Get The Women With Little Effort

Are you physically attractive ? Are you socially attractive ? Do people feel comfortable around you? Do people enjoy being around you ?

Are you a “good catch ?”

I've been thinking about this concept, and there seems to be a huge disconnection between creating attraction and being attractive.

On the one hand, the community seems to teach that you don't have to be attractive to create attraction. To me, that sounds more like a marketing pitch to sell a product, but it is true on some levels. If you get “good enough” at pickup, you can probably figure out the right pattern to create some attraction with girls you meet.

Examples of “creating attraction:” learning some good routines that have subtle DHV, or getting good at negging and teasing while faking social value.

However !

I also believe you can be an attractive person without knowing any pickup ... and ultimately, I think that this is what guys should be aiming for. Don't try to learn pickup (it will come naturally with experience), try to figure out how to make yourself an attractive person.

What do I mean by making yourself an attractive person ?

Well for starters, transform yourself into a physically good looking person. Go out and get great clothes that suit you, work out at the gym 4 times a week, get a new haircut, get contacts, trim your facial and pubic hair, get new shoes, pick up a sport, a new hobby, get yourself some great friends. Find your passion in life and really pursue it. Surround yourself with good friends, not just acquaintances that you go out with. Build a social circle.

The bottom line is: strive to be a better person and embrace an attractive lifestyle !

To me, those are just some examples of what an attractive person should have … and once you have that, you'll get the women with little effort and experience.

Attractive guys create attraction.

Doesn't it make more sense that an attractive guy would create attraction ?

It goes hand in hand ! That's the way it's supposed to be.

Instead, I see unattractive guys trying to create attraction ... and then they wonder why it's difficult.

Gee, I wonder !

If you're jobless, not physically attractive, have nothing exciting going on in your life, have no ambitions, no social skills, no hobbies, no passion ... then I'd suggest working on that as much as (if not more than) picking up women.

I think more attention needs to be put on actually becoming an attractive man rather than on using techniques.