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- Doc, a featured speaker at both the 2005 & 2006 Cliff's List Conventions, is holding seminars April 20-22 in New York, May 11-13 in Montreal and May 18-20 in San Francisco. For more info go to his new site at www.TrueLifeSkills.com.
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community and turned pure natural. Covered by The New York Times and ABC Television, his methods of meeting in the day time are so effective simply because they are so easy to use everyday. www.ParkBenchDating.com
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- Jordan has a new podcast out about pickup. The content is, and will continue to be, 100% free and doesn't push any particular method or
commercial product/workshop, etc. The website is www.pickuppodcast.com
- LayGuide was the original inspiration for Neil Strauss to write "The Game" and is still the most thorough and continually updated collection of the best dating, attraction and seduction tips in the world: www.layguide.com/
- In The Game by Neil Strauss, "TwoTimer" is talked about as one of the top players. His more commonly known handle is IN10SE, and his "Octoberman Sequence" has been whispered about and become a LEGEND in the on-line Pickup artist community. It's rumored to give a woman ULTIMATE pleasure and you ULTIMATE control - in as little as 15 minutes! Only the BEST of the BEST know it. Check it out here: www.octoberman.com/
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Dwacon's PUA Shoppe (www.cafepress.com/dwacon/1235281):
Have been in shock over the killings at Virginia Tech. From what I have come to understand, the murderer was basically an AFC who couldn't manage with women and went nuts -- murdering a lot of innocent people before committing suicide.
SAD! So sad!!!!
Maybe if the poor kid had learned about Mystery Method or Ross Jeffries or Dave DeAngelo none of this would have happened.
Seriously.
The topic came up today with a customer. He is a 72 year old Asian guy who admits he never married or had a woman in his life because he was always too shy. Sad, really.
We went out for for sushi and I was thrilled to see every woman in the restaurant was at least an EIGHT. I started off running game on the cute Latina HB9 waitress... which had her ignoring other customers to keep our drinks and our supply of wasabi and ginger topped off as I bombarded her with weasel words, trance phrases, and kino. I noticed that she couldn't help but "accidentally" rubbing her breasts against my shoulder while refilling the water. One busboy also seemed to notice and started hovering over my shoulder. I figured he was either her BF or brother... either way... :-o
While dining, another server, a young Asian HB8.5, started giving me tons of IOIs... even though I wasn't in her section. She spent a LONG time wiping down an empty table directly across from me... leaning over just the right way for her top to fall open and her B-plusses to dangle in front of me, jiggling rhythmically as she wiped and wiped and wiped. Funny thing, the table was already clean!
Towards the end of our lunch, a blonde HB9 sat down next to us and it was apparent she was alone. I opened her and the convo flowed nicely. She pulled out her cell phone (same model as mine) but didn't make or answer a call. She just put it on the table and glanced over at me.
I thought to myself, "This is too easy..."
Things were cut short when my customer got tired of blushing five shades of red every time a woman showed me attention -- he suggested that we leave and return to his office. I considered closing the blonde but with the Latina hovering nearby, I decided against it... figuring I could have more fun with her on my next visit. Hindsight being 20/20, I should have just gone for it... and the blonde seemed disappointed we were leaving.
That's one old habit I still haven't broken -- failure to close even when the opportunity is wide open. Part of my "down time" has been dealing with the underlying reason for that behavior... a work in progress.
Anyway, back at my customer's office, he was commiserating over the Korean kid who shot all of those people because of his social issues... and in a way he identified with the guy. Considering that this guy is over 70 and strong as an Ox, maybe keeping all those juices bottled up might be a good thing.
Nah...
I just couldn't stop thinking that it is SO EASY to just open a woman and engage her without being creepy or skeeving her out... but I guess not everyone has received the "good news."
I guess that has me looking at "our thing" a bit differently... it can save lives.
