work with.

Law 44

Your fear is your compass.

Do not build coping strategies to work your way around the things you fear the most. Face them head on. The fact is that fear is the root of every insecurity, every failure, every regret that you use to beat yourself up with when you are feeling low. Defeating it is not an optional extra. It is the critical flaw that has held you back, and you must overcome it. Overcoming fear does not mean becoming fearless. It means getting angry. Become furious at your fear. Go straight for it, straight for the throat. Savage it. Never let it get away with controlling you. It has nothing but your failure at heart. It is your enemy. It is your greatest foe. It is in many ways, your only true enemy. Fight it always, with righteous fury. Whatever you are most afraid of is what you should be doing right now in order to be free.

Law 45

Embrace Change, but Keep a sense of direction and reality

The pursuit of excellence has internal and external aspects. Internally, fight your fear and fix your heart's desire as your ultimate goal. Externally, face your fear in reality day after day, and forge your heart's desire into something real and amazing with endurance, opportunism and courage. As you do this, make certain though that you keep yourself grounded. If you lose touch with reality, you will have failed. If you become lost in dreaming, you will have failed. Excellence is something that must be real, that must be realized, that must be pushed into actuality through force of will. Reality is the ultimate testing ground for excellence. Excellence must be given form in reality for it to have any meaning. Honing yourself is a key facet of excellence, but do not get lost in sharpening a sword you never draw in battle. If you never wield your excellence in reality then you might as well not waste your time honing it at all.

Law 46

Excellence is not perfection; Excellence is better.

Seeking perfection is self-defeating because perfection is static. This means firstly that, as a static concept, it has no existence in the real world. Secondly it means that a perfect thing is something that has been completed, and thus ended. If you seek to perfect yourself, you are really seeking to end yourself. To finish yourself. If you seek something long enough, you will achieve it. Excellence is dynamic, and as such it has no limits. If you seek excellence, you are seeking to reach a state of positive dynamism that is greater than anything yet seen. Excellence, unlike perfection, leaves infinite room for personality, style, panache and flair. As such, this quest is both endless, and endlessly worthwhile.

Law 47

Remain grounded in reality but reach for the stars

Each victory is nothing more than a way point. Excellence is never complete. Each victory is simply an opportunity to capitalize upon and no victory, no matter how absolute, is ever the end of the story. It is only the end of the chapter, and it opens the doorway to the achievement of even greater things.

Law 48

Seek Excellence, and not Perfection

Excellence is your birthright as a man. If unclaimed, it will forever elude you. If you turn your whole life to it's pursuit, the world will salute you for your courage, and you will open the door to the greatest future of which you are capable. Ultimately, the universe is a mirror. If you make excellence the core of your heart, excellence will find you and you will live an excellent life. It will, at times, be hard. It will, at times, be scary. But it will always, in some way, be excellent. As will you.

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Asian Playboy (http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/):

BJ Report: Cold Approach to Blowjob in 15 Minutes

I've gotten makeouts within 30 seconds a few times, but a full on blowjob in the backseat of my car off a totally cold, random approach... well, needless to say 15 minutes for a BJ is a new record for me. To be honest, the events of that night aren't easily replicable and for the most part this report is more about record keeping versus actually learning something new.

Anyways, I was teaching the last day of a pick up bootcamp with an Asian student (StepChild) from Boston and we went to a club that had just recently opened. The crowd has been a little light because of post New Year's fatigue, but it slowly picks up.

The student wanted me to do a demo (after I had already gotten laid the night previously no less, LOL) so I approached a four set of brunettes. I think I used the Natural Opener that the student and I had created together and I easily segue from the opening pickup line into other matters.

I merge the student in after about 5 minutes and I run standard Cocky & Funny with some storytelling. I also end up giving one of the girls (with HUGE natural breasts) an exotic Russian name because she tried to shit test me and not give me her real name. Laughs, teasing, and kino ensues.

However, the student's sore throat, lack of experience in wingmanship and engaging large groups is preventing him from talking and I'm essentially stealing the spotlight by holding court. Eventually we eject and I start sending StepChild into a few sets.

Later, I run into my target in the 4set- a really cute librarian, girl-next-door type- but alas I discover that she has a live-in borefriend. I move on to have a smoke on the patio where several rather random things happen in quick succession that enabled the quickie blowjob to happen...

1. Shit Test Girl (with massive 36DD) sits on the couch behind me. Let's call her Miss 36DD. Really nothing to brag about overall, but those who know me know that I LOVE big boobs and they're my Kryptonite so I can forgive a few curves.

2. A random, plain girl approaches me with obvious attraction in her eyes and intent. Big social proof to Miss 36DD.

3. I'm in a really good mood smiling and dancing. Making people around me have a good time.

4. I get a random, drunk, quasi-booty callish text message from one of my home girls.

5. I ask RandomGirl her opinion on the meaning of it.

6. I pull in Miss 36DD.

7. One assumes that the text is from my girlfriend and the other quickly picks up on that as well even though I deny it. More social proof.

8. All three of us start dancing.

9. Random girl ejects at some point.

10. Miss 36DD starts giving me a lap dance. Makeout ensues.

11. The patio is empty so I start playing with her breasts, pull them out, and bite them.

12. I suggest we go to my car and the exit is right next to us so we book discreetly with her friends none the wiser.

13. Climbing in the back of my car, we makeout, and I push her hand down to my crotch.

14. She undoes my pants, I push her head down and she proceeds to suck me off.

15. Roughly 15 minutes of total game time with her has elapsed.

16. I tried to take pictures on my cellphone, but it came out dark as there's no flash on the damn Razor phones!

Of course, one thing to remember about Solid Game is that the faster you push for sex (cutting corners off the 4 to 10 hour mark), the more likely the girl will get Buyer's Remorse. Well, as we climbed out the car, her girlfriends see us and start freaking out.

There were tears and shouting and needless to say, I quickly booted back inside the club to avoid the drama show.

Well, overall it was an interesting albeit completely random experience.

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Art (Day Coach, http://www.notniceguy.com): It’s spring and it's time to meet women, and women want to meet you. The main reason that normally stops men from approaching someone interesting is uncertainty of what to say, and what to say next, even if you start a conversation. It is because we men are much more logical and our process of thinking logically doesn't really work well with the unpredictable response of women. A few statements from experience: One, you will never know what women will say next and instead of being fearful of it, embrace it as an experience and enjoy it. Two, sometimes there will be a woman that will take your breath away and knock all your thoughts out of your mind. This is a moment when a back up opener becomes important. By already knowing how to start, you will be able to block all the self-doubting thoughts that usually would ru n through your mind at this moment. It is absolutely fine to use a back up opener, if it is a matter of getting a conversation going or not. Without a back up opener, the sad truth is that the answer is usually not. The day game differs from the night game, by being much more vibe oriented. Many stacked openers that will work magic at night such as "who lies more, jealous girlfriend, etc.," work much less effectively during day time approach. On the other hand, you don't have to open with a lot of energy, as a conversation will either fly or die and you will know it in mere seconds. As a simple low energy situational opener can get you in to a genuine conversation with the same quality girl as at night, during the day you would need to work 20 minutes just to warm her up. NO bitch shield, repeat after me, no bitch shield. Yes the day game is that good, once you click there won't be shit tests all conversation long, as that stops as soon as she establishes what you are about.

Ways of how not to start conversation in day game: asking chain questions, nothing kills the conversation than feeling like she is being interrogated against her will. Asking the most obvious questions, for example "what time is it" and "how do I get to …." is good way not to meet women, unless you really need to know the time or location. Another bad way is to follow a woman for 10 blocks and then try to start talking. She already thinks you are a stalker and now she might think that you are a kidnapper, too. One of the biggest mistakes that I hear before we begin coaching, is at the start of a conversation people have a tendency of using compliments. If she is a beautiful women, she has heard every compliment under the sun and during a single day she might hear 5-10 compliments. Therefore when you give a compliment in the BEGINNING of a conversation, it’s a big turn off. Save the compliments until you start going out.

Rule of thumb: The less you wait and hesitate before starting the conversation the better the response will be. When you start a conversation with a strong statement or opinion, you are already on a good track. A good back up conversation starter that you can use is "Hey, are you from Poland or from Russia?" and then plug in the country you think she is from. It is also good to lead into a story that will lead to the start of a conversation with her. Keep in mind, it is not just what you say, it is also about how you say it.

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LAIR SECTION (Lairs are gatherings of PUA's of differing levels and talents that meet in different cities to discuss their experiences and to work together to improve their success with women). More Lair Listings can be found at http://dutchseduction.blogspot.com/ and at http://www.bristollair.com, as well as at http://www.seductionlair.com:

A YAHOO GROUP FOR THOSE RUNNING LAIRS:

If and ONLY if you are running a lair there is now a Yahoo Group for organization ideas for PUA groups. As each lair is different, this group lets us know what other lairs are doing. No seduction related topics are discussed, just organization ideas. To join please email RunningaPUAgroup-subscribe@yahoogroups.com and then email Nightlife at nightlife858@yahoo.com with an intro of who you are and what Lair you are running. You can also go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/RunningaPUAgroup/

LAIR GROUP

If you run a lair or are considering starting one, join this group to exchange ideas with the rest of the community and keep informed of community activities. http://www.LairList.com Contact: LairList@LairList.com

Lair List is an official directory of lairs worldwide. The Lair List Foundation is an international nonprofit cooperation of lair owners. LairList.com is completely nonprofit. LairList.com is 100% non-commercial. If you run a lair or are considering starting one, register your lair here http://lairlist.com/index.php?option=com_comprofiler&task=registers. Join this group (http://lounge.lairlist.com/) to exchange ideas with the international lair community. Get the latest seduction news from around the world (http://www.lairlist.com/).

HIGHLIGHTS FROM THE MONTREAL LAIR:

- Lair meetings are scheduled currently one a month on Sundays at 8 pm and but the next Lair meeting will be Sunday, January 28. For more info on joining the Lair (local only, sorry), email me. Out of town bros are welcome to drop in to meetings.

The Lair meetings are very insightful gatherings of guys interested in learning, improving, and helping others to become more successful in their relationships with women. If you are already in a relationship, and you continue to read these emails, you should realize that there is information here to improve and enhance your existing relationship - not only to create new ones.

Here is a list of other Lairs around the world (if you know of any others, please let me know):

MONTREAL JUNIOR LAIR FOUNDED!

Montreal Junior Lair: The Montreal X-Lair has been founded to help minors (who are not permitted to join the Montreal Lair until they are 18) get together and communicate. Lair applications would be sent to MontrealXLair@hotmail.com.

NEW FRENCH MONTREAL LAIR FORMED

Good news! Montreal has now a FRENCH Lair! Oui! Ever wanted to be part of a lair without having to learn another language?

- A lair which would offer you support

- A lair which would allow you to find new wingman

- A lair where you would be able to learn

- A lair where you would be able to share

- A lair which would offer occassions to sarge

- A lair where you would be able to conquer your fear

- A lair which would allow you to become a better PUA 100 times faster

And all that in FRENCH! Now is your chance! We've just opened our forum located at http://www.seduire.ca , registration are free. You can also apply to become a Montreal VIP which will offer you the possibility to be part of the best French PUA Team in Montreal. We also have a section dedicated to people of Quebec City cause we love you :) Note that the sooner you become part of our family, the sooner you'll be the person you want to become.

Many of our members are experts in specifics techniques such as Mystery Method, Juggler Method, direct/indirect techniques and know about their stuff. They are the people you want to hang with. As David DeAn gelo too often said: "You want to befriend those people who've got the talent you want to have so you can learnwith them and from them." The forum is located at http://www.seduire.ca. We hope to see you there soon!

THE TORONTO LAIR

The Toronto Lair is called TSN or Toronto Social.net. Anyone who gets to the homepage at http://www.TorontoSocial.net./ can email the webmaster to get information. If that's not an option, they can call Ike at: 416-628-9973 or his cell at: 416-300-6500.

Vancouver Social Board

A tight and good group of guys from various backgrounds who want to learn how to become better with women. We have two rules 1) this is not a competition, we are here to help each other and 2) you must be willing to try. We go out very regularly and have some skilled guys.

Visit Yahoo Group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/vancouversocialboard/ Contact: Docandwriter (docandwriter@shaw.ca)

Victoria Social society

This is an open group for all you Victorian men (Victoria, British Columbia, Canada)who wish the study and pursue the art of seduction.

Visit Yahoo Group:http://groups.yahoo.com/group/victoriasocialsociety/

Contact: Docandwriter (docandwriter@shaw.ca)

Calgary Social Group

This is the Calgary PUA Lair for men (young and old) who want to get together to discuss PU and go sarging in Calgary. This group is meant to enrich the lives of men and, I believe ,women indirectly. Everyone can learn and it's only the lack of support and positive influence that cause people to stop trying. Here we can all grow as men and learn the skills we need to accomplish our goals.

Visit Yahoo Group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calgarysocialgroup/

Contact: Elantraman (elantraman2002@yahoo.com) or Docandwriter (docandwriter@shaw.ca)

Brighton Lair <brightonpickup@googlemail.com> Darklight wrote to announce the new Lair which has just been set up in sunny Brighton

on the south coast of England. They are a small group of PUAs hitting up the bars, clubs,

street and beaches of Brighton. People are welcome to join, all styles and skill levels

-- so long as they are active in field. Contact them at http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/brightonpickup/

NEW LAIR FORMING IN MILWAUKEE:

I am going to be starting a new lair consisting of only the Milwaukee and surrounding areas naturals. I feel like with this caliber of a Lair only success is an option. This is going to be a bunch of guys meeting up sporatically for sarging and for schedualed meetings. If you feel you qualify and can positively impact our group, email me at allimalgam@aol.com .

AUSTRIAN PLAYERS

Home of the legendary EuroSummit 2005, most diverse members from total beginners to serial layers from Austria, Germany and Switzerland. Join us! (If you happen to ravel by, drop us a line!) Visit: http://www.austrianplayers.com Contact: Neodes@austrianplayers.com

NEW LAIR FORMING IN AMSTERDAM/HOLLAND:

The lair can be found at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Amsterdam_Dating/

NEW LAIR FORMING IN PORTLAND, MAINE

I'm starting a lair in Portland, Maine so we can truly be "the way life should be"!

Starting with a dozen AFCs & PUAs and looking to grow and share our skills.

Send email to magickman@maine.rr.com if you wish to join.

