Now It's Done And She Doesn't Have To Think About It Anymore

It was a night of social game. My buddy got me drunk by keeping the tequila shots coming. We started by making friends with the couple beside us. Well ... the girl said they were friends, but they had been living together for 3 months, so ...

We had lots of fun with these two, and then I told the girl to approach a guy and invite him to join us. Then we told that guy to invite other girls to join us, and then I went myself and got a group of four more girls. Then some guys were attacking the girls in my circle, so I showed them how to properly grind on a girl (HBYoung) so they would stop looking like vultures around my new friends.

Before long, there was a circle of 15 people dancing together who didn't know each other minutes before. I was creating a bubble of fun. That's where the party was.

Then, as much fun as it was to build that circle, there was not much else to do, so I left and met 3 Mexican chicks. Number closed and invited them to the “after party” at my friend's place just in front of the bar. How convenient ...

My friend and I were going around talking with people, having a blast and getting numbers.

Then at 3 AM, on our way to his place, we see the Mexican chicks on the sidewalk. We ask them where they are going, and they say they are coming to our place. My buddy sees 2 guys on the sidewalk and invites them in, too. People are chilling in the living room, I'm making out with one of the Mexican chicks in the kitchen and one guy is making out with another one.

My friend leaves the apartment and comes back with 4 more people. A nice party is happening. One guy is playing guitar, and people are having fun.

Then I receive a text from HBYoung. She tells me she's back home and watching a movie with her roommate. I ask if she is too shy to invite me and she says it's too late. So I tell her we'll watch a movie together at the beginning of the week. She accepts right away.

We text back and forth until Monday. She's bringing wine and she's really excited about it. The thing is, she saw me leading a big group of people that I didn't even know, so I got mad value from that. We didn't talk for more than 5 minutes together, but seeing me around other people was enough for her to make her decision.

Fast forward to Monday, 8 PM.

She calls me from the subway (I always tell girls to do that so I don't have to wait). I meet her there, and we walk together so she can get used to being with me before going to my place.

We go to buy stuff at the corner store and come back to my place. I show her my aquarium and my fish, we open the wine, drink 3/4 of the bottle and then move back to my TV lounge. I put music on while we relax on my pillows, and when the bottle is over, we start the movie.

Up to that point, the only kino was a hug at the subway. I'm not rushing things, as she's comfortable already. 20 minutes into the movie, I ask her if she gives good back massages. I remove my t-shirt, and she tells me that she hopes I don't think she'll do the same. I tell her not to worry. She massages me and does a really good job, and then it's my turn. She lays on her belly right away.

I start massaging her. I tell her to remove her t-shirt so as not to stain it with the oil, but to keep her bra on. Then I tell her I'll unclip her bra, but not remove it. After 10 minutes we start kissing. I make her feel my cock and try to get into her pants, but she says this is her limit and she doesn't wanna go further. “No problem,” I tell her, “I understand.”

Long make-out session. She still has her bra and pants on. I tell her it's late and she should sleep here, and I'll give her a lift home on my way to work. We're not gonna do anything, just sleep.

She still hides her boobs because she's shy. I look into her eyes and tell her that we have to make something clear. I love her boobs and I think they are wonderful, but what I don't like is when someone is not comfortable. I tell her to let it go. She does. I remove the bra. She tells me the last time someone saw her naked she was 14. She just turned 18.

We continue making out, but it's getting really late, so I tell her to go brush her teeth so we can get ready to sleep. When she comes back, she gets under the blankets with her jeans still on. So I ask her to remove them because it's really unpleasant for me. I tell her I promise I'm not gonna try anything. She removes her pants.

She has the best body I've seen in years. Small ass, tattoo on her back. Really hot.

Body rubbing and making out. She tells me she doesn't want to do it. I say it's fine. She asks me if I will see her again if we don't do it. I say whether we do it or not, we're gonna see each other again. It really makes no difference.

We continue, always going a bit further. I touch her ass. She lets me. She's getting hornier by the minute. At some point, I manage to finger her from behind by grabbing her ass. She tells me, “Ok ... I want to do it now.”

She tells me she's a virgin. Not because she didn't want to do it before, but because she was living with her parents ... she wants to do it, but she's afraid it's gonna hurt. I tell her we'll go really slowly, but that I'm not psychic, so she needs to tell me if she wants it slower or faster, and if it hurts or if it's good.

It takes about 45 minutes in order to go all the way in. She weights 100 pounds with a tight ass, so she's really small. It takes another 30 minutes for her to get comfortable and really enjoy it.

After, we went for a smoke and she was smiling. She told me she was really happy she did it, because now it's done and she doesn't have to think about it anymore.

I could go into more detail, but I want to describe how I got through the LMR. She's an amazing girl and just talking with her was super fun.

I was talking to a friend about LMR ... he told me he tried using freeze-outs, and half the time it would backfire. I told him a freeze-out can't backfire if you do it right. Freeze-outs are not at all about making her feel guilty or bad for not having sex, or about denying her your mouth and hands. It's about showing her that you can stop anytime. That you can control yourself. That it's all about feeling good, and if she feels pressured by your escalation, you can stop it and do something else. That's why a movie is great, because you can stop escalating and listen to the movie ... and then start again.

It's important to keep coming back, though. She says no, you say ok, you stop, talk a little, then start from 0 again. Kissing, touching, etc., until you go a little bit further than last time. Than she says, “We're not gonna have sex.” You say, “I know.” You stop, talk, and start again.

It's also important to make her feel good after you've had sex with her. You don't want to trigger buyer's remorse the next day. There are many ways to do this, but it would be too long to describe here.

I really like this girl. She's sleeping at my place Thursday. I can't wait !