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Milachku: Lay Report Hey guys, the way this lay occured was thru something I only recently became aware about. It was thru a concept known as slow track. I believe BradP (he’s the man!) was the first to post something about this concept on the advanced board of mASF. Here's the link if you'd like to read it:
www.fastseduction.com/discussion/fs?action=9&boardid=2&read=62739&fid=23
Here are some of the basic points about it:
-the point of pick up is to lay more women and in a shorter amount of time than typically required
-women are trained by society to sabotage any attempt that could lead to fast sex
-after getting her number, you only talk to her occasionally possibly hinting and then flaking at plans
-when you do see her it's actually less than once a week
-a month can go by and you have only seen the girl maybe twice and talked to her a hand full of times because plans get broken (and you don’t make a big deal out of it)
-when you do isolate her finally, her perception of the time you have spent together will be distorted into thinking that you have known each other for a long time. In my case I knew this girl for a month but only isolated her twice
-it’s only to be done OCCASIONALLY. You should be busy in your life sarging and having other women thus making you congruent with this method. This is why this method is recommended for intermediate level guys. Advanced guys are probably doing this already given the nature that they probably have MLTR already and will flake on new women.
With that said here is the report.
The night started with me and my buddy m_style going to a house party. There was this little cute (but nothing that special) Columbian girl that's into me that wanted me to come. I use her as a pivot and such. Although I didn’t feel like closing anyone there, the party still got me in a high energy state which served me well for later in the night.
We leave the party and head for Upper Club on St-Laurent (in Montreal). Now my energy is high. Don’t underestimate the power of being high energy. So I’m just doing my thing when I noticed a blonde girl checking me out. I just keep doing my thing when I accidentally bump into a guy and he drops his drink. Turns out that blonde chick knows him and asked what happened. It was her excuse to come talk to me. I apologized and bought the man another drink.
I started chatting up the girl a bit, but it was loud so I just started dancing with her. My energy was high so I started singing some of the songs in her ear. They love that shit. Now here's the deal about her. She had a bit of a big butt, her hair wasn’t done up and her clothes weren’t too flattering. But I go to my buddy m_style and tell him "if this girl lost a few pounds, did up her hair and wore some nice clothes... she'd be hot!" So let’s call her HBfixerupper.
I’m dancing with her again and lean in close like I'm gonna kiss her. She tells me to slow down and that she is not going home with me. I take a line straight out of Toecutter's arsenal by telling her, "Look at you... thinking about sex... you slow down! I’m not that easy!" She asks me, "Oh you're gonna tell me this?" I’m like, "Ya... I’m not sure if I wanna sleep with you yet because I don’t even know you..." She was surprised by this... oh yes... she was surprised. The rest of the night was alright and I got her number. Who would have thought you can pick up chicks in a club??? ; )
We text back and forth, chat on MSN, then about a week later I agree to see her at work (she works as a waitress while in school). I bring a friend and visit her at work. It was busy so she didn’t have much time to talk although I could see she did make the effort. I talk to her about doing something after work... but nothing definitive. (See what I said above about slow track.) So I will call her or she can call me I said.
Later that night I’m on a day 2 with some other chick I met on the internet (btw a lot of these hot chicks I meet off the internet have real issues…). HBfixerupper calls and asks what’s up. I tell her that I’m really tired and that we can do something another time. She echos this that she is also tired (rrrright...).
A few days later I ask her if she wants to go out to dinner. She comes to my place but as soon as she arrives I tell her that we're gotta leave and so I don’t give her a tour of my place. This was to peak her interest for when we return.
So I take her for supper at a restaurant. That’s right, I took her to dinner at a restaurant and took care of the bill. I let her take care of the tip. I went thru my routines, my value elicitation and my qualifying that I typically do followed by an SOI(Juggler style) to her. She actually did say some things that showed me that she is a very enlightened individual.