NEW LAIR FORMING IN MISSISSIPPI/ALABAMA

I'm starting up a lair in MS/AL for anyone in driving distance to the Birmingham area. Contact blake1_19@yahoo.com for anyone interested in joining.

SALT LAKE CITY AND SURROUNDING AREAS
AFCs to PUAs. Meet and share seduction tips. We meet once a week and help push members to become the man they desire!
Contact UtahX at utahrafc@gmail.com

NEW LAIR FORMING IN NORFOLK-VIRGINIA BEACH, VIRGINIA

I'm interested in starting a Seduction Lair in the Norfolk-Virginia Beach area. If anyone is interested, please email me. Thanks,

Stingray9001 stingray9001@yahoo.com

NEW LAIR FORMED IN DENVER

Denver Lair is a community for Denver/Boulder/Colorado area PUAs to wing, talk about the game and make friends in the community. If you're in the Colorado, join our yahoo-group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/denver_puas/

NEW LAIR FORMING IN RICHMOND, VIRGINIA

Hi, I'm starting a lair in Richmond, Virginia, the state capitol with a rather big scene. Currently all gamers in Richmond are forced to go up to DC, or down to North Carolina if they wish to attend a lair meeting. I would like to keep that experience at home, as we have many beautiful women in this wonderful city. Send an email to miikey723@yahoo.com if you wish to join.

EUROPE LAIR FOUNDED

Red Priest has founded the Europe Lair. You can find the description here:

http//groups.yahoo.com/group/europelair/

ISRAEL LAIR:

For the Israel Lair, Tironut 69, go to http://www.tironut69.com

DUNEDIN, NEW ZEALAND LAIR FORMING

For all you Otago students (or campus orbiters) who think you got game! This will be the southernmost lair in the world. Run by an RAFC with a fair bit of bookwork and small experience- any skill level you want, just prepared to approach, talk and try out new stuff. Email me at beest.goes.roar@gmail.com, and will see if we can't get a local lair started. it's time to bring the game to the deep south!

WELLINGTON, NEW ZEALAND LAIR:

An active lair is up and running in Wellington, NZ. Primary focus is going out and working in the field. All skill levels are welcome. Anybody who wants to join constructive, like-minded people in persuing the PUA lifestyle. We have a forum, and a bunch of friendly people who can wing with you to get you off of the ground; email Matt via moxyfmac@gmail.com

TAMPA BAY AND ST. PETE, FLORIDA:

We started a new Lair in the Tampa Bay area. All styles welcome. e-mail us at paradigmaman@yahoo.com

NEW LAIR FORMING IN GENEVA

We want to create a Lair in Geneva, Switzerland. It would be open to French and English speaking people living in Geneva and neighbouring cities like Lausanne and France as well willing to meet and seduce women. All skill levels and ages are accepted. The main task of the Lair will be field experiences on a regular basis. Contact Julien at : Julien72@bluewin.ch

NEW GROUP FOR CHICAGO

Chicago Wingman Meetup Group which currently holds meetings on the first Saturday of every month at 3:00 pm, the place will be disclosed to members once they sign up for the group. The website address is http://wingman.meetup.com/18/ - this group is combining with the Chicago Lair, whose contact was Eric at theprogen2003@yahoo.com Since they've just starting to hold meetings, they have a flexible format but as they get more organized they plan to have guest speakers. Anyone who knows a local PUA (not self proclaimed) is encouraged to invite him/ her over to share ideas. Please post all org issues under http://www.fastseduction.com/cities/Chicago

NEW LAIR FOR EDMONTON

*The Mastermind* The Mastermind is a highly exclusive Pick Up Artist Lair. Based out of Edmonton, Canada we assist guys who are serious and motivated to improve their Pick Up Artist game. We’re located at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/edpualair/ You can also email: manofadventure@jasons-world.com

SAN RAFAEL, CALIFORNIA

The Seduction Lair is up and running in San Rafael, California. Contact activte@aol.com for more information.

PARIS PICK UP CLUB

Formed by a group of FRIENDLY motivated guys from all nationalities with some solid game. The Paris Pick Up Club (PPC) is where all the PUA's and RAFC's BROTHERS living in Paris can share experiences, wing with different people and practice techniques. The goal is to IMPROVE our GAME while having lots of FUN. Since the purpose of the PPC is to practice, in order to join, future members must be available to sarge regularly. Contact alfaztec@yahoo.com

BELGIUM: NL Lounge at dutchseduction.com
An independent platform for the phenomenon known as "seduction" in the Dutch language with members in Amsterdam, the Netherlands, Belgium and points beyond. Founded in 1999, we are one of the first international groups dedicated to seduction. Our purpose is to help members meet one another and share information and experience. Write to passie at passie@gmail.com Visit our Website: http://www.DutchSeduction.com

NETHERLANDS: NL Lounge at dutchseduction.com An independent platform for the phenomenon known as "seduction" in the Dutch language with members in Amsterdam, the Netherlands, Belgium and points beyond. Founded in 1999, we are one of the first international groups dedicated to seduction. Our purpose is to help members meet one another and share information and experience. Write to passie at passie@gmail.com Visit our Website: http://www.DutchSeduction.com

NEW LAIR IN NEW ORLEANS

There is a new Lair in New Orleans and here is the info:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NewOrleansPlayers/ - MIKEALW@HOTMAIL.COM.

Description: This group is for guys in the New Orleans area who are studying the Double your Dating material by David DeAngelo. This group is to get and give advice, to share your experiences and results, and to hook up with other guys so you can go out and work on your game together. Anyone in the New Orleans area is welcome from inexperienced to PUA's.

NEW LAIR IN SINGAPORE
The Singapore Lair is a community for guys interested in improving their skills in meeting and attracting/seducing women. This group is mainly for guys who live in or travel to Singapore, although PUAs from other countries are also welcome. Membership is restricted to doers only -- you must be in the field and have real field experience. No armchair theorists allowed. To join this group, email singaporelair-owner@yahoogroups.com with your name, background and experience.

DALLAS LAIR
The Dallas Seduction Lair has been around for over a year now. We have had 18 official events of both discussion and seminar style events. As well as countless nights of sarging with newfound wingmen by our members. We are now over 120 members strong. Anyone at any skill level with a desire to learn is welcome. More information at: http://wingman.meetup.com/6/ or http://www.DallasSeductionLair.com

DALLAS PUA

DallasPua.com is formed from the spirit of helping my fellow brothers become better in their sarging skills of women and of life; to develop their individual integrity. The site offers many free features such as a forum ( http://www.dallaspua.com/forum ), personal journals/blogs, extensive resource page, and more. It is based out of Dallas, but the tailored PUA features are available to anyone. This is your site! For more info go to http://www.DallasPua.com
HUNGARIAN LAIR FORMING

Hungarian Lair (Budapest) invites all visiting and local people for a great time of sarging in Budapest clubs and streets. We field test MM, SS, RSD, Maniac Plan and various other stuff. Contact us at redpriest_hu@yahoo.com!"

NEW LAIR FORMING IN ITALY:

Our goal is to have a lot of FUN! Why did we create a Lair? To keep in touch with each other and to rock the Italian scene, we want to live like rockstars since we know we DESERVE IT. We have had enough of all the boring guys and loser boyfriends out there that are making women's lives a nightmare when they are waiting for US, the playboys. Join us and we will share with you a lot of secrets that you need to know to totally transform your life life and get more choice not only in life but with every relationship. In order to learn you must be willing to go out with us and try new stuff asking to yourself: "What is possible? What if I get the results I only dreamed of and then even more than that?" Send an email at italy_lair@yahoo.com to join.

NEW LAIR FORMED IN NORWICH (UK):

The Norwich Lair is a group for pickup artists in Norwich (UK) and the surrounding areas. The lair meets every Saturday night , 10PM in Norwich
City. The group is not a talking shop, if you want to remain in the lair you must participate in fieldwork every 90 days. To join the group, send an email to thenorwichlair-subscribe@yahoogroups.com

OHIO LAIR FORMED:

An Ohio Lair has just been created for ASFers located in Ohio. I'm hoping to have regular sarging meetings at different cities in Ohio and regular guest speakers. Any ASFer in Ohio who is interested in joining please email me an intro of yourself to philonous03@yahoo.com.

VIRGINIA/CAROLINA LAIR GROUP

The VAC (Virginia Carolina) Lair is a community for Virginia and Carolina area PUAs to talk about the game, make friends in the community, and meet up with wings in the area. Current members are located in the Charlotte, Blacksburg/Radford, and Raleigh/Chapel Hill areas. While those from outside this area are encouraged to participate, most events will likely be held within these areas. The VAC Lair is open to all levels from Beginner to PickUp Artist (PUA). Just come with a desire to learn, a willingness to share what you know, and a commitment to field test what you learn. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/vaclair/

NEW YORK CITY LAIR:

New York City Team Strike Force - The oldest lair in the U.S. and the only one that can lay claim to having dedicated instructors of reputation on staff, just for the members. Very organized, very respected and very strong sense of community, as well as life balance. You know you want us. Visit @ http://www.nyclair.com Please email admin@nyclair.com to request information about membership.

SECOND NEW YORK LAIR STARTED:

With the help of a few friends, Strongbad has started a lair in NYC. Send an email to either strongbadpua@yahoo.com or

NY-PLAY-subscribe@yahoogroups.com to join if you live in the NY area.

BLOOMINGTON LAIR STARTED:

The Bloomington, IN lair for guys interested in attraction/seduction. This is a group made for guys that want to discuss techniques, inner game, make

new friends, and meet up with wings in the Bloomington area. If your interested in subscribing email: b-lair-subscribe@yahoogroups.com

AUCKLAND, NEW ZEALAND LAIR

Anyone living in Auckland (New Zealand) are welcome to join this bad ass lair. It's consantly growing, we have guys with all sorts of experience levels with diverse styles of game. We sarge regularly. So if you're up for some fun e-mail us at akpuah@gmail.com"

SCOTLAND LAIR:

There is now a Scotland Lair. It's the SSs Group and we have a website at http://www.scotlandlair.com that we JUST put up. The group is currently yahoo based and we would like to start taking in any members who may or may not have heard about us yet. To join, they can visit SSs.scotlandlair.com which will redirect them to our mailing list, or email signup@scotlandlair.com for more instructions on joining. The website is starting to grow big as it's seen on ASF. We have our own discussion forums. We also have a photo and VIDEO gallery where PUAs can upload their own photos and videos and browse those of others!! We are also giving out free scotlandlair.com email addresses to contributors.

BRAZIL NOW HAS A LAIR:

To join please send an email to Brazil_P-L-A-Y-subscribe@yahoogroups.com

NEW LAIR FORMING IN TOKYO:

The Tokyo lair now has a discussion board for discussing the finer points of the Japanese scene, guys looking to meet wings and discuss all things nanpa can email tokyolair@hotmail.com for an invite to the board.

ARIZONA LAIR

Arizona Pick-Up Artist: This lair was started in July 2004 by Cramias and J-Dog. We initially wanted to build a PUA community in Arizona to; improve our skills, have training resources, and especially encourage people in Arizona to actually get involved and wing together. As of Jan'05 we have 33 Arizona memebers and almost 200 members worldwide. Thousands of archived posts and more training resources under way. There is a wing contact list for Verified Arizonan's only, and we have frequent lair meetings and many people now wing together.
Visit http://www.ArizonaPUA.com . Contact jdog@arizonapua.com

ANNOUNCING SOUTH FLORIDA P-L-A-Y LIST:

The South Florida P-L-A-Y list is a community for Miami, Ft Lauderdale and Boca-Palm Beach area PUA's to meet up and improve their game in the field.

All methods are welcome. Please understand that our primary focus will be field work. To join, please contact Zuzu atSouthFlorida-P-L-A-Y-subscribe@yahoogroups.com

THE INDIA LAIR

We are a small but dynamic bunch of aspiring PUAs in India. Guys of all skill levels are welcome but MUST be serious about actually getting out in the field. Please register at the site. New registrants will be verified to weed out KJs. Visit http://www.indialair.com

BRISTOL LAIR

These guys have a truly great site, with a lot of terrific resources. Go to http://www.bristollair.com.

NEW LAIR FORMING IN DALLAS/FORT WORTH:

If you are interested in joining, please send an e-mail to dfwseductionlair@yahoo.com.

NEW LAIR IN GERMANY!

The name of the group is PU_Meetings_Germany. It´s a field oriented group and we welcome everybody from all over Germany to join and attend our meetings which are held in different cities all over Germany. For further information write to: pimpstylez@hotmail.com

NEW LAIR FORMING IN ORANGE COUNTY, CALIFORNIA:

A new lair called the O.C. Player's Group is forming for members of the seduction community in Orange County, California. The group will be a place for everyone from aspiring to accomplished PUAs in "the OC" to post their pick up experiences and successes and meet occasionally in a constructive and non-critical environment. Everyone is welcome, but you must be serious about becoming a PUA and the emphasis will be on getting out into the field and reporting on what worked and what didn't. Armchair pua/theorists need not apply! Contact pua1day (Kurt) for further information at o.c.playasgroup@sbcglobal.net or to join at:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ocplayasgroup/

NEW LAIR FORMING IN HARRISBURG, PA:

No keyboard Junkies, only people who are willing to go out in the field and just get better at the game. All levels are welcome. Contact Gaurang at

gpatel1981@yahoo.com

NEW SYDNEY LAIR STARTED!!!

Monthly meetings with guest speakers. All levels welcomed only prerequisite is that you are in the field. To join please email ta_justin@hotmail.com

NEW LAIR FORMING IN OKLAHOMA CITY:

Lu is looking to start a lair in Oklahoma City, OK. He would like to invite anyone who's interested in going out sarging to join, & help him get the lair started, please respond only if you are interested in Going Out & sarge, or Doing Field Work, contact him at ljp97001@yahoo.com.

NEW LAIR FORMING IN PHILADELPHIA

Looking for a group of guys interested in a Lair in the Philly area. All experience levels welcome but must be willing to actually go into the field. See philadelphiaLair@yahoogroups.com or email me at myaroch@yahoo.com

NEW LAIR FORMING IN AUCKLAND, NEW ZEALAND:

We have already met-up with couple of local guys and sarge 2-3 times a week. We are willing to meet-up with more guys to share the PU knowledge and experience to improve our game. Those of you who are interested contact us at sexualpredator@em-wave.com"

KANSAS CITY LAIR FORMING:

Looking to get a group of like minded guys together to share ideas and most importantly work the field in Kansas City MO. Write eclypz@hotmail.com and include "From Cliff's List" in the title.

