2010/06/11

I Feel More And More Like James Bond

Why you should always call at least twice.
Remember; the magic number is two. At least two.

Livinston:
I don't know exactly what happened, but yesterday, I had this really chill vibe ... relaxed, confident, in control, and very attractive (as you'll see). I guess that must be close to the James Bond vibe.

I was staining furniture on my balcony all day, something that I wanted to do for a long time. I was proud of myself for being in a “doer” mode, and was excited to get my place in good shape.

I get a call from HBVirgin (who is not virgin anymore thanks to me lol). She asks me if I want to do something. I tell her I'll pick her up soon.

We go for ice cream and enjoy the weather by taking a 2 hour walk downtown. I give her a lift home to her place. She doesn't invite me over to sleep there, but it's fine with me. Having sex is less and less of an issue anymore (I fucked her enough this week already anyway).

This reminds me of a quote from the movie “The Aviator.” The poor-to-rich millionaire Howard Hughes is invited to a dinner with a wealthy family. At some point they say that they don't care about money … Hughes interrupts them and says: “It's because you have it ! You don't care about money because you'll always have plenty.” That's how I feel nowadays about sex.

Anyway, back to the story ...

In the last 2 weeks, I've been clearing my cellphone of numbers of girls that I didn't want to chase anymore. The only 2 girls I didn't fuck gave me their numbers about 10 days before in similar circumstances: HBRedbull and HBPiercing. Due to logistics, I had only talked 5 minutes to each of them before taking the number. I called them both a few days later and had a fun conversation without definite plans made, then called them again before the weekend to organize something. Neither answered, and had not called back in 5 days.

I forgot that it's always a bit of a numbers game, and I started to think about what I did wrong. I had a talk with a friend and told him that I don't want to chase girls anymore and I was not interested in calling a second time. But he wisely advised that I should always make two calls before giving up.

So back to yesterday night around 9:30.

I call HBPiercing and leave a message that went a bit like this : “Hey HBPiercing ! I thought I'd give you a second chance and call you again. Oh ! I think you're calling right now ... bye.” (It was not her but my friend, whose Skype number was not saved in my phone.)

Talk with him for awhile about HB10s in general and he convinced me that I should do the same with HB10s as with any other girl … the gaming is not different, but there is a smaller margin of error, and I have to be a bit more dominant. It was good advice.

So HBPiercing calls me back and invites me out. At first I say no (I knew she was with friends and didn't want to look like an orbiter) but after hanging up, I call my friend back and he tells me I should go anyway just to see what's happening with her. I invite him to wingLook up this term me there, and text the girl something like this:

Livinston : Guess where my friend wants to go ?
HBpiercing : Out with us !
Livinston : No... but not far from where you're going, so I'll pass by and say hi (giving myself an honorable exit strategy).
HBpiercing : Cool ! Text me when you're there !
10:30

I'm waiting for my friend, and I approach about 7 setLook up this terms in 10 minutes as warm up. My line was “Hey girls ! I'm going on a date right now and I was wondering if you could give me advice ...” This line is awful if you wanna hook the girl but excellent to get compliments.

Friend arrives and we go looking for HBPiercing. We find her sitting at a table with 5 other people. I introduce us to the whole table, take the table nearby and then remember that a friend is working as a barman here. So I excuse myself and bring my wingLook up this term with me, leaving them time to talk about us.

When we come back, HBPiercing is giving me some attitude, so I just stop listening to her and talk with my friend instead. Then she starts trying to get our attention, and we keep not listening much. Then over time, the whole table seems interested in us, so we start opening up a bit more to them.

My wingLook up this term runs his magic on the girl beside him (her first words to us were, “What would be the best sexual text I could send to a guy right now ?”) 5 minutes later she seems in trance, and I'm pretty happy about the little bubble they created, because it isolated my girl with me.