I bring her back to my place and give her the tour as well as showing her videos on my computer. She also demonstrates some of her judo moves that she learned some years ago (I do Brazilian Jiu Jitsu) and before you know it, we are on the floor making out. I bring her to my bed to make out some more. This is when she stops me and tells me that she better go home. It really seemed like she made up her mind so I tell her ok.
Next day I send her a text message. No reply.
I talk to my dad (who is a natural, by the way) and he tells me that I shouldn’t waste my time with her. I got 2 other women already as part of my MLTR so a woman like this will waste my time. If she is interested, she will contact me and when she does offer her to come over.
Some days go by and I get a message from her saying hi. I respond asking if she wanted to come over.
No reply.
So more days go by... might have been like 10 days since I last saw her. I get another message saying hi. I ask her how she's doing. She responds that she is ok. I don’t respond after that. About 5 minutes go by.... and then she calls. She cracked. She saw me as higher value and that I was NOT gonna chase. We have a nice convo and leave it at that not really making any plans.
The next day I chat with her on MSN. I ask her if she'd like to come for dinner on Thursday (also happens to be the weekend of her birthday). She asks me if I’m gonna cook her dinner. I tell her that I am making dinner for myself and that she can have whatever is left over. She laughs and agrees.
Thursday comes... it’s been 2 weeks since I last saw her, I have only talked with her on the phone once since and it's already been a month since I first met her. This is what slow track is about... Now I figured maybe she is a conservative girl and will require a lot of gaming when she comes over. So I plan out this elaborate scheme that involved sexual value elicitation, repeating trance words along with self anchoring followed by carefully planned and structured LMR tactics....
Well she comes over... and I notice something... she's lost weight! Turns out she has been exercising the last 3 weeks. She's also more tanned! Her hair is fixed up! Her boobs (which I didn’t realize she had) were popping out of her little halter top. Holy crap! A girl whom I would have originally rated as a 6 or 7, now comes into my place as a legit 8 or 9! And I don’t give out such high scores as easily as some of my other friends do... Man had I seen her like this the first night we met I would have been intimidated to even start talking to her! HBfixerupper indeed!
Well that’s not even the icing on the cake... we get to my couch and start making out. She tells me it’s her birthday this weekend and she wants to go wild. I tell her that I give her permission and that I will take good care of her (thus taking responsibility for whatever happens). She liked that response so much she turns around and shoves her boobs in my face. I figure, well she is probably gonna tell me to stop pretty soon... I’m kissing her chest some more... well she is probably gonna tell me to stop any second now... I’m sucking on her boobs... she is probably gonna tell me to stop in T minus 5... 4... 3... um... she is not stopping me... and now she's taking off her top! Holy crap! This hot girl is seducing me! This wasn’t in the plan! And all my game I prepared... out the window! I actually felt like I was losing control over the situation being in such disbelief.... such disbelief that I had performance anxiety!
Now Mystery does say that if you build enough comfort with a woman after proper DHVing and qualifying she will seduce you... but I forgot about that and was trying hard to get control over the emotions I was feeling. I did the deed with her but it still felt like it could have been better.... and now I see the power in slow track. It made her feel like we have known each other for a long time (in her mind, for a month and not one night) despite only being alone together only once before and communicating a handful of times thru text messaging and MSN.
Quite the report... and now that I’m possibly adding a 3rd girl to my MLTR, I’m realizing that there aren’t enough hours in the day and days in the week....
p.s. some would think that since she is looking hotter now she might get a little full of herself. The reality both me and Marvi (of the Montreal Lair) agreed on is that she will end up attributing her looking better as a result of having me in her life. This works very well in my favor.