NEW LAIR FORMED IN CONNECTICUT:

Open to PUAs and RAFCs who live in CT who are interested in or have real field experience as opposed to keyboard theory. Send an email to djsemtp00@aol.com with your background and experience.

CONNECTICUT PLAYER'S LAIR:

CT Player's Lair now opens its membership to any PUA from the skill levels of RAFC to MPUA and lives in the CT, NY, NJ, RI, or Massachusetts area. We have our own private pick up knowledge base that all members may use as a resource to learn from and use in the field with us. Please register at: http://www.spiritual-seduction.com/phpBB2/index.php (site is either inactive or no longer relevant). Registration is free until January 20th of Next Year!

NEW LAIR FORMED IN OTTAWA:

Ottawa Lair yahoo group created http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ottawalair/

NEW LAIR FORMED IN BOSTON:

The Boston Lair is now open. The lair is a forum for brothers in the Boston, Rhode Island, and upper New England area to get together and meet others in the game and to build an active community in Boston and the surrounding areas. To subscribe to the Lair, email b-o-s-lair-subscribe@yahoogroups.com.

NEW LAIR FORMING IN NORTH CAROLINA:

A group is interested in forming a lair in the North Carolina area. Members include attendees of the Charlotte Sargeathon in November 2003. Meetings may rotate through different cities (possibly outside North Carolina) depending on interest. Contact Jason at thee_jacas@yahoo.com with LAIR in the subject line for more information.

NEW LAIR FORMED IN POLAND:

We've formed a LAIR in Poland http://groups.yahoo.com/group/pflayers/join so if anybody is interested in joining it contact me at PFLayers-owner@yahoogroups.com or subscribe at PFLayers-subscribe@yahoogroups.com. It's unmoderated formum where You can excange your views on the game and meet with wings in your area.

NEW LAIR FORMING IN LAS VEGAS:

Nightlife who runs San Diego is helping a few guys set something up in Vegas so a new group is now forming. To join please send an email LV-P-L-A-Y-subscribe@yahoogroups.com be prepared to give a brief intro.

NEW LAIR FORMING IN ITALY:

Milano will be headquarters. All Italians, Swiss, Austrians, etc are welcome to join. Would like to set up infrastructure for weekly or biweekly weekend sargefests, both day and night. Goals include: hosting seminars/workshops of the world's best PUAs, sharing the best techniques for Italian hotbabes, sarging together, sarging trips to Roma, Firenze, etc. We need to get a solid core of about 10 guys to really get it going. All levels welcome. Email italypua@yahoo.com for info.

ATLANTA LAIR:

Contact: groovewhiz@yahoo.com

NEW LAIR FORMING MILWAUKEE TO MADISON:

A Lair is start for the Milwaukee to Madison, Wisconsin area. Emphasis will be on field sarging and developing a network of like-minded "wings" to develop and maintain a secret society in this area. We will sarge from the college bars of Madison to the redneck fishermen bars of Lake Country to the cheesy working class discos of Milwaukee. All interested parties (male or female) please contact g66@outgun.com

NEW LAIR FORMING IN MONTERREY, MEXICO:

The style I use is C&F from DYD, but am willing to try other styles, and will be very focused in going out and learning. Anyone interested in forming a Lair here in Mexico just write to me: javimartinez50@hotmail.com

NEW LAIR FORMING IN HONOLULU, HAWAII:

Showing those surfergirls a good time since late '03. Drop an e-mail to lair808@hotmail.com for more info on building sandcastles.

NEW LAIR IN CHINA (MAINLAND, TAIWAN, HK):

A list for China based PUA has been set-up. Discuss PU tactics/experiences in China, and meet and practice with other local PUA. Contact Angel Caido on el_angel_caido@lycos.com and join the group @ http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PUA-china/join

NEW LAIR FORMING IN OSLO:

The Oslo Lair just opened. If you are interested / want to join, go to http://groups.yahoo.com/group/asf-Oslo/ and apply. We will start out with monthly meetings, on the first Sunday of every month. The first meeting will be held December 7th, at 18h00.

NEW LAIR FORMING IN LOS ANGELES:

The LA List, PLAY (Player's Los Angeles Yahoo) Group, is a community for Los Angeles area PUAs to talk about the game, make friends in the community, and meet up with wings in the LA area. The PLAY List is a community that is open to the public and is a place where you can share your views on any methods in an unmoderated (except for deletion of spam) forum. Contact Papa at papa@realsocialdynamics.com and get on the mailing list by emailing p-l-a-y-subscribe@yahoogroups.com.

WASHINGTON, D.C.:

DC Seduction, formerly known as DC Area PUAs, has been around since 2000. We are over three dozen brothers drawn from the FastSeduction, SS, and the Lounge communities. Contact Minger at minger@dcseduction.com

SEATTLE LAIR FORMING!

I would like to find out how many are interested in forming a Seattle Lair. Contact theloinking1@hotmail.com to get on their mailing list.

THE AUSTIN SOCIETY (AUSTIN, TEXAS)

The Austin Society is a group of friends, within the greater Austin/San Antonio area, improving their attraction and relationship skills through field work and study. If you are interested in joining and contributing to our group, email us at theaustinsociety@yahoogroups.com for more info. Open-minded gentlemen of all skill levels are welcome."

NEW ORLEANS LAIR FORMING:

Joseph is looking to set up or find a "mastermind group" of likeminded people and he is in the south MS area about 1.5 hours drive from New Orleans or the MS gulf coast. He would like to invite anyone in MS/LA/AL within driving distance to participate, and to help him to get it started. Contact him at: veuxdeux@yahoo.com

NYC:

Contact Marco, marcorulesinfinity@yahoo.com and get on their mailing list: NYCTSF-SUBSCRIBE@YAHOOGROUPS.COM

SAN DIEGO (TWO GROUPS NOW!):

1) The San Diego lair is now opening their doors to potential new members for the next 30 days. If interested in joining the San Diego lair please contact Nightlife at nightlife@playboylifestyle.net

2) Pete M., and Nightlife have formed another seduction group in San Diego. This is to benefit guys who are interested in Pick Up who live or frequent San Diego. It is a group that is modeled after the LA P-L-A-Y list. To join send an email to SD-P-L-A-Y-subscribe@yahoogroups.com It is open to everyone in San Diego.

SAN FRANCISCO BAY AREA LAIR:

We have a very active group in the San Francisco area dedicated to improving their game. All skill levels and types of game welcome. We have meetings once every 6 weeks or so, and numerous sarge outings. We also have top PUA's share their knowledge with us when they come to San Francisco. Our list traffic is low but valuable. Lots of field reports and feedback. To join send an email to sf_morpheus_x@yahoo.com, and mention you heard about us on Cliff's list.

DETROIT LAIR:

New lair starting in Detroit area. Guys of all skill levels are welcome but MUST be SERIOUS about learning. The group will be interactive and do field work also.

Any one willing to learn or teach is welcome. Send Greg an email saying your interested at Grgreg_2001@yahoo.com

HOUSTON:

http://www.houstonlair.com Members of the Lair meet regularly, actively apply and improve their skills and are eager to teach success. Contact: xmlenigma, bashev can be reached at xmlenigma@yahoo.com, rnkayab@hotmail.com

MELBOURNE, AUSTRALIA:

Turning KJs into Active PUA
Members meet twice weekly with approximately 200+ registered members. Currently run mini study groups on Mystery Method, Gunwitch Method, Juggler, SS. We usually meet out in the field and streets so there is plenty of field practice. Our Sarge-Fest is a great learning night for newbies where some of Australias best PUA coach you to improve your game. We also organize other activities such as Salsa dance nights for our members and we encourage our members to contribute back to the community to help it grow. The lair currently runs its own forum so come join this active lair.
Contact iceman at melb.lair.autoreply@gmail.com. See http://Melb-Lair.com

AUCKLAND, NEW ZEALAND

Philip has started a LAIR for those who live in the upper North Island of New Zealand (Auckland, Hamilton, Tauranga, etc). There are already 4 of them who have been meeting regularly in Auckland, and they welcome others to be in touch. SSer's from elsewhere in New Zealand are also welcome to email to share experiences and form a network. Contact: philip@toeb.co.nz

MIAMI:

Contact Jerry at trudelle@email.com to attend.

LONDON, ENGLAND

The London Seduction Society http://www.thelss.com

AMSTERDAM:

Contact Big Bear http://groups.yahoo.com/group/nllounge/

The main purpose of the Lair is to help Wingmen to get in touch with each other and "in field" action! Membership open to anyone who lives in Holland or Belgium, or is a frequent visitor. However membership policy is strict.

PERTH, AUSTRALIA:

The Perth lair is a small group of people who sarge regularly several times a week. At the moment, I'm actively looking for new members to join us on our outings (the more the merrier!). Anyone wishing to go sarging with us any day of the week should email me at tnejad@hotmail.com to meet up.

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Blake Richards has put out a new ebook that looks very interesting. Check it out here: http://www.social-mastery.com/Game.html

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Real Social Dynamics WORKSHOPS:

I highly recommend that you check these guys out. They are in the final stages of producing their long-awaited e-book as well as a redesign of their website.

Anyone interested in attending their seminars and/or workshops, email Papa at papa@realsocialdynamics.com with the subject "WORKSHOP" and mention that you heard about it from Cliff's List.

Real Social Dynamics (http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/):

Learn what works in seminar, and then jump directly into the field and watch the instructors demonstrate and teach it live. Stop feeling the fear of not knowing what to do ...

Individualized Bootcamps

Sign up and get more info here: http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/)

Real Social Dynamics has just launched its new website, forum communities, and Foundations DVD/CD set. This is the most comprehensive program they've delivered at a seminar and they were fortunate to have recorded it as well. Visitors can check out the new forum or get the new Foundations home study course at http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/

More info also available by sending an email to: support@relsocialdynamics.com

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The Venusian Art Society is dedicated to the pursuit of Relationship Mastery.

We have started a Yahoo group in each city our members are located in Denver,Houston, and Atlanta. You can register for membership by going to Yahoo and joining V_A_S_D or V_A_S_A or V_A_S_H. Be sure to include your experience in the Venusian Arts as well as what you hope to get out of them.

This forum will serve as a way to discuss any and all issues related to the Venusian Arts, from cold approach to relationship management. We welcome all active participants in the Venusian arts from any of the various schools such as MM, SS, DYD, etc..

This will be a controlled forum so feel free to post anything you want as long as it is directly relatable to the Venusian Arts. This is not a classified board or a place to advertise.

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New Dating/Seduction Seminars & Workshop in Montreal by DOC!

Doc, who many of you know from his great interview here last time and all too rare but outstanding posts on this list, on Mystery's Lounge, and the Montreal Lair, is bringing his seminars and speed dating events to Montreal. Previously they were mainly held in Toronto as part of the Learning Annex, Doc is now setting it up here and plans to hold events on a monthly basis.

The website is http://www.lifeskillsnetwork.ca. Registrations available on the website. The events are Dating Secrets for Women, a 3 Hour seminar (cost $50) and Dating Secrets for Guys; a Guide to The Art of Dating (also 3 hours and $50). There will also be a speed dating event in the evening for $50. You can contact Doc by email at seduction.school@sympatico.ca.

The fall calendar has a full weekend seminar and makeover. He also has 3 new books coming out this fall under the SETNA Dating Manual Series. Volume I (to be released this week) deals with the psychology of attraction, first impressions, and working on your inner game, Volume II (coming in September) deals with tactics and strategies to go from meeting her to dating her, and Volume III will deal with Managing Relationships.

Full-weekend Dating Makeover workshops will be offered soon (including a half day with a personal stylist, video tape analysis of body language, and live practice sessions with dating coaches beautiful women who will give the guys on the spot feedback on how they come across and what to improve). If there is a group of 10 or more guys interested in a seminar (or 5 guys for a workshop, he would consider making a special trip to their city).

This is a great opportunity to learn from a real master.

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Mystery Method Workshops:

What method are YOU using?

If you are opening groups (or sets: 2-sets, 3-sets, mixed sets, etc) of people with the 3 second rule by stacking indirect openers (including false opinion openers), false time constraining (discovered by Style), demonstrating a higher value to your romantic interest’s peer group with high octane DHVs while she obliquely observes (locking her into her own set with a prop), and simultaneously performing false disqualifiers (which include negs) on her with the intension of disarming her peergroup and then isolating her to rebuild her self-esteem once you have enough IOIs (indicators of interest) so you may share in a comfort and trust building effort and then build in a jealousy subplot to solidify her attraction for you, you are using The Mystery Method.

If instead you are only approaching women who are alone, you are greatly limiting your options and quite likely alienating your target's friends. Do you want a lonely woman (why is she lonely?) or a woman who already has a healthy social lfe? Truth is, healthy women have healthy relationships ... sometimes good friendships with guys. Like it or not, you will have to meet these women with men in her group.

Women of beauty are rarely found alone. Don't miss the opportunity to meet and attract them WITH social proof from her very own peergroup. Group Approach Theory (GAT - created by me) improves your options and increases the chances for attraction DRAMATICALLY over Single Approach Theory (SAT).

The guys who are GREAT in this game KNOW that they can improve their game ten-fold through seminars and personal coaching in-field workshops. Think about this: Why did so many of the greats who use my GAT (Style, Tyler D., MTL_PUA, and others) take my seminars and workshops? What started them off to greatness in this game? Can you see the co-relation may in fact be a causation?

If you have NEVER taken a seminar or workshop before, it's time to finally reconsider. They are life-transforming. I have conducted dozens of them. I am currently conducting a bootcamp and will accept only 5 people. Workshops and seminars were for many of the greats THE difference between great success and failure. If you are ready, give me a call and sign up. If you have any questions, give me a shout at 323-219-8696 (Mystery) because email sucks, or visit http://www.themysterymethod.com/?kbid=2614

and email me your #. We need to talk. Man to man.

NEW: Attraction Magic

Content: In the Attraction Magic Seminar, Mystery will teach you the magical illusions most useful in picking up women. In addition to rune casting and sleight of hand, he will teach you to vanish coins, rings, jewelry and other small objects. You will also be taught how to move objects without touching them and how to "read" minds. As I'm sure you can imagine, magic is a superb DHV. Captivating and impressing an entire group of people goes a long way in raising your social value in the eyes of women. If there is one thing that Mystery knows more about than women, it is magic.

http://www.themysterymethod.com/?kbid=2614

Tenmagnet is doing Mystery Method workshops in Toronto and Montreal.

