2010/06/14
I'm A Man. That's What I Do
A skillful pick up artist doesn't just know how to seduce women … he knows how to keep them from getting away.
Rogue:
This happened last Saturday. I've been seeing a girl since New Year's, and she's great fun, interesting, and good in bed. The only problem is that she doesn't like that I see other women.
So last Saturday I got a voice mail saying she wanted to talk to me. That sounded ominous. I called her back as I walked down the street. We chatted for a couple of minutes. Then she got down to business.
Her: Baby, I wanted to talk to you.
Me: Ok.
Her: (upset) I want to break up with you.
Me: What ?
Her: (crying) It's because we're not exclusive … and I can't take it.
Me: Oh baby ...
Her: I had to tell you on the phone because I knew if I saw you in person I couldn't do it. We have too much of a connection.
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Me: Baby ...
Her: I want to feel close to you, but I feel this distance. I don't text you as much as I used to … I feel that distance. And I wonder if you're distant because I'm 38 and I have kids ...
Me: Stop. Stop right there. That has nothing to do with it. Nothing at all. And I won't let you think it does for one more second.
Her: *sniffle* Ok.
Me: Baby ... you're wonderful.
Her: Thank you.
Me: Maybe I don't say it enough, but you're wonderful.
Her: Ok.
It had been raining a bit, and that inspired me to get poetic.
Her: I guess I'm tough to listen to sometimes. I get weepy.
Me: Baby, rain your tears on me, and I smile. Shout your thunder at me, and I smile. Throw your lightning at me, and I smile. Then I breathe, and my breath softly blows the clouds away and lets my sun shine on us. I'm a man. That's what I do.
Her: Awww.
Me: Don't get a big head now.
Her: Hahaha. You're hilarious.
The next day I was expecting a bit of hesitation from her, but there was none. She was all over me as soon as she walked in the door.
Sometimes women just want some reassurance, some reminder that you care, because they feel bad or something. It occurred to me that this may just be the part of her monthly cycle where she feels insecure. I'll see next month.
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6 comments
Keeping the relationship rolling
I think this is the first post I've seen on here that deals with keeping a relationship going rather than approach, escalation, etc. Once you get women in your life, now what? Not so easy, is it. Because these are actual human beings you're dealing with, and they have feelings. So yeah, I liked this post and thought you handled it all well. Women get insecure and need to be reassured from time to time. If a woman has low self-esteem, she'll be seeking reassurance all the time and end up driving men away. No one wants to hear "god I'm so fat" all day long. But the occasional case of the blues is normal, and she's looking to her man to help pull her out of her funk. Well done.
the real question
There's no doubt a guy with skill can pull off something like this and keep the girl.
The question is... is it worth it?
Sure, women give "tests." But even the wealth of material in the seduction community on "dealing with tests" men are essentially still doing just that: dealing with tests. "Dealing" in this case amounts to "passing" which still accepts the frame that a woman is in a position to test in the first place.
Yes, you have to deal with some of that intially. It's to be expected. But I just have no patience with it past a certain point. If a woman wants to give me BS like this I'm happy to just let her walk away because I know there are ten more lined up to take her place. If she really wants to leave, the door won't hit her ass on the way out. And if it's some BS game or silly emotional nonsense, she gets her head screwed on the right way pretty fast as soon as she sees she's about to miss out.
This guy is admittedly seeing other people, so why waste the energy on this one?
Because if you got her on
Because if you got her on your hook why let her get away lol. Seriously though I mean that's harsh. She wants to know shes special. She wants to know if she freaks out you'll be able to stay a strong man. Maybe you don't like it but thats just the way girls are. Best accept it or youre gonna be a lonely lonely man.
Agree with TheNextPhase
A woman will continue to test you for the rest of your life. I don't want to make it sound like a big deal but they do it when they fell insecure, as in this case, or to know that you are still that man she met the first day. You just got to accept it and to know that it is normal. She does it unconsciously to feel safe with you.
Are these women adults?
Are these women adults?
If a man expects emotional security from a woman he's a "mamma's boy." Socially we look down on men like this but encourage women to do the very same thing. So it's not okay for a man to want a replacement mother, but it's okay for a woman to want a replacement father.
I'm not talking about testing when you first meet a girl so she sees what kind of man you are, I'm talking about flakey BS like this where she set
s up some fake conflict just to get reassurance from you. That's childish and there ARE women who do not need this kind of little girl routine to feel "secure."
And by the way if the woman really had a problem with this guy seeing other people she should have stayed away in the first place. This whole routine was either try and get him to give up a lifestyle she already knew he had (BS) or as I said make a phony conflict to get her emotional cookies (also BS). You're better off without flakes like this
Keeping as many as possible!!!
Odviously you don't know what ur saying... are you an masculinist or something? This guy is playing lots of women and he's good enough to keep this girl on hook. Who wouldn't want that skill. This girl would've propably never agreed to an open relationship if it wasn't for this guy seduction power! DAH!