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Carlos Xuma Dating Advice Coach for Men (www.seductionmethod.com/):
I was genuinely intrigued when I opened Frank B. Kermit's book "From Loser to Seducer." You see, this was a take I hadn't seen in the PUA materials thus far - a blow-by-blow (no pun intended) recounting of a change in mindset. As an advisor in this field, I find myself almost distancing myself from the awkward memories of what I once was to what I am now with women. Frank's courageous take on this gives an enlightening and original approach to understanding the trans-formative mindset. I especially like the way he marked time with a powerful metaphor of starting his age from the day he was 'reborn' into a new mindset and manner with women, choosing to reset the
counter to zero and begin again. Frank succeeds in giving a very personal and intense recounting of his life experience and psychological state during perhaps the most painful parts of a man's life - at the moment of breaking away from the boy-man we can no longer be, and taking the leap of faith that I teach to men - to move on to the next level of life - to a powerful man's Alpha Manhood. Frank mixes in his "Frank" wisdom and insights along the path and gives the reader a genuine understanding of the pain ... and the pleasure of self-actualization.
To get your copy, visit www.franktalks.com
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Diabolik (diabolikseduction.blogspot.com/):
Review of Savoy's Book | Magic Bullets
I wanted to take a minute and give you the lowdown on magic bullets. I figure if you're looking at this, then you must have already considered getting Savoy's book, so I want to make sure you don't make a mistake. Here's the rundown...
Until recently, the Venusian Arts Handbook was the "Gold Standard" in pickup and seduction manuals, and since that's been retired, Magic Bullets has been propped in its place.
Does it needlessly replace the VAH?
At first, I thought it would just be the same book with slightly different wording and packaging...maybe some prettier pictures and such, etc...
I was completely wrong! And here's why...
This book has COMPLETELY REINVENTED that book and GONE THE EXTRA MILE. The book isn't as overly scientific in its explanation, (though the underlying psychological power is still there) and easier to understand for the beginning student of seduction methods. BUT...
It simplifies the hardest to grasp concepts from the Venusian Arts Handbook. After you've gotten your copy, I think you'll agree that you won't have to struggle with complicated seduction theories anymore.
Another great thing about this book, you'll find, is it's MORE LINEAR & STRUCTURED as a whole. YOU can go from A to B to C and chart your progress while you measure your success in a step by step way. Magic Bullets also has a quick start section for the newer student making it easier to get started today. Now comes the BAD part...
Actually, it's the WORST part. Can you guess what it is? No?
It's THIS RIDICULOUS SALESPAGE! It doesn't do the book justice...at all. I mean...
www.themysterymethod.com/magicbullets.html?kbid=2783 (Exhibit A)
The only thing I like about it is the section where he lists what you'll learn, chapter by chapter.
In closing out, I'd like to say that this is probably the best eBook online at the moment. If you're just starting out, this will be the book to learn "the game" from start to finish. If you're an old pro, this is a handy reference manual to help you refine the game you already have.
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(Lairs are gatherings of PUA's of differing levels and talents that meet in different cities to discuss their experiences and to work together to improve their success with women). More Lair Listings can be found at dutchseduction.blogspot.com/ and at www.bristollair.com, as well as at www.seductionlair.com:
A YAHOO GROUP FOR THOSE RUNNING LAIRS:
If and ONLY if you are running a lair there is now a Yahoo Group for organization ideas for PUA groups. As each lair is different, this group lets us know what other lairs are doing. No seduction related topics are discussed, just organization ideas. To join please email RunningaPUAgroup-subscribe@yahoogroups.com and then email Nightlife at nightlife858@yahoo.com with an intro of who you are and what Lair you are running. You can also go to: groups.yahoo.com/group/RunningaPUAgroup/
LAIR GROUP
If you run a lair or are considering starting one, join this group to exchange ideas with the rest of the community and keep informed of community activities. www.LairList.com Contact: LairList@LairList.com
Lair List is an official directory of lairs worldwide. The Lair List Foundation is an international nonprofit cooperation of lair owners. LairList.com is completely nonprofit. LairList.com is 100% non-commercial. If you run a lair or are considering starting one, register your lair here lairlist.com/index.php?option=com_comprofiler&task=registers. Join this group (lounge.lairlist.com/) to exchange ideas with the international lair community. Get the latest seduction news from around the world (www.lairlist.com/).