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DJ:

Upcoming 2 day inner game and storytelling programs:

This program focuses on how to take experiences from your life and convey them in an attractive, fun, and seductive way and incorporates everything from voice projection exercises to hypnotic language structures to deep inner work on who you are and what you want to convey. The first day is inner game intensive while the second day focuses on the mechanics of storytelling for a truly *complete* experience

I've received so many requests to build in some of the "old school" material on value elicitation and creating a rapport that invites her to open up to you, that I've decided to build it into this program. There will be a special section on moving from flash attraction to true connection. Please contact me for a flier with more details!

I’m offering special discounts for these programs so please email me for details at dj_seminar@yahoo.com ...

I hope everyone is well and I look forward to hearing from you. Feel free to drop a line to say hello…

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DR. PAUL SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT:

Announcing the Dr. Paul 7th Sense Seminar(TM) in Chicago, Feb. 2-4th!

This is your first chance in the New Year to learn the bottom line in dating. You can bridge the gap between who you are and who you want to be. In an industry increasingly dominated by hype, I want to make a rare move and speak very plainly about what distinguishes the 7th Sense Seminar(TM) from other training in self help and social skills.

When you think about it, everything relevant to your love life simply breaks down into three areas of understanding and mastery: You, her, and the interaction between you. Here’s what you’ll learn:

You…

The core technology I’ve taught for years is known as MindOS. I called it the operating system of the human mind for a reason. If you start to dig into psychology you see patterns and predictable responses to life, a sort of biological machinery. People are often frustrated when they learn this and feel trapped in their own head as they struggle again and again with the same problems. What makes the difference, and what I teach as a board certified psychologist, is the connection and pattern that goes beyond the different theories of psychology.

This isn’t an arm chair notion. I’ve used my approach to the mind to produce profound change in patients for over a decade, refining it into a system that is easy to understand and use. It’s no surprise that what works for people with huge challenges in therapy works even better and faster for those who are already functional people looking for change.

You have the rare opportunity to truly work on your life from the "inside out" by mastering yourself, rather than looking at the surface behaviors. Many dating coaches are, in effect, teaching you to be an actor with a very specific role. Is that really what calls to you in life, or do you want more?

Her…

One of the criticisms you may have seen on T.V. when people respond to guru’s teaching about "seduction" is the claim that women are "objectified." If you don’t look at people as individuals, you’re cheating yourself of a lot of the joy you can have. Do you know anybody who obsesses over every interaction they have with a girl? Has their view of dating become rigid and mechanical?

The bottom line is that individuality matters, and you can’t approach every woman with the same mindset. You can increase your success with women, your peace of mind and your mental health by learning more about others. At the 7th Sense Seminar(TM) you’ll learn a revolutionary system of understanding personality types known as KWML(TM). This stands for King, Warrior, Magician and Lover.

KWML™ has an advantage over other personality profiling systems because it can be used quickly, in the moment and out in the open. It doesn’t require lengthy questionnaires or tests like a traditional Myers-Briggs. You can learn to get a true sense of a person’s motivations and needs in an instant just by talking and keeping your eyes open. This lets you give people what they need at a deep level, and helps you predict the challenges and rewards of dating a particular girl from day one.

When you master this system of understanding personality, you’ll have the key that lets you look at yourself and others objectively. Understanding people will always be a puzzle to be solved, but you can learn to see how the pieces fit.

You and Her…

You’ve probably noticed that a lot of attention is given to the surface interactions in dating. Men’s advice has focused on things to say and ways to behave. Women’s advice has focused on how to look and "rules" for dating. With DatingOS, you have the chance to put it all together and understand the real connection that binds dating behavior to inner psychology. This is the model of human courtship.

Courtship covers all the elements of evolutionary psychology, biology, sociology and culture that bring a man and a woman from attraction and friendship to a possible long term or sexual connection. DatingOS is the premium model for understanding human sexuality.

What does it all mean? When you combine real skill at self mastery, deep insight into other people as individuals, and a solid grasp of the real science of human courtship, you will know all that you need to change your life, not only with women but in everything.

The 7th Sense Seminar (TM) also includes more time with live coaching than other social trainers, nearly a full 24 hours dedicated to practice, workshops and field work. This is in addition to all the seminar and classroom training.

Put it all together and you have more deep education and more practical applications than you can find anywhere else. To see the full sales description and checkout all the details, visit http://doctorpaul.net/products.htm. See you there

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The new technology (DatingOS) Dr. Paul is unleashing on the world completely explains what your hangups are, not only in "hooking up" or "approaching," but through the dating process and deep into relationships. This doesn't exist anywhere else, nor will it, because Dr Paul has gone through twenty years of both psychiatric clinical training, seen 15,000 patients with problems of both a "dating" nature, AND comprehensively solves deep problems that people have with sexual attraction, commitment, marriage, breakups, relationships, trauma, depression, anxiety disorders, ADD, OCD, career complications, cheating and betrayal.

If you want permanent RESULTS, you may need some real science, and the same fun time you have at other seminars of course, with more mastery of ALL psychology of dating—INNER GAME, OUTER GAME, and never before seen PROFILING of women for perfect fit to your personality.

So far, DatingOS has only been available in person, at seminars in the heart of the city of SINGLES, in summertime after a bitter winter has all females in a frenzy of cabin fever. See http://doctorpaul.net/products.htm

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Herbal has started a new web site called "Tynan's Angels" where three of his beautiful female friends dispense pickup, dating, and sex advice every day. For more information, visit the site at http://www.tynansangels.com

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Brian has a network of sites at http://bogdock.com/ and in there he has launched a dating site, http://www.fullcontactdating.com/

which he generously has included a page for Cliff's List at:

http://www.fullcontactdating.com/index.php/cliffs-list/

which you should visit! As a reward for visiting Brian's site, you can get a F R E E copy of his new e-book which can be downloaded from:

http://www.fullcontactdating.com/index.php/btp/

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Dear fellow PUAs,

Probably you've heard that this year's EuroSummit will be held in London. After last year's awesome success in Vienna, we decided to take it to the
next level. In London, the nerve centre of Europe, we are getting ready to rock the world.

If have some PU experience and ready to travel, come join us, and take part in our celebration of the fairer sex. During these 3 days and 3 nights of sarging, you can meet some of the best PUAs and most beautiful girls in Europe, and you can also hold your speech if you'd like to.

Please write us that you'd like to join us in London provided all the people come you'd want to see.

It's a survey until we finish the site. You by NO MEANS will have an obligation to us, nor will your name be displayed on the EuroSummit site.

For advanced PUAs:
Please also tell us if you'd like to hold a speech, and of which topic. We'll schedule it then, but the final schedule will depend on the other speakers, too.

And after you send a pre-application, we'll send you the list of people who already signed up.

Please send your email to redpriest_hu@yahoo.com , with the subject "Euro Summit"

Thank you,

RedPriest

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Derek Vitalio:

Seduction Science Live In-Field Workshops!

The fact is, only by MODELING the very best can you achieve the very best. In a Seduction Science workshop, you'll meet and train with master coach McMaax who will take you to unique hot spots all over a particular city for meeting the most attractive, beautiful women. Your coach will demonstrate their skills and explain, teach, and show you how to interact with women at a club and on the street.

With a coach, you'll find an immediate shift in your skills and understanding with women as you see what it takes demoed live and right in front of you. And there's no reason to take the long and hard path or reinvent the wheel. After making hundreds of approaches, we've learned what works and what doesn't. We'll show you exactly how it's done and save you months, if not years of time.

You'll never have to go back to feeling lonely or lost and live passionately once again. Reserve your place as soon as possible (placing is limited!) so that you're guaranteed a spot.

For more information on the full workshop schedule visit: http://www.seductionscience.com/

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Swinggcat has published a new ebook which you can check out at his website at http://www.realworldseduction.com. Those of you who remember his outstanding posts here will be anxious to get this as soon as possible. Highly recommended.

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Ross Jeffries Speed Seduction Seminars (http://www.speedseduction.net/)

Advanced Speed Seduction® Seminars - All Seminars Updated!

Look for more details soon, or call Dr. Yates at 903-482-1034. This seminar is ONLY open to those who own a Speed Seduction Home Study Course so you better hop on line and buy one now if you don't already have one and plan on attending.

Speed Seduction Seminars

Schedule 2006

Finished for 2006

Speed Life Seminars

Finished for 2006

Magick / Psychic Influence Seminars

Finished for 2006

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Major Mark (http://www.trucor.com):

Send mail to Cassi@trucor.com with questions or comments about his seminars.

Call to register: 419 882-8543 or go to http://www.trucor.com

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Double Your Dating LIVE! NEW Seminar! We will be reviewing all of the new DYD products here soon, including the monthly interview series in which David DeAngelo interviews "Dating Gurus".

You can order all your DYD products and register for seminars through this link: http://doubleyourdating.com/

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Spirit (Founder of The National Player's Lair):

Attract and Seduce Women by being 'who you are' and join The National Player's Lair for FREE! The lair is now OPEN to anyone interested in getting beautiful women to your front doorstep in an instant! Act soon because we WILL be closing our open invitation very soon and only allowing a select few to join with us! Look forward to meeting you! http://groups.yahoo.com/group/theplayerslair/

Spiritual Seduction Forums - Get your dream girl now. Awaken your inner seductive powers here.
http://www.spiritual-seduction.com/phpBB2/index.php?c=1

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Threesomes! The Secrets To Making Your Fantasy A Reality

A home study course by David Shade http://www.masterful-lover.com/ebook.html

If you are like most men, you have had a fantasy about a threesome with 2 hot bi-sexual women. Everything you could possibly need to know about how to have threesomes is in this special information packed course.

The FIRST And ONLY, step-by-step guide written for men, featuring Pickup Artists and couples who are actually having threesomes all the time.

I GUARANTEE you that you've NEVER been exposed to, or had real Threesomes explained to you in the way I've done it here in this course!

It doesn't matter if you are in a relationship currently or not, every situation is covered here...

- The 3 scenarios to make a threesome happen (pick the one that works BEST for you)

- How to have threesomes as part of a committed relationship (and have it bring you closer together)

- The real truth about women and bisexuality (This will SURPRISE you)

- Proven methods to deal with your woman if she is on the fence about having a threesome. (You will have her begging you to make it happen)

- 4 vital things you MUST know about bisexual women (if you want to be successful having threesomes)

- How you can tell if a women is bi-sexual or not. (It's not what you think)

- The single biggest obstacle most women have to doing a threesome with their man. (when you can deal with this, the rest is easy)

- The foolproof way to bring up the subject of threesomes when you

have been with a woman for a long time. (This one is so powerful I almost didn't release it)

- The one thing you can say that shows a bisexual woman you are NOT like all the other guys (Do this and they might even fall in LOVE with you)

- Also, actual field reports of David & his girlfriend picking up bisexual women

- And much, much more...

The bottom line is that by learning how to have threesomes... YOU can live life fully and enjoy being a sensual person through expression of healthy sexuality in a mutually beneficial way.

Free samples of the course video online, check it out at http://www.masterful-lover.com/ebook.html

The classic 'David Shade Manual' goes online
You've done all the hard work, found the HB, attracted her, managed to get her back to your place, now you need to skills in the bedroom if
you want to keep the attraction going. Being able to give her the sexual experience of her life is the final tool in the seducer's
toolkit, so make sure you make the most of this opportunity. David Shade, as you are no doubt aware, is well known in the seduction
community as the master of bedmanship skills.

His masterpiece the 'David Shade Masterful Lover Manual' is now available for the first time online at http://www.masterful-lover.com/ebook.html. Highly
recommended, it is possibly the only book on the subject you will ever need. Compulsory reading.

http://www.masterful-lover.com/ebook.html
"The Seduction End-Game"

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Payton Kane's Seduce and Conquer (http://www.seduceandconquer.com/seducewomen) CD disks present Payton's unique, dynamic style of meeting and seducing women. His methods are very natural and are the epitome of the original advice you get - tease and take away, play hard to get, etc. Definitely worth checking out, but not for everyone.

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Allow me to Re-Introduce Myself......

It looks like the buzz has begun. People are starting to
ask questions.

Check this post I found on fast seduction:

On 6/23/06 1:05:00 AM, T wrote:
>I've been getting some e-mails
>by will from DYD. I was
>wondering if anyone knows his
>style of game or if anyone has
>had coaching from him.

To clarify, I think you mean Will H. from the many
DYD programs, though he doesnt actually work for
DYD.

Anyway, having met and hung out with Will many
times in person, he is one of the coolest, most laid
back and funny people I have ever met.

He is also one of the top guys for approaching that
I have ever seen. I have only seen him get a bad
reaction once, and he was going for that on purpose
so that he could turn it around later (which he did
and number closed the girl).

He came to Boston last summer for an event called
the 'Supermodel Tour' and between him and me,
we number closed all the finalists, even though
there was competition there from New England
Patriot football players :-)

Formhandle and I also hung out with him in
Montreal, and to this day keep recalling some of
the cool approaches he did on the street there.

I dont know if he is still doing private bootcamps,
but a friend of ours here in Boston took one, and
met a girl during the bootcamp that he is still dating
now almost a year later, so the results there speak
for themselves.

Other major strengths he has is club game (setting
up the club, etc.), managing multiple women (he
probably has at least 10 going himself at any one
time) and critiquing your overall style and wardrobe.

TokyoPUA

Thanks TokyoPUA.

It's nice to hear guys saying such positive things about
you and the work you do.

(My clients love me even more. :)

Between 'Managing' my VERY active social life, and
trying to put some stuff together for you, I have to tell
you I'm SLAMMED.

(I might have to 'cut loose' some of my ladies)

Seriously, I barely have enough time to watch TV
anymore. Not that I'm complaining because It's really
cool to get emails from my subscribers.

(this is ALL new to me)

I've been getting a LOT of emails from guys interested
in learning more, thing is, I don't have anything to sell
you!

However, If enough of you are interested, then I'd
consider doing a group phone coaching thing, or even
a BOOTCAMP.

If you missed the other email with the download link
to the Mp3 file of my interview, you can get the recording
here. no strings attached:

http://www.youaresoinmyway.com/will_interview.html

Dave M. gave me a heavy arm twisting and made me
spill the beans about some of my newest dating tricks
and tips.

