2010/01/06

How Did That Illegal Immigrant Taste Earlier ?

Kevin Feng discusses the advantages of going out with a group of women.
The dance has started

Kevin Feng:
So I went out to a lovely place called Clearwater here in Florida. It's absolutely gorgeous, like the pictures you see on travel brochures. No exaggeration ... it really is that captivating. I enjoyed Los Angeles, and the clubs were great out there, but honestly, LA's a pretty dirty place and I wasn't too impressed in terms of the overall city, at least looks wise. I remember going to Sunset and Hollywood Boulevard for the first time, and I was like, “This is it ?”

Anyway, I'm getting off the point here. All I'm trying to say is that down here in the south, clubs are pretty aesthetically pleasing.

The club was totally bumpin', I'm guessing it was because of the long weekend. Plus the ladies drank free until 1 am (unheard of in LA) and there was no cover for dudes before 10 or something. Sounded like a pretty sick time.

I met some ladies out in Tampa a few weeks back and we had been trying to plan something for quite some time (just using them as social proof and possibly pivots.) Told them about this thing out in Clearwater and they were pretty sold.

So we met at their place, we pre-partied a little bit and I road with them.

For all you starters out there, going out with women is so clutch.

1. It enhances your social proof.
2. You're “in” with the group and they all think you're a cool guy, therefore increasing your likelihood of escalating with one of them.
3. You just feel like the cool guy, which is a big inner game help.

Anyway, so we met up, took a few shots, I buddied up with one of the chicks and we drove down. I could tell she was pretty into me, she was about a 7, but definitely above the line.

So we arrive at the club, we wait in line for all of about 20 minutes and of course I had to pay cover because I'm a dude.

I walk in, and the place is off the chart. It's facing the beach; part of the club is on the actual beach in the outdoor area and there are hot women everywhere.

Long story short, my best setLook up this term of the night was with a Latino chick, a Cuban. She had a little bit of an accent. I had a little difficulty gaming, the dance floor covered most of the club and it was just painfully loud. I had this problem back in Michigan at a few clubs I went to where the music would just be too blaringly loud.

Anyway here's how my setLook up this term went:

A for Attitude, Attract, & Approach:
I see her at the bar and I'm ordering beside her. She orders a Corona.

Me: Oh, you would ! Mexicans drinking Mexican beer. Maybe live a little, get a Sam Adams.
Her: Well, you've got an attitude on you (snarky / playfully), and by the way, I'm Cuban.
Me: Yeah, I'm a bit of a arrogant prick (playfully), but at least I'm fun.
Me: I just moved here from Los Angeles. I could have sworn you were Mexican. Your kind litter Los Angeles.
Her: Haha, no far from. Oh really, what did you move over here for ?
Me: For a job.
Her: Oh yeah, what kind ?
Me: I'm Asian. It involves numbers, of course. Guess.
Her: I was going to say Chinese restaurant.
Me: OMG, you racist prick (playfully.)
Her: Look who's talking
B for Be in the Moment, Banter & Buying Temperature
She's a pretty sarcastic girl, something I could definitely appreciate. We went back and forth with the banter for about 30 minutes, perhaps a little too long.

C for Compliance, Comfort & Connect
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She asks who I came with. I tell her to come meet my group (instant social proof.) We hang for a little longer and I tell her to come to the outer patio with me since it's hotter / louder than hell inside. She complies.

D for Dominance, Direct, & Disqualify
My comfort was a little half-assed since there wasn't really anywhere to sit down. Anyway, so we're on that outer patio, and she throws me a little bit of a curve ball.

Her: So on that pick up artist show, they probably taught you how to get girls to kiss you and stuff.
Me: Well yeah, it's the pick up artist, not the sterile artist.
Her: *laughs*
Me: Well, that doesn't make me a man-slut, I'm pretty selective.
Her: Yeah ? How selective ?
Me: Let me demonstrate.
I grab the back of her hair, didn't make out with her, but gave her a solid kiss. The kiss close was a little off with the wording before hand, but whatever, she was ready for it.

At this point it's about 1:00, and the girls I came with are looking to get out of there to meet some friends back at their place.

I could tell that the girl I came with was a little jealous that I didn't really talk to her a lot of that night.

On the drive home:

Her: You look smashed.
Me: You look sober.
Her: Well I had to drive.
Me: You poor thing, I'll try to radiate some of my fun drunken exuberance to you. *apply some light fun kinoLook up this term, stroking her playfully*
Her: Haha, stop that.
Me: Your loss.
Her: So how did that illegal immigrant taste earlier ?
Me: Well, we didn't make out first off, and second, she has her green card, thank you.
Her: Haha, you're such a ho.
Me: Don't be hatin' just because you didn't get any booty tonight.
Her: Psh, party isn't over yet, we got some friends we're meeting back at our place.
E for Evaluate, Extract & Escalate
We get back to their place and there are about 9 people there, some beer pong and some light hanging out.

I make my rounds and eventually end up back in the HBLook up this term's room. We're just hanging out and talking about life in general, we're somewhere in the C stage at this point. It's pretty much a done deal at this point.

Her: You're crashing here tonight I'm assuming.
Me: Yeah, I don't want to end up on the news tomorrow.
Her: You can crash on the futon whenever you want.
Me: Cool, just don't take advantage of me when I'm sleeping.
Her: Psh, yeah right.
Me: Just sayin', you haven't gotten booty yet, and I don't want to be your booty victim.
Her: You're so mean, Kevin.
Me: Aww, I'm just teasin'.
I go over to hug her and reassure her kind of half playfully. We start kissing. The kissing wasn't that great, she tasted like burgers and beer, but whatever, you take your losses.

We start fooling around a bit, her top comes off, she gives me some token LMRLook up this term. “It's late Kevin, I'm not in the mood for this.” I agree with her, it's like 4:00 am at that point. I guess if she were hotter I would have pushed for it. I had her go down on me a little and we pass out.

F for Future (Fun ? or Fake !)
Pretty much a closed deal for next time out.

About the author:
Kevin Feng is an instructor with Asian Playboy's ABCs of Attraction. He was featured on the second season of VH1's The Pickup Artist.

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Heathenrich's picture
Thu, 01/14/2010 - 12:38

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I liked your approach and acronym ABCD, etc. to remember key points... good job!

Another conversation starter/rapport builder that I came across from Christian Hudson I found to be great. Tried it this past weekend, working from topical, to personal, to interpersonal conversation - and had two really great conversations. It is natural, and is easy to be relaxed and fun, since you are working within your own high value frame.

Take a look if you are interested: www.becomeunbreakable.com/blog/instant-attraction/