The friend that has a boyfriend turns to me and says: “You have a really cool vibe ! When you arrived, even the guys were impressed by how good your vibe was !” (I'm laughing to myself, thinking it's pretty rare to be complimented on your vibe outside the Seduction Community !)

HBPiercing and I start texting each other while sitting beside each other :

Livinston: When I see you, my penis makes my pants uncomfortable.
HBPiercing: Livinston = fail your life ... if only you had a life. (I start laughing.)
Livinston: Your lawyer friend seems to be the most sexual of the group ... interesting !
HBPiercing: It's because you don't see me ? Naked !
Livinston: You'll have to work harder ! I'm not that easy ! (That's when she starts chasing me.)
HBpiercing: I'm not easy either ! You're the one who has been chasing me for two weeks, remember ?
Livinston: You lost many points for not calling me back !
Then her friend, thinking I'm texting someone else, asks me what kind of work I do. So I get up from my chair and join her on the other side of the table, leaving HBpiercing alone with nobody to talk to, since my wingLook up this term is still in trance with his girl and I'm talking to the other friend and her boyfriend.

HBPiercing: I still love you you know ! And I called you back tonight right ? (I now know her defenses are broken. But since I'm not answering her text she keeps coming back.)
HBpiercing: I'd really like to get to know you but the timing was bad ! (She joins us at the other side of the table and sits on her friend's lap.)
Livinston: You're forgiven, but if you want to see me again, you're gonna be the one calling me. (She calls me right away in front of me, but I tell her it doesn't count.)
I continue my conversation with the others because they are more interesting than her and show mutual interest. A few minutes later I tell my wingLook up this term it's time to go. We say goodbye to everybody, and she tells me ...

HBpiercing: Laters ...
HBpiercing: Laters !
HBpiercing: Call me when you're done later ...
Livinston: Ha ! Ok ... I will.
Half an hour later, we're at another bar and my wingLook up this term is working this stunning blond that I challenged him to open. He does one of the smoothest approaches and interactions I've seen in awhile. The girl is laughing her ass off the whole time.

I'm winging him by talking with the guys around to make sure nobody cock blocks him. While doing that I exchange these texts with HBPiercing :

Livinston: What is your address ? (Just assuming she wants to sleep with me.)
HBpiercing: XXXX Street X
Livinston: You have condoms ?
HBpiercing: Yup !
So I split with my wingLook up this term and have to walk to HBPiercing's place cause my car won't start.

On the way I'm walking through the park. I see a group of people sitting on the grass drinking beer, and I make a smirk towards one of the girls. I hear them say (pretty loudly) “Wooohhh ! This guy is so handsome !” So I approach them and tell them that I saw 3 cute girls, but then saw two guys so it was not that interesting anymore. They laugh, I introduce myself to everyone and then tell them I can't stay, but will take one of the girls' phone numbers so we can keep in touch. One of the girls says she's really down for that and gives me her digits. They give me a beer for the road and I'm on my way ...

A bit further, I see a really hot Latina girl in her 30s sitting on a bench. I say hi and she invites me to sit with her. I sit but tell her after a few minutes that I can't stay. I tell her I'd like to go for a coffee with her because she's really interesting, but that I have no intention of hitting on her because she has somebody in her life. She's really down for it but she doesn't have a cell phone and I don't want to call at her house where she lives with her boyfriend, so I offer to give her my digits.

Then I got to HBPiercing's place. We start having sex right away, but after I come, I start having crazy allergies to her cat, so I tell her I have to leave. She's a bit offended, but I tell her that if someone gives me as good sex as she did (best blowjob I've had in a long time) I'm more than willing to see that person again, but that she'll have to come to my place because I just can't stand my allergies.

I'm putting my shoes back on and am about to leave when I ask her to give me an honest answer about why she didn't call me back last week. She tells me she was seeing someone and was not comfortable seeing me, but they had a fight last weekend so that's why she invited me today.