(The tip about the TEXT message is a Will Daddy CLASSIC!)

NOTE: I may be taking the call down shortly because
I'm a bit nervous about guys knowing these dating tips
and secrets - so this is not a made-up scarcity motivator) :)

Good stuff, no charge. Here it is:

http://www.youaresoinmyway.com/will_interview.html

Now go meet some women!

Will

P.S. I'll be taking this one down in a day or so. It's
best to go ahead and watch it now.

P.P.S. GOT DATING QUESTIONS?

I've got answers. Send em' to me at:
will@youaresoinmyway.com

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NEW PRODUCTS FROM DAVE RIKER

Have you ever wished that Speed Seduction® was taught in a more structured way, piece by piece, subject by subject, in a way that allows you to really

understand it, really KNOW it and really USE and APPLY it even better than before?

If so, check out http://www.daveriker.com/ssmanual/

Riker's Seduction Log - Live Seminar

If you always wanted to hear more field reports, with full details, and even some recordings, then this seminar is for you. Dave Riker (Ross's co-trainer for those of you who don't know him) spends about 3 hours each evening going through his personal Logs and notes and provides full reports on sarges, many from start to close (finish). And that's a full "close" by the way, not just an email address or phone number!

The seminar is held in conjunction with Ross Jeffries Speed Seduction Seminars. Ross's seminar is during the day (and Riker presents at that too) and then Riker does his seminar in the evening. And even if you do not attend Ross's seminar you can still attend Riker's.

For full details see the web page at: http://www.daveriker.com/logseminar/track/cl.htm (site is either inactive or no longer relevant)

Be sure to check out his "Reviews" page on his site. Many guys that have been in the game for a while, and attended a LOT of seminars, were just blown away by Riker's Log seminar.

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Introducing 1 on 1 Badboy workshops:

Badboy is a Croatian PUA from Zagreb who has spent almost 4 years in the game. He is also a respected poster in Mystery's lounge.

To see some of his stuff, search for posts by "croBadboy" on mASF or read one of the recent issues of Cliff's list.

Workshops are 1 on 1 for 3 days.

Each day consists of a 4-hour seminar and 5 hours of active in-field work. Each night you will make 20-30 approaches with your teacher to get field experience. 1 on 1 training makes it possible to answer any questions you might have and cover the most important aspects of the game in detail. Teachings are tailored to your level in the game.

The basic structure of the workshop is:

Day 1:

Social intelligence/emotional intelligence

How to dress, peacocking vs. dressing style

Alpha-male bodylanguage secrets

Attitude (inner-game) and getting a good seductive voice

Difference between emotional and party type girls

Social dynamics in clubs (2sets/3sets/lonewolves), know your city

Openers (sets with males vs. only-girl sets)

Day 2:

Difference between PUing alone and with a wing

Different tools for getting attraction

Power of contrast (bad boy & nice guy in one)

Stealing their frames

Passing sh*t tests

Push-pull

Isolation tactics(2steps)

Day 3:

AMOG tactics (the AMOG handshake, group set AMOG destroyers)

Boyfriend destroyers

Passing LMR

Secrets of good s*ex

How to manage a good relationship

More bodylanguage secrets

How to turn Coffee dates into f*ck-fest in just 1 hour

How to turn a 0$ date into a time she will never forget

Difference between PUing in different places (small towns, big cities, colleges and the difference between certain clubs and the girls who go there)

Badboy says he can write a pages of what he does with guys because it's not just PU. He opens their EYES to LIFE, to understand how to live successfully.

For more info, email Badboy at badboy@playboylifestyle.net. See Badboy's new website: http://www.badboylifestyle.com/

You can book your workshop on: http://www.badboylifestyle.com/

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Recently I received an email from Tony, the author of the Layguide:

Dear LayGuide reader,

Ever since I put LayGuide online in 1999, I have never e-mailed a single LayGuide member about anything. I have now decided to write you my first e-mail, since I think the information I am about to give you is important enough.

A while back I was asked to contribute my best tips to an upcoming book which would feature the best dating advice by experts from around the world. It was devised as a sort of competition between the top players to see, who can dish out the best techniques and strategies. The book is now ready and is called "Instant Attraction" - but instead of telling you that this compilation is the "holey-moley end-all best thing since sliced bread", I am now going to give you my step-by-step BRUTALLY HONEST review of the whole package, the authors it features and what I think of the advice they give.

So here goes.

The package itself is huge, it consists of a 430+ page main ebook plus bonus books and audio programs. You can download it all here: http://www.instantattractionprogram.com/

It certainly took me a while to read and listen through it all. I'll start with the main 430+ page ebook and will tackle the authors one by one in the order in which they are presented in the book.

1. Rion Williams - good general theory, though I would have preferred a bit more practical advice to go with his theories.

2. Marius Panzarella - good advice.

3. Matt Carbone - excellent advice! Good enjoyable writing plus his advice is right on the money. One of the highlights of the package!

4. Mark Geiger - absolutely horrible advice. His suggestions read like a checklist of things to be avoided. At times it felt like the whole thing was written by a woman since only women have been known to give comparably bad dating advice to men (I don't mean to be rude to all the female dating experts out there but unfortunately that has been my experience). Most of the suggestions can be labeled either as "how to be a wussy boyfriend" or "how to be a good husband", however neither have little to do with meeting and attracting women, which should be the focus of this book.

5. Giuseppe Notte - good theory and practical tips. Maybe a bit too many tips on what NOT to do, which is somewhat out of place in a setting where the author has been asked to provide only his very best tips, but solid advice nevertheless.

6. Tony Clink - Well that's me. I participated by contributing 28 of my best tips, most of which are NOT included in LayGuide and which I wrote specifically for this package. I personally think they rock. I hope you like them as well and will find them useful:)

7. Will Hicks - superb advice, he really knows his stuff. Highly recommended, another highlight of the program!

8. Mark J Ryan - good advice, lots of example stories.

9. Elena Petrova - She gives advice on how to date Eastern European and Russian women. At first I was taken aback, since I've never really been comfortable with the idea of dating someone from overseas (I do not believe in long distance relationships), especially from an economically less developed country. Then again, I do live in one of those Eastern European countries myself and date Eastern European women exclusively, so I tried to keep on open mind to see what this author had to say about the issue. To my surprise her advice is very sound and true. If you consider dating Eastern European women a possibility, I would highly recommend the advice. And even if you're not interested in dating women from abroad, there is still a lot of good general theory explaining the dating game in here.

10. Cucan Pemo - starts out with a lot of confusing New Age stuff about Expanding Vortexes of Energy Exchange, Channeling Cosmic Energies, Communicating with the Universe etc. Not my cup of tea really. If it works for some, great. But unless you are a New Age buff, you will find this a frustrating read. Compounding the problem is the fact that the author is a woman and women are notoriously bad at giving dating advice to men. The advice she's giving improves a bit towards the end and she even presents some good general theories here and there, but overall it is a tiresome read.

11. Carlos Xuma (audio program) - At the very beginning he takes solid ideas but seems to present them in a somewhat twisted manner. Things improve though and the latter part of the audio program offers solid, strong and applicable tips. Overall the info is well worth the listen.


And here are the bonus books:

* Giuseppe Notte - good general tips, though some are recycled from the main book and others are actual lovemaking tips, which I think are usually the scope of other kinds of guides, but that's just my personal opinion:)

* Simon Heong - his two bonus books offer good basic info.

* John Alexander - very strong good psychological information. Also good practical tips. Highly recommended, one of the highlights!

* Martin Merrill - good info on humour and making women laugh. He mostly plugs his own book on the subject, but also gives some good tips.

(Also some additional bonus books have been added recently and although I haven't read them yet, judging from the rest of the material I'm assuming they follow the same general theme of good advice).


So overall what do I think of the package? The advice by Matt Carbone, Will Hicks and John Alexander is absolutely top notch. I'd like to think that my tips are some of the best as well:) Also the advice by Mark J Ryan, Carlos Xuma, Giuseppe Notte, Rion Williams and Marius Panzarella is very good and the advice by Martin Merrill, Simon Heong and Elena Petrova is strong. On the flipside Cucan Pemo gives very confusing advice and Mark Geiger's advice reads like a checklist of things to avoid. As you can see though, I think the good far outweighs the bad and the package is definitely worth a download.

But check it out yourself, you can get it here: http://www.instantattractionprogram.com/


Regards,
Tony
http://www.layguide.com/

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If you don't know what LayGuide is, then here's a quote to introduce it:

"I was happy with myself and my life. That is until an innocent phone

call from my book editor, who had stumbled across a document on the

Internet called the LayGuide. Compressed into 150 sizzling pages was the

collected wisdom of dozens of pickup artists who have been exchanging

their knowledge in newsgroups for nearly a decade, secretly working to

turn the art of seduction into an exact science. The moment I started

reading, my life changed. More than any other book or document - be it

the Bible, Crime and Punishment or the Joy of Cooking - the LayGuide

opened my eyes!"

Neil Strauss, "The Game"

LayGuide - the original inspiration for Neil Strauss to write "The Game"

- is still the most thourough and continually updated collection of the

best dating, attraction and seduction tips, strategies and techniques in

the world. The site will soon revert to a 1-year subscription model, but

if you hurry, you can still get the lifetime membership here:

http://www.layguide.com/

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- Dr Alex Benzer of the Tao of Dating is holding two f r e e preview calls for his Tao of Persuasion teleseminar series. The course is on general persuasion with an emphasis on dating and business applications. To get call-in information, send a blank email to taoofdating-199783@autocontactor.com.

The beauty of The Tao of Dating Transformation Weekend seminar is that Dr. Alex will be leading the exercises, making sure you do them (and throwing some trancework in there to supercharge it). Most people go through an entire lifetime not having done an exercise like this. You don't have to be one of them. Here you can get more info about all that will go on at the weekend:

http://www.thetaoofdating.com/

The Tao of Dating Transformation Weekend is about taking that cosmic mallet to your own head and figuring this stuff out for yourself. Not because *Dr. Alex* is saying it's right, but because you're feeling it in your bones and it feels right *for you*. Your brain will figure out which it likes better -- the carrying around of past injury like a dead weight, or the lightness and ease of letting go. And the millisecond it figures out which one is more fun, it will never go back.

Like when you find a shortcut and never go the long way again.

Come join us in LA if you can. Seats are going fast, and Dr. Alex would like to see you there. It's going to be lots of fun.

The power is within you, Dr Alex.

You can write Dr. Alex at dralex@thetaoofdating.com

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New book release: "Park bench Dating"

Are you currently meeting women as you go through your day? Do you know what to do on a date? This book should answer any question that you have in these situations and many more areas on how to meet women in the day time. Buy it between its release of January 7th and Valentines Day at http://www.ParkBenchDating.com and you'll be automatically entered to win a copy of "The Game" signed by Neal Straus, Mystery, and six other top PUA's.

Written by Art Malov, a master day game PUA who has been coaching men in New York on meeting and dating for many years. The book covers the psychological aspects of dating, ways to assure that the girl won’t be flake through out dating, how to get a solid number in less than five minutes at any time during the day and much more. Art refined his day game in one of the toughest city to meet women, now it’s your chance to learn how you can apply it as you go to work, doing your shopping or just walking down the street . Don’t just sarge intentionally, make meeting women an effortless second nature.

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Since I joined the community I've been hoping someone would come up with a web page that I could go to, each day, to find out what is new in the seduction community, but one never materialized. Rather than wait, I started one - dailyseduction.com .

Each day dailyseduction.com is updated with articles on what is happening in the community. Articles such as: New product announcements.

News of upcoming seminars.

Dates of lair meetings.

Notices of newsletters being sent out. Too often I have found out about seminars when it is way too close to the date to be able to get time off work, or the flights were now too expensive or full. I've even had seminars held in my own town that I din't even know about and which I would have loved to have attended.

And how often have you found newsletters mistakenly in the junk mail folder (I've found several of Cliff's mailing in there long after they were sent, put there by an over zealous junk mail filter)? When newsletters are mentioned on dailyseduction.com then if an interested reader hasn't received it they can know to go the to the sender's web page to read it and look around the sender's web site to find out more.

dailyseduction.com doesn't copy what is on the original web site, instead we write a one sentence article and include a link to the original web site so that it gets the traffic and the interested reader can then look at when else is on the original web site. (Take a look at dailyseduction.com and see how it works.)

dailyseduction.com does not currently plan to do reviews or interviews (others are already doing those), dailyseduction.com just carries today's news. There is no plan for an editorial, either, just the news.

If any of your readers have a new product they want to let the community know about, or if they plan on holding a seminar in the near future, or maybe they want to announce a lair meeting, then have them send an email to Editor@DailySeduction.com and I'll see about including an article it on dailyseduction.com .

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Want the AMAZING results of a weekend workshop but don't want to pay the absurd costs associated with other companies? Instructors Maverick & Orleans at Lifestyle Imaging are now introducing to the community the $350 Art of Attraction workshop. These will be held every two weeks. See videos of actual workshops! Inquire at http://www.lifestyleimaging.net

Reviews:

The Lifestyle Imagining workshop by Maverick and Orleans opened my eyes to areas in the game I never knew existed. After taking the workshop and being in-field Friday and Saturday night, my game has improved drastically. In comparison to the other bootcamps being offered for over 2 grand, a complete bootcamp for less than half the price didn't seem real; but I can say for certain that my game has improved more in 3 days than it has over the past 3 months.

The handbook which came with the course also offers very insightful information into Lifestyle Imaging. With personalized and dedicated instructors striving to make the most out of their students, you can be sure you'll see results... And fast. -Mike

"I've always known about this stuff but this is the first time since I've been reading and talking about it, that I actually FEEL like a pick up artist" and I still do. This weekend was a TOTAL change, for me and my improvement. I used to go out on the weekend to try pickup because I wanted to get good. This weekend I want to do it because ITS SO MUCH GOD DAMN FUN. I can't wait to do it again. -Quicklips

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Grant Adams Net2Bed Ebook Special Offer

I often get questions about how to succeed with online dating, which presents a whole set of its own challenges...

When you're meeting a woman in person, you can use your voice, your body language, your facial expressions to communicate worlds of information.

But online, both in constructing a profile that is magnetic, and in your letters and IMs, it is all about the tool of language.

