Interview With Soul

Cliff's List recently managed to get an exclusive interview with Love Systems instructor Jeremy Soul, a recognized expert on day game. Below, he answers some of our readers' most common questions on the subject of daytime dating.

Cliff's List: Are you a bionic robot ? If yes, where were you built and what was the cost for the parts ?

Soul: I'm about 80% human and the rest robotic: I had laser seduction eyes and a prehensile penis installed.

Cliff's List: What is the most common challenge guys face when they're learning day game ?

Soul: Approaching. Guys find approaching women cold hard enough, let alone doing it out of a typically social setting, without alcohol and often without male compatriots to goad them on.

Cliff's List: And what was your biggest challenge ?

Soul: My biggest challenge was learning to come out of my shell and really talk myself up. That's something that doesn't come naturally to an introverted person, which I am.

Cliff's List: Do you do any club game ? If so, did you start with that or did you start with day game ?

Soul: I do. I like hitting the bars and clubs when I have a good crew of guys (often guys I work with at Love Systems). To me, though, nightclubs are more about having fun and casual encounters than about finding girlfriends. I've tended to find the latter from the daytime rather than at night. I started practicing both, but ended up finding day game to be my bigger passion.

Cliff's List: Would you say that day game is more difficult in general than gaming in a club ?

Soul: In some respects it's easier. For example, it's a lot easier to create a good first impression in the daytime, just by sheer virtue of your confidence in approaching her in a situation where most men don't.

In other respects, it can be harder. For example, it's harder to get a girl in an emotional state that's strong enough to take her home straightaway, whereas in a club that is much easier.

Cliff's List: What is a realistic measure of success with day game ? Should a guy expect to be able to take women home right from the coffee shop ? Or is it more about getting numbers and day 2s ?

Soul: You can always play with the variables and get whatever you want from it. I know guys that do a lot of daytime / afternoon pulls, but if you're going to do that, you're selecting a narrow proportion of women (the women who are logistically available to do that with you). Generally speaking, daytime approaches are going to be a lot more about setting up dates, which is my preference anyway.

Cliff's List: What is the most enjoyable aspect of day game for you (as opposed to going out to clubs or bars) ?

Soul: Two things. First, the look on other people's faces around you as you approach the stone cold hottie in this public setting, when people have that “Look at the balls on this guy !” look on their faces. Second, the beaming smile of a woman just after you've approached her when you realize that you just made her day.

Cliff's List: What is your personal best day game story ?

Soul: Once in New York, I had a girl completely freak out when I approached her. She started screaming about how inappropriate it was for me to come up to a perfect stranger and was flailing her fists at me. Weird chick.

It threw me for a couple of minutes and I started to question myself. Did she have a point ? Was I being intrusive to people ? Was my whole Day Game philosophy flawed ?

Then I thought back to all the memories I had of spending time with beautiful and incredible women that I had met on streets, cafes and shopping malls, and I realized that I couldn't let this crazy girl stop me doing what I loved.

So I shook it off, and just half an hour later I approached a girl that I took home that night, started dating a few months later, and who remains the love of my life to this day.

Cliff's List: And finally, a two-part question with a little background: Vince Noir, as you surely know, is a huge fan of Gary Numan because, not only is he a pop star, he's also a licensed pilot. Meanwhile, his friend Howard Moon once referred to Gary's music as “a powerful stench on the musical map.” Here is a clip to give you some perspective. Do you like Gary Numan ? If so, is “Cars” your favorite song ?

Soul: Not a Gary Numan fan, but I do like Sasha Grey a lot.