Why Guys Love Watching Porn

Ever hear of mirror-neurons ?

Me neither, until a few days ago. I'm not a big science guy, and my theories on attraction rarely delve into neuroscience, but this research I was reading about was absolutely freakin' amazing and I wanted to share it with you right away.

So, as I'm sure you're aware, scientists have been studying how the brain works for a long time, hooking people up to sensors, implanting microchips, testing drugs, doing MRIs, etc. ...

Well, as it turns out, all of us have these special neurons (brain cells) whose purpose is to make us experience, in our own brains, the same thing that we see other people experiencing.

You know how when you see a guy grilling a steak, you can vividly “imagine” what that experience is like for him ? It's as if you were in his skin, you remember what the steak smells like, and it's almost like you really have that scent in your nose. You can practically feel the heat radiating off the barbecue set.

Well, when you're doing this, the same parts of your brain are lighting up as the dude who is actually grilling the steak ! The same exacts neurons are firing in both of your heads, because you're thinking the same things he's thinking !

(This is probably why guys love watching porn so much, because they can jump into the action with their minds and it's almost like they are really there ...)

That said, when you are communicating with a woman over the Internet, she can't literally see you. So you may not be able to engage these “mirror neurons,” per se. However, you can definitely create a very similar effect by captivating her imagination.

On a truly physical level, to get a woman into you, you must excite her neurons. Her brainis the organ where it all starts. It's her brain that calls the shots and makes the hormones and endorphins flow.

Here are a couple ways of facilitating this process online:

One thing I say over and over and over again is that your dating profile is your opportunity to start seducing women before you ever even meet them. It's your chance to seduce their minds !

You do this by using your words to create images that cause the right neurons to fire in your reader's adorable little woman brain, lol.

I know it sounds tough. I mean, we're not actually going to hook up girls to an EEG machine to see what works, but you can do this. You might even be doing a decent job of it already. The easiest way is to take a basic online dating profile template, and use it to organize a bunch of appealing images.

The key is in creating vivid pictures that your reader can take a quantum leap into and have an experience that stimulates the hell out of her. That way, when she finishes reading, she'll associate all the powerful feelings she's just had with you, a guy she doesn't even know, and she'll feel like she has to get in touch with you.

If your profile is boring (like most guys) it will barely register on her brain, and you'll be forgotten immediately.

When you're emailing with a girl, keep painting pictures for her mind to trip through. Don't start doing goofy shit like busting out with some PUA tactic, and don't start being timid and boring because you're afraid of scaring the girl away ...

No, what you need to do is paint her another picture, one that's going to make her neurons fire like crazy.

For example, let's say that a girl you hit up on match.com writes you back and asks you what you did today. That's a pretty common question, but it's also a great opportunity to stimulate her mind with your answer. You could say something like:

“... I just got my mail, and somebody got me a subscription to one of those “Sausage of the Month” things ... weird, I have no idea who got me this, and right now I'm looking at some very weird exotic sausages ...”

I'm using this example to show that the subject of your email doesn't really matter. You could write about almost anything. Just be sure to throw in robust images like this to keep her brain excitedly thinking about you.

From there, you don't really need to do shit to arrange the date. You just ask her number and call her up. She'll already be “pre-sold” on the idea that you are cool and different.