And there is no one better at making your language pierce to the core of the female heart than my friend Grant Adams. His Net2Bed Ebook arrived earlier this year with a bang. Grant combines a unique background in semiotics -- the art of sending signals -- with years of high level marketing writing. Additionally, as a successful Hollywood writer, he's written enough Lifetime and other women's movies that he, in his words, "can now ovulate on command."

The man knows women and more importantly, knows how to awaken their sensual inner selves with nothing but language.

His success in alluring women online reached a high point when he was selected by the star of an ABC television dating show to join her on the show - solely on the strength of his profile. They had never met, nor did he ask for it. But she scrolled through hundreds of profiles and exclaimed "Damn!" on national TV, "who's THIS guy?"

Grant's book is specifically designed to get YOU that "Damn! Who's THIS guy" reaction to your profile. Most guys' profiles are just dead words, invisible, skipped over by women time and time again. His system, by contrast, will teach you how to stand out online in every possible way. Some the techniques he teaches include

* How to subtly Create Trust so she moves towards you (rather than those other clunky guys online) with confidence and speed

* How to invite Her into a "dream state" about you with suggestive and imaginative imaging of your life, your sense of purpose and service

* How to embed sexuality without sex, through the use of sensually awake language so that SHE mentions sex first

* How to combine Electrically Contrasting Signifiers that will create an alluring puzzle she just cant let go of

* How to identify and "sing" to her idealized self, in a way that 99% of guys wouldn't know where to begin

* How to employ key emotional trigger words that most guys don't know, much less know how to use.

The list goes on and on.

Grant just updated his Net2Bed-Net2Wed ebook and recorded a new audio edition that is like a fat ring of magic keys to attracting women online. When I heard about what he'd done, I made a special arrangement with him that you've just got to check out - an offer better than he'll probably ever offer again.

Plus, I got him to give away part of the system to you for nothing. He's going to give to you -- just because I've referred you -- a copy of his "How to Read a Woman" teleseminar so you can discover how to find the hidden nuggets of information buried in a beautiful woman's profile.

It's a $37 recording, but yours free -- only IF you go get it right now.

http://www.net2bed.com/v2/december/special_howtoreadawoman.php

He's pulling the offer in less than a week, but I don't know exactly when. I think he's got a limit for how many he'll be giving away for free, and once he reaches it, the offer -- and the free teleseminar -- are gone.

Just make sure you get it now so that you don't get upset later.

P.S. One other thing you should know. . . whether you've been dating online for a long time, or have never visited an online dating site, Grant's system can improve your game. For every one girl in a bar or at a party, there are thousands online who are there to meet guys like you . . . IF you know how to stand out online.

Net2Bed/Net2Wed will show you how. http://www.net2bed.com/v2/december/special_howtoreadawoman.php

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- Rion Williams has just launched a new website and training program. This new and controversial approach is that 'inner game' is no longer enough. He offers a way to men who are sick of techniques (and know that it's still only 'acting') to actually 'become' fearless around beauty, women and power. It's unlike anything else in the industry and you can find out more at: http://www.relationaldynamics.org

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The founders of Fastseduction.com, Jay and Ray (a.k.a. Formhandle and TokyoPUA) have co-produced a unique DVD set called "The Art of The Pickup" with Mindworks Productions of New Zealand. The DVD set is an A to Z product that uses interactive video and professional narration to teach men everything they need to know to be successful with women, starting from the initial approach, going through contact closing, email and phone follow-up, second dates, insta-dates, getting her alone, setting up your place and exactly how to seduce her once she is there, and more. Alternate scenes are included to show different techniques as well as how to deal with common types of resistance."’The Art of the Pickup' is a clearly stated, highly specific, well thought out visualization of cutting edge seduction theory being put into practice. I thought the explanation of ‘getting physical’ was particularly useful, as this is often one of the most difficult hurdles for seduction students."-Brad P. http://www.datinggurubrad.com Also included is a Foundation section which covers things like inner game, the secret psychology of women, basic hygiene and fashion advice and other essential information that every man must know. Bonus features include powerful affirmations tracks, audio samples from live pickup seminars, and interviews full of great tips with experts such as dating coach Will H. and never before seen video interviews where both Formhandle and TokyoPUA share their secrets to success with women. 

To find out more, visit http://www.artofthepickup.com/

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Thundercat's New "Seduction Lair"

Get the latest News, Rumors, Tips, Tricks, & Analysis on the Pick-Up and Seduction community! The site is updated daily with lots of free and exclusive content.

Also a good way to keep up with things without having to navigate mASF. Drop By TSL today! http://www.seductionlair.com/

The Art of Approaching: Learn to meet ANY woman, ANY time, ANY where. The most difficult hurdle for most men to overcome is that of the initial Approach. This comprehensive eBook gives you over 35 unique Openers, as well as a step-by-step roadmap to help overcome your fear of approaching forever!

http://www.seductionlair.com/

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Robert "Magnum" Bednarek of "The Perfect Seduction - World's Premier Seduction Academy" proudly presents the new DVD-Set "Advanced Pick-Up Arts by Badboy".

Watch one of the most highly acclaimed Pick-Up-Artists in the world like you have never before seen him. Up close and personal. For the first time ever on DVD, Badboy will teach you all of his advanced secrets and techniques on how to seduce every woman out there. Experience a personal workshop just for you.

That will change your life.

The DVD is completely in English with German subtitles.

Check out the exclusive three-minute trailer and learn more about the exclusive "The Perfect Seduction - World's Premier Seduction Academy"-Live Workshops and other exciting products at http://www.theperfectseduction.com/

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Zan continues his quest to describe "natural game" in his new DVD series "The Way of the Natural". We all know men who are at ease in the land of women, who captivate them the moment they enter a room. What qualities do they possess that make these men irresistible to women? What sets them apart from you? More importantly, can it be learned? The answer may surprise you! Find out more at http://www.enlightenedseduction.com ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Lance Mason Pick-Up 101 (http://www.pickup101.com/):

More than just workshops, PickUp 101 provides focused programs that begin weeks before you arrive with our home study materials, our 3-day skills intensive & field work training, and lasts long after you leave with follow up coaching calls and access to the PickUp 101 private forums.

PickUp 101 provides you 'warp-speed' training in a sequenced progression to take you from complete newbie to getting laid like a rock star with our proven step-by-step programs.

In our current programs you will learn the latest in:

- Attraction Skills

- Night Club Game

- Day Time Game

- Direct AND Indirect Methods of Approach

- Deep Rapport Skills

- Effective Day-2 Seduction Tactics

- Dressing For Your Pickup Artist Identity

- Multiple Relationship Management

- Advanced Pickup Tactics

- And much more...

Our programs are structured to build on each other and NEVER repeat material.

Our instructors stay on the cutting edge of what works, and we won't lock you into any one way of doing pickup. We find what works BEST FOR YOU, and provide you with all the training and coaching you need to succeed.

We also provide monthly free seminars in San Francisco, and free distance learning teleseminars.

Call us toll free for more information.

PickUp 101

1459 Powell Street

San Francisco, CA

http://www.pickup101.com/

1-877-PICKUP-9 (toll free)

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"The Brotherhood of Change is a meeting point for nice guys who've always wanted to be excellent men. A new approach to seduction, it emphasises the importance of compassion, honesty and genuine strength of character. We do not seek to be manipulative geniuses. We do not seek to define ourselves by our success with women. We seek to develop the things that are highest and best in humanity, namely kindness, empathy and respect, and couple them with the things that are highest and best in man, namely strength, loyalty and honour.

Developing skills of self expression is only as good as the self you wish to express.

We develop both. We seek to be amazing men. And as such, as an amazing man, you will incidentally, but inevitably, become irresistable to amazing women. We look in detail about the practicalities of sorting yourself out. We answer your questions. We take you seriously. Say whatever you want. Ask whatever you want. You will not be censored.

And besides, there's a wider world out there. At the Brotherhood of Change you can coordinate projects with other members in Art, Music, Entertainment, Creative Writing and Business. There's also a Miscellaneous Projects forum. Anything goes.

We also give specific forums to discuss any of the deeper issues that we face when we decide to change our lives.

But we keep it real. We keep it focused. We don't talk too much for too long.

We are men. We act.

Join us at http://www.brotherhoodofchange.com "

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New street seduction CD course from Croatia

mr.ice - Croatian seduction master finally released his seduction audio

CD "Streetmode".

Backed by 5 years of extensive research it contains step-by-step directions on how to seduce girls in normal - everyday environment.

Each part uses structured approach i.e. you are given an introduction that describes specifics of each seduction environment together with steps that are neccesary for you to feel comfortable before you start with the seduction.

You are then guided through the seduction process - from intial approach to conversation and later to kissing and having sex with a girl.

for more information: http://streetmode.atspace.com

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Trevor Emdon got the T shirt on being dumped! But he also happens to be an NLP practitioner and a personal development coach and writer, so he was darned if he was going to be defeated by a little thing like being twice divorced and having more "ex’s" in his little black book than any self respecting man should have!

He set about figuring out a way of turning life around. And he began where it hurt the most – with the uncomfortable probability that since HE was the common denominator in all his relationships, maybe it was him that needed to change! Uncomfortable … only to a point, because then he realised something VERY exciting…

If HE was the one that needed to change, then HE was in control of his own romantic destiny! And so are YOU!

That single thought sparked a revolution in his thinking, and led him to devise the powerful program in the pages of the ebook you could be putting to use in your life just minutes from now!

"How To Conquer Your Fear of Rejection & Start Dating Again!" packs a powerful punch. And at $9.99 it’s the best value antidote to a broken heart or plain old fear of rejection.

It will restore your faith in Love, Life, Sex and Romance! http://www.wizardofwisdom.com/conquerrejection.htm

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In conjunction with the PASSION FOR LIFE GROUP and for the first time EVER in Australia and fresh from my appearance at Cliff’s List Convention 2006 in Montreal, Canada I will be a major part of a two day seminar to be held in Sydney entitled "Men Get Hitched".

The Passion For Life Group have a series of seminars and events coming up and this one is the first event for men. I will be one of the main presenters over the two days and along side me you will also hear from some experienced Dating Coaches/Pick Up Artists who have different styles and an abundance of tips, advice and strategies.

But most importantly, you will have the opportunity to learn from me - Nige 54 - as I present my latest dating & relationship advice for men. Highlights of my presentation at Cliff’s List Convention 2006 are currently available to view at http://www.nige54.com along with my recent appearances on SUNRISE and NOVA FM, which will give you a small taste of what to expect over the two days. The topics I will be speaking on include:

· Inner Game

· The Approach/The Pick Up

· Being the Alpha Male

· Successful Dating

· Closing the deal

· My WORLD FAMOUS real life examples and entertaining Q&A sessions

· LIVE on-the-spot coaching

· PLUS MUCH, MUCH MORE

Tickets for this ground breaking event are available exclusively from http://www.gethitched.net.au and they are selling fast!!!

If you have any questions - please email me or the team at "GET HITCHED".

Best Regards,

Nige 54

http://www.nige54.com

P.S. For those of you from outside Sydney, travel & accommodation packages are also available from http://www.gethitched.net.au

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PUAtraining.com offers training events in London, England and in Scandinavia. Our approach is quite different. We have a core system that we believe forms the basis of any pickup. It is simple enough to understand within 30 minutes. We then teach optional elements like NLP, C&F, push-pull, etc. that can be added in based on your personality.

We aim to teach guys to game like a natural and to have all our students end up with a style unique to them. We have broken down the componenents of natural game and have methods for teaching them.

It seems to be working: Students have F-closed on our last 3 bootcamps!

Come to our website, http://www.puatraining.com for free advice, to see pics of our girls, and to check out what we have to offer.

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Frank B. Kermit (aka Brother Kermit) has launched an internet radio show Frank Talks Pleasures and Lifestyles, that will broadast on http://www.natradio.com that anyone with a computer can listen into for free.

For the next few weeks, Kermit will be interviewing various seduction gurus...here is the current confirmed list...

WEDNESDAYS

8 PM (Eastern Standand Time)

It's a LIVE Call In Show,

so if you would like to be on air and talk to Frank or his guests

Dial in Toronto, Ontario Canada: (416)-204-9723

Be one of ONLY a few thousand computer log ins to be able to listen and then to call in and ask our guests any questions you want!

Wed Jan 3, Carlos Xuma of http://www.alphaconfidence.com

Wed Jan 10, Nick of http://www.playboyskool.com

Wed. Jan 17, Payton Kane of http://www.seduceandconquer.com

If you are a seduction instructor, and you would like to be interviewed, please contact frank@franktalks.com

The Frank B Kermit Philosophy on Men, Women and Relationships. Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test. In this book, Frank B Kermit goes in depth as to what a test is, what a woman tests for, and what her emotional needs are, in a thorough analysis. Also in this book is an entire chapter as to why women end up with jerks and avoid the nice guys. Finally, Frank B Kermit issues true GOLD to his readers, coming up with at least 10 solid ways how a man can effectively address a woman's top emotional needs, pass her tests, and become her lover. A "TEST" is when a woman says or does something, specifically to evoke a reaction out of a man. It is a mechanism that a woman uses to judge his overall value as a man. It is the predictor and basis for all sexual attraction and love she will have for a man. Every test is designed to make her feel special when a man passes it (thus makes her your lover) , or makes her feel un-special if you fail it(thus turns her into your mother) . At least, that is how Frank B Kermit sees it. A woman can only fit into 1 of 2 roles in any man’s life; Mother or Lover. Within each test is an emotional need being communicated that MUST be addressed. A woman always tests because her instinct to mother is stronger than her instincts to have sex. The top 10 Emotional Needs of a Woman include the protection of her Reputation, making her FEEL a range of emotions, and catering to the little girl within. They also include the man's role as the dominant in taking responsibility for leading the relationship, making her feel secure to combat the fears of abandonment and earning her trust with his honesty; even if he know it will upset her. Finally comes her physical safety, his ability to handle her TRUE sexuality, and demonstrating he has high quality sperm for reproduction. Lastly he must prove that he is not a closet homosexual. Until October 31st pick up this book for 12$ US. After that the price goes up to 39.95$ US buy it at http://www.franktalks.com/frankbooks.html

Frank B Kermit is also the author of "From Loser to Seducer" gives lifestyle seminars for men and can be reached from via http://www.franktalks.com

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Archangel:

I've got something I think you & your readers would be interested in.

It's called NLP PLUS and you can see it here: nlp-plus.com The entire system is based upon Breath, Body, Mind, Motion. It's a system of Confidence and Persuasion, and is meant to be easy to use with little memorization.

