Now She's Taking The Escape Route

I consider myself to be very good at developing interest during chat. The element I like about it is the detachment from the moment. I could be talking to a girl about the most sexual or sensual stuff, meanwhile I'm scratching my nuts and playing Nintendo DS. The non-seriousness of what I'm actually doing makes it easier to make statements online that are very powerful ! But in my head, I'm just typing on a screen. We detach ourselves from the fact that there's actually a hot girl getting the message.

I used to do MSN counselling, which means my students would be on MSN with a girl and on the phone with me !

The following is one of my several chat techniques I've been using for years ! It is so good ! Basically it allows you to know immediately the level of a girl's interest in you. With this one technique, you will know exactly what she wants, and how far she is willing to go with you. Try it ! Trust me !

So what you do is make 3 related statements that steadily decrease in intensity, all of which are open ended ... the one she chooses to answer tells you everything (regardless of the answer itself.) It's important to note that these are 3 different statements ... not all in one message ... you type one ... then the other ... then the third ... and send all three separately. Let me pull an example from a chat I had in which I applied this !

So what's happening here ? I'm making one strong statement, then generalizing, then giving her an option to change the subject. The statement she chooses to answer tells you everything. If she answers the first one ... your game is on! If she answers the second one ... she's somewhat interested, but she's hoping you're going to give her a more concrete sign that you are as well. And the third one means you still need work.

The answer I got was, “Yeah I totally felt something there the instant we met ...” She answered statement one when she could have changed the subject ... I know she's totally into me !

She could have just as easily said, “Yeah I know ! It's great when people just connect instantly.” Statement two: mild interest.

Or ...

“My studying's going ok ... I hate school lol.” Now she's taking the escape route ... but you didn't fuck up. You just know now.

This is based on the idea that people on chats choose to stick to topics they like, and it's almost ok to not answer certain things. In person, this would be hard.

Also, you may be asking yourself what happens if she addresses number 1, but in a negative way. E.g.: “What ? ! ? I wasn't sending you vibes ! Lol.” Guess what ? She's still interested. I know that if I really didn't like a girl, I wouldn't care what the fuck she thinks ... she could say what she wants. I would totally try to avoid that topic. I wouldn't want to get into it.

So trust me ... you give 3 statements:

1) Intense, shows that you saw a sign that indicates she's into you (or you might be into her).
2) Generalize that statement.
3) Offer an escape route.

Forget the answer. It's irrelevant. The question she chooses to address gives you everything you need to know. She's thinking either:

1) Let's take this to the next level.
2) Hmm, interesting, let's see where this can go, or,
3) Abort, abort !

A few more examples:

-You shouldn't say that. I think you're so attractive. Any guy would be lucky to have you.
- I really do like people who have nice personalities, it changes everything.
- So, how was your weekend ?

Any acceptance of a compliment can be neglected. For example, “Aww thanks, my weekend was great,” is no good, but "Wow thanks, you're not so bad yourself" is great !

- I totally think I'm your type.
- I really do think that some people just get along better based on who they are.
- So how's (insert name of best friend) ?

- I think it's cute how you texted me the other day, it really shows me how much you care.
- I really like it when people do little things like that just because...
- So what's up with you Facebook status ?

Again, here the answer can vary from
1) I do care, you're such a nice guy.
2) I like little gestures, too, or,
3) Oh, it's the lyrics of a song I like

All possible, but all very, very different !

Try it !