If She Tells You That It's Time, It's Usually Time

Most guys know that women talk alot, but for some reason it surprises most guys when they learn how much, and in how much detail, women talk about sex. When women talk about their sexual partners, the conversation runs a lot deeper than conversations between men about the same topic. Women discuss everything. In detail.

This means that if you want to build a reputation for yourself as a good catch, or just a good fuck, you really need to know what you’re doing in bed (or wherever you prefer to get down and dirty). In this article we’ll take a look at one little, incredibly simple technique that is enough to blow most women’s minds in bed, as (according to my girlfriends) it’s something that only about 5% of the guys out there do!

I’m talking about sexual teasing.

Sexual teasing is fun and playful. It is highly sexual. It is dominant, shows confidence and control, and will make going to bed with you an experience she won’t soon forget.

For most guys, sex is all about the climax. They want their own orgasm, and their egos want the girl to have one too, for good measure. The entire sexual act is directed towards that goal, and most men aim to reach it as efficiently as they can. For most girls though, it is the journey and not the destination that is the most important thing. So let’s give them a wonderful journey.

Sexual teasing is simply the act of bringing a girl so close to her orgasm, and then backing off. Letting her cool down a little bit just before she cums, and then resuming your stimulation as soon as she’s caught her breath.

Every time you do this, you build up the sexual energy inside of her. I’ve gone for hours with girls like this, bringing them to the edge of their climax, and then letting them cool down for a few seconds before I resume the stimulation. By the end of it, they are usually exhausted, blown-away, and fairly often, pretty frustrated. But when I finally let them have their orgasm, they cum like they never have before.

Keep in mind, if you do go at this for a long time, you need to change the methods of stimulation. Only working the clit for an hour will not only result in her feeling sore, but it will dissipate the sexual energy and she will eventually lose her interest in it altogether.

But if you can combine g-spot, deep-spot, a-spot and clitoral stimulation, while taking breaks to do full-body massages and also to let her play with you, you can keep going at this for as long as you have the energy.

The basic technique is this:

Take your time with foreplay, enjoy and explore her body, paying just as much attention to things like her arms, stomach and back as you do to her breasts and thighs. Find out what makes her squirm by paying attention to how she moves and what noises she makes (and don’t be afraid to ask either !)

Slowly, and I mean slowly, undress her. One piece of clothing at the time. When she’s naked, lay her on her back and tell her to lie still. Explore her, take your time before you even touch her between her legs. And when you do, take your time there, too. Don’t go straight for the prize, let her wait for it, make her want it. Let the pace build slowly.

Then, as you start stimulating her in whatever way you choose, keep going until she’s on the verge of her orgasm. When she is, stop and tell her, “Not yet.” Slow down your pace and your touch, and then when she starts breathing more calmly, you can go back to bringing her to her climax.

Rinse and repeat as many times as you want. Do it playfully, sensually, or dominantly. Make sure she understands that you are enjoying playing with her, and that you fully intend to let her have her orgasm ... but not until the two of you have enjoyed each other fully and for a long time.

Now, a word of warning: some girls can’t handle being teased for too long. If she tells you that it’s time, it’s usually time. Don’t deny her the pleasure of her climax when she needs it ... but don’t rush into it either.

Try this the next time you go to bed with a girl, and see what a difference such a simple technique will make on your love life. The girls will be talking about you on their next girls' night out !

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