There's a demo lesson here: http://nlp-plus.com/Demo/ConfidenceDemo.asp

The Rapport structure is here:

http://nlp-plus.com/Demo/rapport.htm

The rapport structure is very simple, and extremely effective. All you have to do is the BBMM structure to gain rapport with someone.

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Juggler is back!

Charisma Sciences, led by longtime seduction authority Juggler, focuses on developing a man's natural game. Our clients usually

- aren't connecting with women despite all efforts,

- are sick of using routines and material that isn't their own,

- want to understand vibing skills that will work in *any* situation.

We are now limiting the size of our events to four students with two to three instructors (including Juggler, of course), because we're not just giving a guy some lines and throwing him out there. We get to know our clients and teach them social vibing techniques, based on their own personality traits, that apply to women, men and groups.

There's just no other way to prepare a guy for the breadth of interactions he's going to face in his life, seductive or otherwise.

It's the difference between flash game and solid game. We don't teach men how to impress their friends and thirty other people with some jokes or tricks - we teach them how to consistently get numbers that will not flake, and closes that aren't forced - by building a solid foundation for every interaction.

Our Charm School bootcamp runs Friday to Sunday in Ann Arbor, MI and

other cities worldwide. To learn more about what we teach, you should check out our website, where we have free weblogs, podcasts, compiled articles, and the three-year-in-the-making Juggler eBook. See http://charismaarts.com/. Looks very interesting!

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Announcement!

My name is Docandwriter and I am a lifestyle coach in Vancouver, B.C. I have been putting guys on the path to becoming natural and direct seducers through http://www.seductionboard.com and am proud to say that I've never had a failure, I've never had a guy who didn't get "it".

My approach to seduction is different, however, first, although I prefer the natural and direct method, I don't believe you should limit yourself to one method of seduction (be it indirect, direct, or natural). I've been out with some of the best guys, both in and out of the community, and I can tell you that every single one of them does a mixture of all three, despite what they may tell you.

And I believe that the game is first played by yourself. The more you like yourself and the better you develop your self image and internal beliefs, the better your results will be in the long run. Did you know that statistically we end up with partners who are similar to ourselves in self esteem, attitudes, and personality? It makes sense doesn't it, that you should first fix and enable what is on the inside first before working on the outside and thus this is my approach to coaching and what I do is different from most other guys.

Be sure to go to http://www.seductionboard.com/calgarystampede.html and enjoy your summer.

Thank you for reading,

Docandwriter

PS: To find out more about myself (Docandwriter), you can listen to my forthcoming podcasts on my website.

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Joe Flow:

I'm starting a new coaching program designed to speed the process of overcoming social fears and self imposed limitations. So many guys out there, and in the community in particular have a lot of bad habits and childhood mannerisms that they carry on to their adult life. These come from unconscious beliefs and memories that run their lives. I believe working to improve these issues should be tackled from both sides. On the one hand, I'm going to talk to guys about their belief system and self images. On the other, I'll comment on different things that they do, like body language, voice inflections, and facial expressions that betray these beliefs. I believe that is the best way to bring these hidden beliefs up to the surface which is the most important and most difficult step on the way to dealing with them.

My program is going to be very cheap for the time being, at least until I get some good testimonials to back me up. Since this is coaching and not a "weekend of partying", you have to live in or close to Manhattan. I'm going to have one hour long meetings in which we talk, walk around, do basic communication exercises, and later on, approach and talk to women ("day game"). After every meeting, you will get a few simple, or not so simple body language and mental exercises and "missions" that you will have to carry out before the next time we meet, in addition to new things to keep in mind about how you come across and communicate and about what goes on in your head.

If you are interested, email me at free2bu@fastmail.fm, and I will send you a short questionnaire to find out whether or not I think I can help you. If yes, the first meeting will be FREE, and no commitment on your part will be required. After that, for the time being, every meeting will cost $50. I make no flashy promises. I'm aiming for a PROCESS, not a magic bullet.

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Giuseppe Notte:

http://www.seduction-and-dating.com/seduction/ - Giuseppe Notte's ALL ABOUT WOMEN: The Encyclopedia Of Seduction EOS is a new product covering the topic of seduction from A to Z. This 100 pages e-book is ideal both for newbies and more experienced guys willing to improve weaker points of their game. The book is split into 6 bigger parts:

1. Being a woman Learn how women think and understand the "logic" behind their actions.

2. How to be the Man Part two is about the attitude. You can attract women just with your presence, by becoming a "real Man". Avoid the most common mistakes men make and learn valuable tips on body language, dressing and improving the overall quality of your life.

3. The first step: meeting girls Overcome your fear of approaching women and open girls anytime, anywhere without excuses. With the powerful techniques in the book, you won't have to memorize any "canned" routines or NLP patterns.

4. Second step: from the first date to having sex Get from the first date to the girl's bed easily. Don't be stressed anymore on when and how to kiss your girl or where to take her. You will learn step-by-step instructions for each phase.

5. Third step: keeping a relationship The secrets of keeping a long, rewarding relationship, or multiple relationships at the same time. You choose.

6. Sex Overcome your problems, improve your sexual life, become multi-orgasmic and turn into an irresistible lover.

For more information, visit http://www.seduction-and-dating.com/seduction/.

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CEIC: Sickboy and Playboy (Mike and Stephen from the DYD interview series) have launched "Cutting-Edge Image Consulting" ( http://www.ceimageconsulting.com ). They offer exclusive, one-on-one programs in New York City. Also, they offer a 7-Day Audio Program which covers the following topics:
- A groundbreaking 3 point structure that serves as a roadmap to any successful interaction.

- The two most powerful qualities women are drawn to, and how you can learn to use them with shocking effect

- We go over the subtleties of female psychology and why it is absolutely necessary to do THREE things when meeting a new woman…do you know what they are?

- We disclose the secret of "hooking" - what it means and how to do it with shocking efficiency.

- We uncover a key language skill that can build fascination in any woman, ANYTIME. This skill is critical when building connections, which lead into relationships.

- Devastatingly effective conversational openers and lines.

- How to bait ANY woman into a conversation so that within minutes she is dying to know YOU.

- We list the EXACT places to go where you can meet women with the greatest probability of success. Stop wasting your time in the wrong venues for YOU.

- We teach you how to be the center of attention and the life of the party within SECONDS of meeting complete strangers.

- Learn which conversational topics are fascinating to women. Never be boring again.

- We provide a clear definition of relationships, and why some work and some don't. We give you clear-cut ways to improve all of your relationships TODAY.

- There are three different ways to engage women in conversation when you are socializing. These three are based on the three different environments that exist socially. Do you know what they are? We teach you on Day II of the program.

- We teach you the FASTEST way to begin conversations in ANY environment.

- Learn how to counter the most common rejection phrases from women - NEVER be shot down again.

- We outline the aspects of a successful mindset, and we then lead you through a clear and concise exercise to attain that attitude for yourself.

- MASTER the art of flirting.

- We instantly improve your body language and tonality with simple, clear advice never heard anywhere before.

- We give you a SIMPLE way to ALWAYS be relaxed and comfortable before approaching and engaging women in conversation.

- We have an entire CD which guides you through a step-by-step process for creating a timeline that helps you get back on track in EVERY area of your life. We have a solid system for bringing you in touch with what success means to you, and then developing a timeline - a plan - for success. Our aim is to help your dreams become a reality.
Check out their website today at: http://www.ceimageconsulting.com

Here are some recent seminar testimonials for CEIC.

In short, our work focuses on a man’s "image", meaning his

presentation not only in style and fashion, but also in word and

energy (vibe). The latter are far more challenging and compelling

to me. The greatest hurdles to success is our INTERNAL

framework of images of ourselves and others. I prescribe no

shortcuts to success, but I do outline a fairly rigorous and demanding

practice for guys to rewire these beliefs in order to be empowering

and healthy. We DO cover the essentials on approaching, flirting,

teasing, storytelling, frame control etc – we have streamlined this

discussion to only include the imperatives. Our belief is that without

a very solid understanding of female/male energy dynamic and

psychology – stemming from years of evolutionary research and study –

a guy stands very little chance of REAL understanding which can lead

to healthy, sustainable relationships.

In other words, time to step into the REAL fire…

I’ll let the students take it from here. Here are views from two guys who

attended the December program:

"Imagine this: you're a regular guy... maybe late 20s, 30s, or even

40s. You're smart enough but you're not Einstein. Neither are you

Tom Cruise, but you also see guys who are no smarter, richer, or

better looking having an easier time with women. Maybe you're someone

who really wants a monogamous relationship with a woman, but you

don't want to just "settle." You want someone terrific, a woman who

"gets you," who you think is really sexy and, just as important,

finds you really sexy. You want to be able to spark the desire that

serves you, and inspires other people. Or maybe you're someone who

thinks you'd like multiple relationships, but while you can imagine

it, making it happen is as elusive as water in the desert. Well, it

strikes me that Stephen and Michael are teaching skills that are

relevant, memorable, and easy to use, rather than asking you to

memorize series of monologues or even gestures,

Without giving away their secrets, let's just say that you walk in on

Saturday. You're curious, a bit nervous, and also just wondering what

you'll gain. You walk out on Sunday with one over-riding sense.

Excitement. Because you have a tool set that is easy to put into

action. That skill set is not based on changing yourself. It's based

on tapping into who you are as a man. It leverages your own

experiences, stories, and inclinations. You work on creating a vision

of the type of women you genuinely desire, and also the type of man

you want to be in the world. In a sense, these guys collaborate with

you to build your own dream house, helping map out the blueprint to

actually construct it. Only what you're building is not a house. It's

the best aspect of who you are. And it's no dream. It's for real.

Stephen and Michael work through that design and construction process

with you, as coaches as well as teachers.

The process teaches "smarts," but it's smarts about who you are, can

be, and want to purse. They also lead you through a series of

exercizes to put all that into action. Yes, it's challenging. But

it's also a lot of fun. I saw the results immediately that first

night hanging with another member of the class. I have read a bunch

of material from other experts, and can say honestly that these guys

are up to those standards. They're original, doing more than

rehashing what exists, and giving their own perspective in ways that

are relevant and actionable. They're also fun to work with and, as I

mentioned to them from a marketing standpoint, they could be charging

a bunch more for their workshops. It's a great way to propel a guy

forward.

JF

NYC"

Or:

"I'd like to praise Stephen of Cutting Edge Image Consultants for

a great two day seduction workshop last weekend (Dec 10th & 11th)

It was a thoughtful, concise and comprehensive program for meeting

women, having successful first and second dates, and keeping them

interested for the long term.

His approach is very organic. He's developed a way for men to be

genuinely charming all while being their real selves. One of his many

techniques is called Baiting. It's a highly effective tool when approaching

women cold and gets many more positive responses. Baiting allows

you have plenty of interesting things to say to a woman you've never

met before without having to resort to corny pickup lines and rote

exercises. The last half of Sunday was a great education in clothing

and fashion tips and how it can powerfully aid the seduction process.

Going one step further his teachings have a healthy component to it.

They are evocative of David Deida, Michael Meade and Robert Bly

(who are the leading authors about men's issues) and encourage a

man to find and nurture his true masculinity. In fact he believes that

success with women is hinged on a man moving toward his

best self in all areas of his life such as health, finances, spirituality and

relationships. Try just one of his programs and I guarantee he'll be

your favorite seduction coach.

Although the seminar stands on it's own, it was a great complement

to the one-on-one training I'd received two months ago ("Afternoons with Stephen".)

I got a chance to digest more deeply his overall philosophy and techniques."

JC

NYC

We have a page solely devoted to the program where you can read more about it, and sign-up.

Here is the link:

http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/seminar.html

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Scot McKay is a dating coach in San Antonio, TX and founder of X & Y Communications, a one-stop-shop for dating resources. Sign up for his free newsletter at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/.

He is the author of the book "Deserve What You Want", which focuses on becoming the best partner you can be NOW instead of sitting around "waiting for someone to come along". Check it out here: http://www.dating-advise.us/

His next book, "Cook For Your Date" uniquely combines culinary tips and recipes with a wealth of strategy designed to help you maximize attraction and overall chemistry when planning a romantic evening for two. (http://www.romantic-dinner.com/).

He also has How To Manage Your Wildly Successful Dating Life (http://www.wildsuccess.net/).

In addition, Scot has produced the world’s first audio program designed specifically to increase success with women for men who are shorter than average. (http://www.nottooshort.com/)

His latest venture, DateToOrder (http://www.datetoorder.com/), bridges the gap between profile-based dating sites and matchmaking services. DateToOrder helps you inexpensively and effectively cut down on BAD first dates…dramatically.

Scot and his fiancée Emily host the popular podcast series "X & Y On The Fly" which is now listened to on six continents. You can subscribe for FREE at http://feeds.feedburner.com/xyonthefly .

Coaching sessions and online profile overhauls famously come with a 100% money back guarantee. Scot makes it a point to be refreshingly approachable and available may be reached via email at scot@datetoorder.com or via worldwide voice-over-IP on Skype as "scotmckay". Initial consultations via email or Skype are free of charge. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

http://www.songsofseduction.com

Over the years my bandmates and I developed songs using NLP that helped steer the women in the audience where we wanted them to go. We found that NLP combined with music had an incredible intensifying effect, and we learned how a lead singer could zero in on a woman in the audience while crooning certain melodic suggestions and have her tranced out and doggie-dogbowl right in the middle of the dance floor. In this way we learned to lead the women in the audience at our shows exactly where we wanted them to go, and helped them to get past limiting things like boyfriends, girlfriends, and last call. Later these songs were modified and recorded on an album called Songs of Seduction. New songs were also written and added with various NLP programmers and PUAs I've gotten to know over the years, to create a total seduction journey for whoever is listening to it play.

I'm sharing all this with all of you to let you know that my product, Songs of Seduction, is NOT something that should be considered in competition with David DeAngelo, that Game guy, or Ross Jeffries. It's not a method in itself. Sure, it will up the odds that you'll get laid on a date or "coffee meeting" even if you're an AFC.

Happy customers on ebay have told me some stories that I'm not even sure I believe. But you still have to entice a woman to even spend 45 minutes listening to an album with you in the first place. You still have to have at least some form of rapport or attraction going with her- she can't be a captive audience. And you still have to have the balls to make the close. But the IS an extremely powerful tool. It does exactly what Jeff Spicolli claimed that Led Zeppelin IV does in Fast Times at Ridgemont High. Only it's not magic- it's science and street wise persuasion skills. Several hundred happy customers and a flawless feedback score on ebay prove that.

