I Just Cut Her Off And Tell Her I'm Amazing

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Arrived at the bar, but state was too low to do any approaches while waiting for my wing to show. I'm gonna get into the habit of leaving my house in the morning and talking to the first person I see. Get talkative early. Every place I go, open the first set on the right.

My wing shows up and makes a comment about how I have a better energy than the last time he saw me. At first I'm thinking I actually feel the opposite, but manage to go with his frame and bump my state instantly. We meet his friends and I feel social, and introduce myself to everyone and just shoot the shit and they get me some beers.

Eventually a girl opens us asking for advice on sending her boyfriend a dirty text. I tell her what to write, and then get her to tell me about the guy. She says they met at a hockey game and they just bumped into each other and made out. I lead this into telling her how I met one of my lovers at a hockey game, where she told me about this crazy sexual fantasy she had about getting fucked anonymously in the cheering crowd. I describe this in great detail (almost word for word from My Secret Garden, which I read the night before), throwing in tons of NLP.

We have a 30-40 minute conversation about sex with tons of NLP until she squirms in her chair and either has an orgasm or is at the point where she can't hold it any more, and she tells me she's there. I tell her I would love to give her an orgasm but I have no expectation and such. She says that she can't do this tonight but “Please take my number.” I do, and tell her about my lifestyle and rules. Basic strategy was to get her horny while talking about sex in the context of how she met her boyfriend and how it relates to what I have done with my lover. Worked well. I have fucked every girl on whom I have run this style of game.

Second approach was a throw away on two chicks on a bench. I need to fix wording and just sit down beside them to hook it next time.

Third approach, we are in a new bar and my wing tells me to approach this blond girl at the bar who is locked in with two guys and another girl. Once one of the guys moves away, I go in.

I get some logistics and we fluff briefly about where she is from. I tell her, “I'm glad I came out tonight, and I'm glad you're here, and I'm so glad we found each other.”

I ask if she is single, she is, and then I tell her I'm gonna take her number and give her a call the next day. “I'm gonna take you out. I'll take you out and buy you a coffee, and if you like me you can buy me one too.” She's down. I ask her if she knows anything interesting to do around town and she can't think of anything, so I assign it to her as “homework” to think of something fun we can do together the next day.

While we exchange numbers, I introduce myself to the dude sitting across from her, who stutters his name. Then I briefly flirt with the other girl and say, “You're cool with me taking your friend out right ...?” She tries to test me, but I just cut her off and tell her I'm amazing and that it's cool. (She approves, but next time I want to say “I'm one of the good guys,” instead of “I'm amazing,” haha.) I've got to get home so I bounce.

Overall, this was a solid direct approach. Not much I would change. From the moment I open my mouth on the opener, my game is solid. Only thing is, I don't think I would have approached if my wing hadn't told me to. I've got to take care of that and be more proactive and independent.

I walked to the subway. I didn't want to go home. I was just hitting state. As I walked down the stairs to the subway I thought to myself “If I turn around right now I will probably get laid.” But I didn't have enough for a cab, so I convinced myself to go home. Next time I will turn around. Do or die. Go home with a girl or sleep on the street.

Fun night.

Best lesson: when I'm sitting at home thinking about going out but feeling lazy:

Jump in the shower, put on some clothes, and walk out the door … it's gonna be a good night !

Approaches: 3
Numbers: 2
Satisfying Man Hugs: 1
Lays: 0