On my way back to my car I do another approach in the park but the girl is too young (17) and with a group of like 8 gangster look-alikes. I have a conversation with them, as she's sitting strangely alone on her bench away from her friends. Every 2 minutes someone from the group comes to check on her, and each time I introduce myself to the new person and that seems to be enough to disarm all of them. But eventually I get up and continue my walk, seeing no interest in a girl that young.

It's 2:47 and I'm back at the bar where we started the evening. I say hi to my barman friend and offer him a lift, which he accepts as soon as he's finished cleaning. So I go to the back terrace and I see a group of 4 girls sitting alone. I ask them how come no guys are with them, then do some light talking and then pull the trigger:

I ask if they would be OK if I take their friend's phone number, assuming she is OK with it too. They agree enthusiastically, so I turn to my targetLook up this term and ask her what she thinks. She agrees with a smile.

But then I tell her I can't take it yet, because she would remember it only as a guy she spoke with for 5 minutes at 3 AM. (By the way, the fact that I'm sober that late always give me extra points and seriousness in these situations.) At the same time (perfect timing), the bouncer tells us we have to go to the front terrace to finish our (their) beers. So I tell her we should walk together on the way there to get to know each other. I ask my regular speed dating core personality questions and try to speed up the getting to know each other process.

Once in front her friends really stay away to help me do my thing and when it's time to leave, they ask me if I want to walk with them to the car. I accept and talk some more with my targetLook up this term. On the way, the girls get scared by a car full of black guys who try to hit on them from their car. So they all run back to me to feel protected. I feel more and more like James Bond lol.

While walking with my girl about 10 feet behind the others, I suddenly grab her arm (a bit hard) and pull her to a hiding spot and just kiss her right away. She's all excited. I pull her back on the sidewalk and tell her she can tell her friends I wanted to tell her a secret. She replies that with 4 girls sleeping in the same bed, she'll have to tell the others. So I explain that she can say what she wants, but I'm always discreet about such things.

I leave them at their car, join my friend, and just before getting to my own car I see 2 really hot girls. I approach them and they ask for my name. My friend joins me and the vibe is good. They like us. And he already exchanged eye contact and smiles with them at McDonald's while I was away a few minutes earlier. I ask them where they live and tell them it's on my way if they want a lift.

They start asking questions like ...

Girls: How can we trust you ?
Livinston: (while leaving) You shouldn't.
Girls: Are you rapists ?
Livinston: Yes.
Girls: Ok ... we trust you so we'll be glad to accept your offer.
Lol ... girls are so funny.

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But sadly, on the way my friend does a bad job at winging me because he's not interested (they're about 20, but my friend's sister is 20 and he has a mental block about hitting on girls the same age as his sister) and he thinks I'm not interested either.

I know no connection was built on the ride to their place so I didn't even try to close them, knowing how hard it is to get together with a girl when you only know her name and nothing else.

In short : Date with a regular, date with a new girl, 2 #closeLook up this terms, 1 f-close, 1 k-close followed by an other #closeLook up this term ...

.... Oh ! And 1 satisfying man hug ! lol

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3 comments

justagudboy's picture
Fri, 06/11/2010 - 19:23

really really nice story

really really nice story but... so few details. I'd really want to know what you said back there :P

Livinston's picture
Fri, 06/11/2010 - 22:39

More details !!! My god ! I

More details !!! My god ! I thought my post was already too long ! What do you want to know exactly ?

TheNextPhase's picture
Sun, 06/13/2010 - 13:07

dating my sister's friends

I have a block too about dating girls who were my sisters age. Sucks too because she tells me all her friends have a crush on me lol. But I just can't get past the fact they they're all the same age, its like incest or something lol. I mean I know its not but still. Plus even more I can't help thinking if they're friends maybe they'll share personal stuff with my sister or something.

It may seem dumb but I feel like this is really a sticking point and maybe there's some deeper issue behind it. Anybody else have this problem? I'd really like some advice on how to get past it.