Attraction Is Irrelevant
Many guys have all the stuff you see if you were watching a PUA
on the street or in a club but were missing the little bits that are shared only in private.
Cocky funny creates attraction by pushing the girl away, thereby increasing your value relative to her.
For sexualizing, you completely ignore your value and hers, and simply assume sexual rapport.
That means treat her like a lover from the first word ... or better yet, first eye contact.
Sexualizing is all about relaxing. Make your voice soft, your eyes soft. Caress her gently, run your finger softly up her arm and through her hair, all the while gazing into her eyes and smiling. Make her feel sexy. Give her 100% of your attention. Get turned on by her. Focus on what makes her a woman, what makes her feminine. Appreciate it and share it with her. By making her feel like a woman, you automatically assume the most manly traits in her mind. Nature takes care of the rest.
Verbally, you can use misinterpretation and innuendo or dirty talk to sexualize the conversation, but this is far less important than how you communicate physically and mentally with her.
Relaxed, slow, gentle, sexy ... everything is in a slow rhythm. Everything else melts away and it's just you two in a bubble of love and pleasure.
Attraction is irrelevant. DHV is irrelevant. You are selling pleasure and sex, not yourself. An escape from the tediousness of her boring fucking existence. Her lame job, her lame friends, and her lame boyfriend don't count when you two are together in your world of adventure and acceptance.
Triangular gazing. Constant physical contact. You can fuck a girl by just holding her hand. Be non-judgmental. This is not the time to bust her balls.
Once you've got how to be relaxed and gentle down, you can add the dominant the causal “Let's fuck, it's no big deal” attitude.
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Interesting idea... so you
Interesting idea... so you basically just take a sexual attitude and forget about PUA
because "when it's on it's on?"
I find that statement dubious
I find that statement dubious "Attraction is irrelevant. DHVLook up this term is irrelevant. You are selling pleasure and sex, not yourself. "
So you have sex and pleasure with people you aren't attracted to?
I think he means "attraction"
I think he means "attraction" more in the social sense here of attracting her with social proof, showing her your cool lifestyle, etc., and making her want a piece of that action. Obviously sexual attraction is still important, but his point is you can sometimes generate that without the dog and pony show.
She might not want to date you, but she'll still do you :)