Songs of Seduction can give you an edge in your seduction endeavor. Sometimes, it can do all the work for you, but it's not a magic bullet. In the hands of a PUA, it can be downright dangerous. In the hands of a lazy old PUA like me, in can be quite convenient. That's right, sometimes I just don't feel like BOTHERING with all the cool

Casanova and rasputanesque things I know. Sometimes it's just tiresome, and I wanna sit on the couch watching football until it's time for the ol' in/out. Glad there's a CD that can turn her on for me.

We don't charge a lot for our products because once you've tried them, we KNOW you'll be a return customer for SOS Volume II in the summer of 2007. In fact we're selling it for the price of a regular music CD on ebay right now, and you can check out a few songs at http://www.myspace.com/songsofseduction

We've had over 200 happy sucsexful customers so far, and it just may be the edge you need to make your seductions flow with ease!

A full rock music album created for the purpose of seduction is finally available! These 10 songs have been arranged to create rapport, capture and lead her imagination, start the attraction process, and ultimately GET HER IN THE SACK! State of the art NLP combined with hypnotic but rockin' music leads her through the seduction process for you. Best of all, it looks like a regular pop-rock album and sounds like the best alt rock on the air! The lyrics have been painstakingly written by NLP programmers, and the music was recorded by world-class recording artists, using the latest in persuasion techniques together with rhythmic emotional influence technology.

Get yours today, and get laid tonight!

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http://www.datinghelpformen.com is a website designed by a guy who at one time had limited success with women. He posts what he learned there, from his mistakes and errors to his successes. They will be dealt with step by step so that you can repeat his achievement without replicating the miscalculations. This site is for beginners but if any of you pros would like to join the site and help out that would be great (and of course in return those of you with products will get great link placement)

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Check out the 'supermarket of seduction' at http://www.seductionpro.com. Lots of interesting products to look into.

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Impact Interaction (http://www.impactinteraction.com) @ London

Angel Caido, RyobI and Lockstock have been running Workshops and Seminars in London since the beginning of the year. The workshops are small in size (trainer : student ratio of 2:1 as max), so students get personal attention on sticking points.

The workshops include:

- Basejump: For approach newbies who need to get internal game and basic attraction skills in gear

- Field Interaction: To perfect your bar/ club and street performance

- Solid Game: Everything good except lots of flakes? Few end results? End to end game sticking points covered…

For more information go to http://www.impactinteraction.com or contact them @ contact@impactinteraction.com.

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To reach Cameron Teone and Seth Parker please go to http://www.buildattraction.com or you can email Cameron at CameronTeone@yahoo.com ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Ranko:

Want to leave a stunning impression when you see her: on the street, at work, on a party?

Then come to The Instant Date 101 Workshop by http://www.attractanddate.com/.

3 days of both day and night action

We made a special newsletter for those interested in workshops, where we teach you by Video Clips

the workshop secrets: 30 min of video content, several video testimonials and more! Even if you can ’ t

make it to the workshop the clips will be a great help to you!

http://www.attractanddate.com/

Watch Ranko (aka Shark) explain stopping her and the famous "I like you " opening line and dating her.

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Flirting Weekend London -

Learn how to develop immense pulling power in every aspect of your life!

"Flirting isn't just about impressing the opposite sex and picking up a partner, it's about getting on with people", says Peta Heskell, the founder of Britain's only Flirting Academy. "Great flirts do it with everyone -flirt that is!" Flirting is a way of interacting with people that makes it fun and easy to connect with them and makes them want to be with you. Become super sexy, develop your conversation power, boost your confidence, courage and self esteem and find out how to approach strangers and feel good. You may be looking for love, want to make more friends or improve the way you interact with people in general.

Flirt with life. Flirt for love. Flirt for fun. Flirt for success.

Please call 02476 541 164 and speak to Gerry and Jenn who will be happy to answer any questions and take your bookings ;-))

For more information about the Flirting Weekend, contact LifeTalks - tel. 0117 973 1010, email info@lifetalks.co.uk or visit http://www.lifetalks.co.uk For more information about the Flirting Weekend in London and other workshops with Peta, contact The Attraction Academy tel. 0700 4 354 784 or

visit http://www.attractionacademy.com/

Peta Heskell - Director of Possibility
Flirting and Attraction Academy
Develop immense Pulling Power in all areas of your life
http://www.getresponse.com/t/789401

CONTACTS
Tel: 0700 4 354 784
Talk Talk: 0208 979 2994
Tel Intl: + 447770 741 323
Mobile/Cell: 07770 741 323

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Have you ever asked yourself...

* What does it take to make a woman feel totally comfortable making out with me - even if she barely knows me?

* How do I get women to WANT to sleep with me? After all, what good are all those "bedroom techniques" I learned if I don't even know how to get her back to my bedroom in the first place?

* Why do women melt around some guys, but they are totally unresponsive to me? What do they have that I don't?

Wouldn't it be nice if you knew a guaranteed way to "get physical" with any woman you go out with? Have you ever been on a date with a woman, and wondered *how* you can start "making out" with her? (by making out, I mean kissing, hugging, holding hands, etc.)

Jason King has just released a not new report that will teach you everything you need to know about getting *close* to a woman on a date.

Jason is an absolute master at making out with a woman on the first date. Whenever he goes out with a woman, he seems to put them under some kind of "love spell", and they want to make out with him more and more as the date progresses. By the end of the date, the women usually invent all kinds of excuses to invite him back to their place.

There is NO other person out there who is teaching these skills. If you've ever wanted to learn how to make out with a woman on the FIRST date... not weeks or months later... you MUST check out his site.

http://www.MakeoutMastery.com/

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Step by Step Threesomes
Hey, check out Suzy Bauer's site and her e-book (we need a review, so someone get this and let us know what you think) about creating threesomes. Suzy is an attractive married bi-sexual woman who says that her e-book will show you what to do to create threesomes, how to overcome resistance and how no one can tell you how to do this better than a woman. http://www.stepbystepthreesome.com/

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"Seduction Tips-Seduce the woman for you today"

http://www.pmmarketing.org/seductiontips.htm

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Maximillian Hell:

I have a PU journal up on livejournal. Right now it's mostly just a record of my sarges--but comments are welcome.

http://www.livejournal.com/users/maximillianhell

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Visit these sites (and give me your comments on their products):

http://www.sexualrapportmodeling.com/jump.php?a=2350 (site is either inactive or no longer relevant)

http://www.macktactics.com/

http://www.seductionformula.com

http://www.thejamesmethod.com/

http://www.seductiondvd.com/

http://www.becomeaplayer.com/

http://www.SeductionGuide.net/

http://www.sensualitysecrets.com/

http://www.puamedia.com/main/

http://www.datinghelpformen.com http://www.lady-killing.com

http://www.ladymagnet.com

Gunwitch has also entered the commercial game. Go to: http://www.dynamicsexlife.com/

http://www.sexgodsecrets.com/get.php

Someone needs to check this site and its products out also: http://www.mensniche.com (site is either inactive or no longer relevant)

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Return of The Bishop

After a 4 year absence, Bishop is back with his latest seduction product called, "The Fire of Seduction."

Now, no matter who you are, there is way to be NATURALLY seductive around women! There is a way to move past whatever has ever stood in your way! There is a way to at last get the kind of seduction success that has so far eluded you. That way, is "The Fire of Seduction."

In fact, Bishop is SO confident about his latest creation, he's giving a FULL YEAR MONEY BACK GUARANTEE!! You have everything to gain!

Here's just a sample of what awaits you:

* The Four Horsemen of Seduction -

Finally! The simple 4-step process that makes ALL seduction work!

* 'Phanting -

This strangely named chapter AT LAST reveals how to tell what kind of woman you're approaching, BEFORE YOU EVEN SAY A WORD TO HER!

* Advertising to Women -

Learn what advertisers have spent BILLIONS on to influence women, and how YOU can use it in seduction!

* Detached Presence -

Simply put, it's how to be miles away and STILL have her suddenly think about you, as if you're in the room with her!

* Tests, Games, and Positioning for Power -

The "behind her walls" secrets on the things she is trying to test you on, and you likely never even knew it! (Plus, how to use it right back on her!)

* The Positive Side of "Let's Just Be Friends" -

How being "just friends" can actually ACCELERATE your seduction success!

* Thinking Differently -

This chapter takes some commonly held beliefs about what it takes to seduce women, and shatters it!

There is so much more that awaits you, in this 330 page e-book, with nearly 7 HOURS OF AUDIO FILES!

And remember, there is a FULL YEAR MONEY BACK GUARANTEE, so you have every reason to BUY RIGHT NOW!

Bishop's new site can be visited by going here: http://payloadz.com/go/jump?id=225764&a=purchases@new-alpha.com&mer ch_id=40069&aff_id=10811

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Daniel:

If you are looking for a wing and you are a guy from Romania, you can check on our forums at http://www.seductierapida.ro/forum and you might find one.

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Carlos Xuma:

Time is running short for all of us, no matter how young or old you are. Don't waste precious years learning by trial and error (and most likely not at all). Get the information on how to improve your dating life TODAY. Make the changes you need to make to get the love, s*ex, and relationships that you want and DESERVE to have. http://www.seductionmethod.com/

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A few sites to check out:

http://www.becomeaplayer.com

Mike PilinskI is the author of "Without Embarrassment: The Social Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System"... a unique method of meeting girls that will have you making up for wasted time spent living in shy-guy hell from the very first moment you test it out. Check it Out Here => http://www.highstatusmale.com/.

David Wygant (http://www.whatsyourexcuse.com & http://www.mydatingagent.com).

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Erick Kand has a new website that showcases Hypnosis Stage Shows for fun and entertainment: http://www.HypnosisEvents.com

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The Foundations of Seduction

Hi, you know something? When it comes to seductionhey, when it comes to ANYTHING--how you feel has a huge impact on the results you get. But the way you feel doesn’t have to be determined by your surroundings, your expectations, others’ behavior, or the tides and stars. You can guide your own feelings. By doing so, you can adjust and enhance your results. You can replace frustration with the satisfaction of tangy, blood-red, salty-sweet resolve. When you can change the way you feel, you can change what you experience… and what you encounter… and then the world stands revealed as something you yourself partially create. Sometimes, to begin claiming the victories you deserve, all you need is a simple little tool: a way of channeling your own emotions. A way of tapping your inner fire. A way of taking that inner fire, and letting it melt your external obstacles. A way of changing all that you feel, about all that you experience. Of course, you may not need or want such a tool. For some, the ability to guide and drive one’s own emotional experience is pretty basic stuff. Some people shrug off rejection, feel wonderful almost all the time, and easily attain their goals. If that’s true for you, and you don’t think you can add to your abilitywell, you may be right. In that case, my new CD may not be for you. On the other hand, should you want a tool meant to ease the transition to seductive success… to productive success… to any kind of success, maybe this new CD can be of use to you. It’s called "Foundations of Seduction". You can get it for $29.97 plus $5 Priority Mail s/h, by going here: http://www.sexualkey.com/ Just enter "$34.97" into the FlexPay box and then email me at info@sexualkey.com with your shipping address and a note that you’ve ordered "Foundations of Seduction". If you’re outside the U.S., please add an additional $5 for shipping. Have fun! JD http://www.sexualkey.com/

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"FREEDOM WITH WOMEN" SEMINAR DATES

Ron Louis and David Copeland have been doing several boot camp style one-on-one courses.

Contact Ron Louis: ronl@howtosucceedwithwomen.com or contact davidc@howtosucceedwithwomen.com

To find out more about the "Freedom with Women" seminar, go to http://www.howtosucceedwithwomen.com/workshops/fww5.html

HOW TO SUCCEED WITH WOMEN Ron Louis and David Copeland have their Mastery Program Tape series available. It has some very good stuff on it and that, in combination with other pieces that you can pick up here and from the other products mentioned can be a help. For those who are just starting out learning how to deal with women, this is an excellent basic daily course to take you through the process of dealing with women. For those who are more advanced, you should pick up a few good ideas from this set of tapes. http://howtosucceedwithwomen.com/

1. You can receive a series of audio programs from the "Freedom With Women" seminar. This audio is not available anywhere else!

2. You'll get valuable email summations of these audio programs to "lock in" the learning and help you take action.

3. You'l get other special email lessons from the "Freedom with Women" seminar, all about finally having real freedom with the women you desire.

To get the free course, go to http://www.howtosucceedwithwomen.com/workshops/free-audio.html

For more info, get in touch with them through their site, http://howtosucceedwithwomen.com/

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Advanced Macking:

In case you want a step by step guide on how to get into one-night stands, check out Anthony Berger's Advanced Macking manual. What makes it unique is that it is engineered towards making it happen the same night you meet them. To learn how to persuade women back to your pad, check out his site: http://www.advancedmacking.com/Discount.htm

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Michael:

If you want to improve both your pick up game and your understanding of women on a deeper level, you've got to come out to my Dating Wizard Live Seminars in Toronto. It is two FULL days of non-stop IMMERSION - including a live pick-up component - giving you a whopping,eye-opening insight into how to be successful with women on a whole new level.

And if you haven't downloaded my eBook, "The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women", then that's the place to get started.

Inside, I explain step-by-step how to approach women, how to get instant dates, how to get physical, and how to sustain her interest if you desire a relationship. Best of all, you won't have to be a jerk to OUTDO the jerks!

Check out The Dating Wizard's new site and Seduction Mastery Apprenticeship Program at: http://www.thedatingwizard.com/

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FREE HYPNOSIS MINI-TUTORIAL

The UltimateSeduction Yahoo group, at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/UltimateSeduction/ is sponsoring a free one-month mini-tutorial on Conversational Hypnosis. This tutorial, presented by the hypnotist Archangel, is sectioned off into five parts:

1. Trance Words

2. Rapport

3. Persuasion Anchoring

4. Pacing, &

5. Leading

Although less than halfway through, members are reporting some highly entertaining, and some startling, success stories. The UltimateSeduction group has the advantage of having more than a few women on-list, enabling members to get some very pointed straight talk on their techniques. There is nothing to memorize - only a handful of very simple, and very effective, techniques. The group is gaining about 200 new members a week and is lightly moderated.

Anyone may join the tutorial at: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/UltimateSeduction/

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