Her Priority Will Always Be Love

I was reading David Deida's book The Way of the Superior Man, and he was saying that masculinity seeks freedom, and femininity seeks love.

Later, I was doing Natural Grounding. Then bang, it hit it me like a brick on the head ! (Actually, it was my hands that made the sound on my forehead.)

Masculinity is following a life's purpose. Femininity is fully living the present moment.

I was previously wondering why all Western women I knew who developed their femininity had an even stronger masculine side. They couldn't let go of the ground to simply flow with their femininity. It's because they’re focused on achieving things in life and following their life's purpose !

Almost every teacher is focused on finding and following one's “life's purpose.” Every self-improvement business is focused on following one's life's purpose. You rarely (if ever) hear spiritual teachers talking about fully living the present moment. That’s huge.

For a woman living in the forest, it’s easy to focus on fully living the present moment. She'll take care of her garden and her house, and her environment will bring her all she needs.

For a woman living in the fast-paced, competitive Western world where she does not own anything and has her credit cards maxed, it’s a different story. The first step for anyone is to get what they need for survival. Lots of people get stuck there, but we must move from survival to fully living our lives.

For a woman who is into being feminine, fully living the present moment is more important than following her “life's purpose.” Being is more important than Doing. She will still have a purpose in life, she will still accomplish things in life, but her priority will always be love.

There’s always a balance of feminine and masculine within each person. The question is, which is dominant within each of us ?

There’s a huge part missing from the multi-billion dollar self-development industry. It’s good to follow your life's purpose, to accomplish things in life, to make the world better, to help sick people in India and all that ... especially for men.

However, you don’t need to be constantly busy achieving more and more things in life, even if it’s your life purpose. There's more to life than your life's purpose. Slow down, look around you, connect with people, be vibrant and joyful, and fully live in the present moment. This is very important ... especially for women.

As a man, do you integrate both the masculine and the feminine into your life ?

Be the change you want to see in the world. The more you fully live the present moment, the more you will encourage women around you to do the same.

Traits of Sexually Attractive Men

What makes a person sexually attractive ? Some guys with almost perfect bodies can't get girls, while other men who don't have the looks are surrounded by women.

Let's talk about the 7 main traits that make a person attractive.

1. Boldness

Some people do whatever they want, no matter what people think. They say what passes through their minds directly. They may go sit down with random girls. They dress the way they like. They may have a touch of goofiness, but they respect people. This fearlessness is very inspiring and attractive. Who doesn't want that freedom ?

2. Presence

Charismatic men are not living in their dreams of the future, or stuck in their memories of the past. Their futures unfold by living in the present moment. These people are fully present in their bodies, instead of being stuck in their mental thoughts. They flow with life in this state of well-being.

3. Authenticity

Attractive men don’t hide behind fears and masks. They are authentic, congruent and transparent. It’s not enough just to be yourself. You must remove fears and social conditioning to uncover the powerful and pure authentic self within you.

4. Inner Power

The greatest aphrodisiac for women is power. When someone has inner power, his presence commands respect, and he does not need to force anybody. Powerful men have the courage and strength to step up when necessary. This makes women feel safe.

5. Carefreeness

Charismatic men don’t worry about what people think. They don’t worry about the details of their lives, either. They remain calm when facing problems. It’s refreshing to be around people who live their lives with so few worries. The big problems of life become smaller, and the small pleasures become bigger.

6. Openness

Charismatic men like to meet new people. They do not live defensively. They know how to listen. They learn from other people's experiences. They are often connected with a lot of people.

7. Awareness

Charismatic men are aware of what happens around them. They are aware of who people are, and they can feel a woman’s heart and integrity. This instantly connects people. It sometimes makes them feel like they have known each other for a long time.