2009/08/07

What Would You Like for Breakfast ?

If the seduction is going well, under no circumstances should you ask for her Facebook !

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Aditya:
FRLook up this term: 105% Direct Approach

I went out using my new style of pickup last night ... 105% direct ! And boy, was it good !

I walked outside a bar with a friend of mine. I spotted a hot, busty blonde with mesmerising titties on the street, waiting for the bus. There were other girls around her, although she was by herself. I told my friend to split ... he went ahead. I walked up to her and here's how it went:

Aditya: Hey, can I ask you something ?
HBLook up this term: (With that look in her eyes that says, “Oh, no ... not another one ... ”) Yeah, sure.
Aditya: What the fuck do you think you're doing ? (In an almost accusing way.)
HBLook up this term: Sorry ? (Kind of offended.)
Aditya: Yeah, why are you doing this to me woman ?
HBLook up this term: (Confused as fuck !) What ?
Aditya: I'm gonna have to call the cops on you.
HBLook up this term: ? ?
Aditya: Do you just expect me to walk past you with your boobs looking that hot ? !
HBLook up this term: (Relieved.) Oh hahaha.
Aditya: This is fucked. I think you should go home, eat 20 bags of chips and 25 chocolate bars, put on 10 pounds of fat, and become ugly so that I can at least connect with your personality rather than just wanting to get into your pants.
HBLook up this term: Oh hahaha, you've got balls.
Aditya: You wanna feel them ?
HBLook up this term: What ?
Aditya: You know ... my balls. I can dip them in whipped cream and you can enjoy it. It will be an adventure. (Hahaha I don't know how I came up with this, but it was pretty fine.)
HBLook up this term: Do you go around saying that to everyone ? (I knew this was a test !)
Aditya: No, it's just you. It's just your boobs. OMG look at them. You can't do this to me. I should be given $100 for controlling myself like this. You can't do this to me !
HBLook up this term: Hahaha you're hilarious ... I had such a boring night tonight. You're funny.
Aditya: Can't you come up with something original ? I've had that “You're funny” pickup line used on me so many times. Rather than telling me I'm funny, why don't you tell me what your favourite position is ?
HBLook up this term: Haha ... hmm (says into my ear) ... me on top.
Aditya: Damn. This relationship is over. That is my least favourite position ... but I'll give you a chance.
HBLook up this term: Haha. (She was very, very horny by this time ... she had the little part of her phone in her mouth ... I guess this was a sign that she was turned on ?)
Aditya: Very nice. I approve.
HBLook up this term: What ?
Aditya: I've learned over the last few years that girls who like to put things into their mouths give amazing head.
HBLook up this term: Oh yeah ? How many girls have you “known ?”
Aditya: I'll tell you tomorrow, after breakfast. What's your favourite fruit ?
HBLook up this term: Hmm that's a hard one ... let me think. Blueberries !
Aditya: Wow, hmm, nice. Blueberries ! I've never eaten blueberries off of a girl's body before ... I've tried strawberry ... whipped cream ... but never blueberries ! We should try it out !
HBLook up this term: (Smiling. And getting Horny. Horny. Horny. Horny. Horny.)
Aditya: What are you doing later tonight ?
HBLook up this term: Going home.
Aditya: What would you like for breakfast ?
HBLook up this term: Hahaha I can't tonight ... if it was some other night, I would have. (She knew I wanted to bring her to my place.)
I feel like a dumbass for not being persistent enough ... I have a strong feeling that she wanted me to try a bit more. For some stupid fucking reason, I said the wrong thing:

Aditya: All right, do you have Facebook ? (At this point, the whole interaction got fucked. Aaahhh !)
HBLook up this term: Yeah.
Aditya: (Taking my phone out and logging onto Facebook) What's your name ?
HBLook up this term: Stephanie. What's yours ?
Aditya: Bond. James Bond.
HBLook up this term: Hahahaha.
Aditya: What's your last name ?
HBLook up this term: Why ? So you can stalk me on Facebook ?
Aditya: Hmm, well yeah. If you don't come home with me, I was about to go masturbate and I needed a name to go with your face. (I've learned that it's better not to defend yourself when a chick blames you for anything ... just agree with whatever she's saying.)
At this point, I could see the energy level dying ... just because I opened my stupid fucking mouth and asked her for Facebook rather than continue talking about her boobs.

Without getting her full name for Facebook or saying bye, I just turned around and left. She didn't know what just happened, but I left anyway.

This was my first day being completely direct. And to my surprise, it worked quite well on both the approaches I did. I've been struggling to figure out what method or style to use, and I have a gut feeling that I've found one for me ... being 105% direct with people.

I have a question for you though ... do you think I can be this direct during the day ? I feel like I would need to tone it down a bit. Would you mind suggesting a few things to incorporate this into my day game ? Or even tell me what I can study for being direct during the day ?

I would love to get some feedback from your readers if possible !

Clifford's Comments:

The approach is pretty funny and it was working. A few more similar attempts and you may get this down to a system which will work for you much of the time.

The thing is, there are three eventualities that I would point out: either 1) you will get this kind of approach down, have great success with it, and then using it all the time will just be fun and very natural for you or, 2) you will find this is the exception rather than the rule, and there's a certain amount of pumping yourself up that needs to take place for you to be in this zone to do this. In other words, this won't be a natural, easy thing to do, but something you will have to get psyched for and it will be an effort.

The third eventuality is to take a different approach ... something that's not going to require a lot of stress from you to pull off and one that you can use in pretty much any circumstance without wondering, “Will this also work in the day ?” But it really depends, in my opinion, on how much success you have with this approach, because if it works really well for you it can become your method and you can be really comfortable with it. If not, like I said, it is a stressful undertaking and that's the thing that I am a bit hesitant about.

The alternative is to do something a little less high energy ... either an indirect opener and lead into a conversation, an opinion opener, or even a direct opener that isn't as demanding from you.

You can do what you did anywhere. These hot women are approached many times a day and are totally used to it. Where it happens really means very little. She's wherever she is looking hot, so she's expecting a reaction.

As for doing this in a group, it's a ballsy move and you really have to be sharp, because the odds are that someone in the group will be cockblocking, and you can expect some challenges if you come in like this with all guns blazing.

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scaramouche's picture
Sun, 11/15/2009 - 17:34

in my opinion

the conversation posted above between "him" and "her" was flawed from the outset. the guy going too far cocky/funny, in a situation where he couldn't do her anyway. instead, he should have leaned back a little, keep a rather mysterious than in-your-face demeanor, get her contact info and get going. or, if she was going to stick around, find other things to talk about and leave the dirty talk for later. otherwise, you just sound desperate. finally she rejected him, not because he asked for her name or facebook details, but because he admitted to her face he was a creepy loser, and all he wanted was to put a name on her face in his fucking mind so he can jack off back home :)) now that's really stupid. basically you shot yourself in the foot. really, she was confused and for good reasons: are you just another bloody wanker, or a guy who really wants to have a great woman in his life? i'm still not sure