Call Me In A Week And We Can All Do This

Last Friday I decided to go out with my regular (HBArgentina) and try to push some boundaries. I have previously mentioned that I am interested in threesomes and she seems down for that. All girls always mention they are down for that, mostly showing that they are wild and want to keep up with your sex drive, but once you get into a deeper emotional connection … how many of them can actually handle it ?

As a test, I’ve done some flirting with other girls while HBArgentina was present, with mixed results: some positive reactions (interest in how to pick up girls, interest in the interaction, etc.) and other negative reactions (jealousy, insecurity, etc.) So I wanted to push the limits, obtain the most intense reactions from her and establish once and for all a permanent threesome frame.

So Friday I get invited to two house parties. I arrive first, and it gives me about an hour to wait for my girl. The party is going a bit slowly, but a pair of HBs are sitting in a corner and most guys are too intimidated by them to approach. Like they say in my country, “Maricon quien!” so I approach them. HBRussia and HBSalsa.

Now HBSalsa and I had met outside of the party while going in, but I didn’t pay much attention to her as I wanted to warm up a bit before going for her.

I open HBRussia with a situational, and start setting up some rapid, fast kino and push-pull with her. She is feeling it, but somehow the conversation fizzles out. However, clearly this has had an effect on HBSalsa, as she is interested. So she approaches me, asking my name and where I'm from, and tries to get me to buy her a drink. I reframe the whole thing, turn it back at her, make her jump those exact same hoops while establishing some sexual kino and not giving an inch of information.

The bait is working and she is loving it. Things are going pretty well, and this is when HBArgentina arrives. I decide to keep doing my thing as if she isn't there, # close HBSalsa and set up some more intense flirting. She asks me multiple times to stay, but this isn't my plan for the night.

As for HBArgentina, well, she doesn't take it too well at all.

Okay, so now I've pushed the most negative reaction possible. This has triggered jealousy ... not exactly a jealousy plotline, but she feels her spot as a primary has been neglected completely. After some major drama here and there, we decide to restart the night and head over to the next party.

This is where it gets interesting.

We split up, she does her thing (she is a very social girl) and I do mine. Basically, we are all over the room. Guys are into her and girls are checking me out, but somehow we always establish eye contact, come back to see each other, take a picture, makeout, etc.

I see this cute, petite girl, HBThree, so I approach her and start flirting with her in a manner very similar to what I did at the party with HBSalsa. After awhile I decide to break rapport and see HBArgentina. I'm very interested in setting up a threesome with both. However, now things have changed. Although in the beginning she seemed a bit jealous, now she starts to let go.

I continue flirting with HBThree and now HBArgentina is starting to feel it. HBThree knows that I have a longstanding relationship with HBArgentina and that she is my main girl. However, she is very intrigued by me. She finds HBArgentina very attractive and she also just wants to have some fun.

Later on in the night I sit them both down together in a swing. They start making conversation and I am amping up their conversation with a sexual frame. I start making out with HBArgentina, but keep the sexual tension up with HBThree. Later I start making out with HBThree and going back and forth, take some pictures of both of them together and let them have their fun, and eventually it all concludes in a hot three way kiss.

Even though I was focusing the same amount of energy and time on HBThree as I did on HBSalsa, the same style of pickup, the difference was that now I gave the importance to my main girl, HBArgentina. This in turn made HBThree more attracted, as she wanted to take part in this adventure, and she loved the way I was treating her. She couldn't understand how it all worked, but she could see our intense passion, so she was definitely intrigued. Even though HBThree initially mentioned, “I'm not interested in anything other than a serious relationship,” “Ive never been in a threesome,” and “This is very unlike me,” it all seemed very natural and it was led with the same energy.

Sadly this is not a Threesome LR, as HBThree was on her period and she didn’t feel comfortable having sex while on it. She mentioned more than twice: “Call me in a week and we can all do this.”

After building up some intense rapport with HBThree and some heavy making out with her, logistics kick in and she leaves. As for HBArgentina, she was working at her own pace and now any fear of jealousy or abandonment were gone as she understood her place. No worries. I number close HBThree and make some light plans for the week. I had foreseen this coming so it was not a surprise to any of us. As for me, I take HBArgentina home to continue with some amazing sex.

Here are a couple of important things to have in mind:

* With HBArgentina I’m trying to establish permanent threesomes and polyamorous relationships … even though it’s her first polyamorous relationship (and mine too,) everything has steps. One, the girl has to be bi-curious and be very comfortable with her sexuality. Two, you have to be very comfortable with her sexuality and be able to handle her also. These two facts helped out a lot. A bonus is that she's interested in pick up and she is comfortable with the idea of open relationships.

* In this case there was one dominant girl (HBArgentina) and one submissive girl (HBThree) and this played out to my advantage. The fact that there was one dominant girl helped out, because HBThree didn’t feel like she was being led only by me, but she was also being desired and led by HBArgentina. While I wasn’t establishing rapport with HBThree, HBArgentina was establishing rapport with her, so the interaction was always leading into a threesome frame. Not sure what would happen if there were two dominant girls or if there were two submissive girls (anybody with more experience care to give some input ?)

* As I read once in a threesome LR, you have to be the one leading the interaction the whole time, and if the other girl is trying to take the lead, always establish yourself as the dominant one in the interaction. I let go a bit to give HBArgentina some sense of control, but it was always me establishing the frame. I led them into them kissing each other, I led them into a three way kiss, and led the conversation with HBThree into a threesome. I also gave HBThree a chance to lead but she was very shy and didn’t know how to handle it, so a little push always helped.

* HBThree was led into an adventure where we were the stars and she was being taken along for the ride. With HBThree, even though she was never into a threesome or a three way kiss, the idea was to handle the threesome as an adventure and not as something out of a porn movie. HBThree is a very sweet girl and very shy, so in this case a more emotional approach was taken. It's important to build some rapport with her and establish a connection. Again, the idea is not that she is a toy. No girl likes to feel used like a toy, but more that she is coming along for the ride with us.

* If you have a main, and you want to establish permanent threesomes with her, she needs to know that she is the main and that the other girl is a person coming on an adventure with us. Trust is the golden rule here ! No trust, no go.

Anyways, I’m looking forward for more adventures with HBArgentina, as she is very down with many ideas (proposing we pick up girls the night after). And as for HBThree … so far she hasn’t flaked, so we will see where it all goes. As for HBSalsa, she is very interested, so only time will tell ...

Any input from people that have experience with permanent threesomes is more than welcome !