HIGHLIGHTS FROM THE MONTREAL LAIR:
- Lair meetings are scheduled currently once a month on Sundays. For more info on joining the Lair (local only, sorry), email me. Out of town bros are welcome to drop in to meetings. The Lair now has a magnificent new online discussion forum that was put together by Loveur.
The Lair meetings are very insightful gatherings of guys interested in learning, improving, and helping others to become more successful in their relationships with women. If you are already in a relationship, and you continue to read these emails, you should realize that there is information here to improve and enhance your existing relationship - not only to create new ones.
Here is a list of other Lairs around the world (if you know of any others, please let me know):
MONTREAL JUNIOR LAIR FOUNDED!
Montreal Junior Lair: The Montreal X-Lair has been founded to help minors (who are not permitted to join the Montreal Lair until they are 18) get together and communicate. Lair applications would be sent to MontrealXLair@hotmail.com.
NEW FRENCH MONTREAL LAIR FORMED
Good news! Montreal has now a FRENCH Lair! Oui! Ever wanted to be part of a lair without having to learn another language?
- A lair which would offer you support
- A lair which would allow you to find new wingman
- A lair where you would be able to learn
- A lair where you would be able to share
- A lair which would offer occassions to sarge
- A lair where you would be able to conquer your fear
- A lair which would allow you to become a better PUA 100 times faster
And all that in FRENCH! Now is your chance! We've just opened our forum located at www.seduire.ca , registration are free. You can also apply to become a Montreal VIP which will offer you the possibility to be part of the best French PUA Team in Montreal. We also have a section dedicated to people of Quebec City cause we love you :) Note that the sooner you become part of our family, the sooner you'll be the person you want to become.
Many of our members are experts in specifics techniques such as Mystery Method, Juggler Method, direct/indirect techniques and know about their stuff. They are the people you want to hang with. As David DeAn gelo too often said: "You want to befriend those people who've got the talent you want to have so you can learnwith them and from them." The forum is located at www.seduire.ca. We hope to see you there soon!
NEW LAIR IN TORONTO
Frank B Kermit's Toronto Seduction Lair
No Minors! No Hazing Rituals! No Membership Fees! No Referral Link 'Click Fees'! No Forced Paid Workshops to gain access! No Organized Pirating of Copyright Materials! No illegal activates nor criminal associations whatsoever! Fully MODERATED to encourage a 100% RESPECTFUL learning environment!
An Advanced Section for Gurus and Top Guys who have mastered basic game! Separate sections for Commercial announcements and seduction Discussions!
Seduction Gurus are WELCOMED directly into the Advanced Section! An Active Free Newbie System designed to bring up skill levels FASTER!
Men's Only Group (confidentiality and privacy assured)! A Seduction FOCUSED group, no distractions! www.torontolair.ca/
THE TORONTO LAIR
The Toronto Lair is called TSN or Toronto Social.net. Anyone who gets to the homepage at www.TorontoSocial.net./ can email the webmaster to get information. If that's not an option, they can call Ike at: 416-628-9973 or his cell at: 416-300-6500.
Vancouver Social Board
A tight and good group of guys from various backgrounds who want to learn how to become better with women. We have two rules 1) this is not a competition, we are here to help each other and 2) you must be willing to try. We go out very regularly and have some skilled guys.
Visit Yahoo Group: groups.yahoo.com/group/vancouversocialboard/ Contact: Docandwriter (docandwriter@shaw.ca)
Victoria Social society
This is an open group for all you Victorian men (Victoria, British Columbia, Canada)who wish the study and pursue the art of seduction.
Visit Yahoo Group:http://groups.yahoo.com/group/victoriasocialsociety/
Contact: Docandwriter (docandwriter@shaw.ca)
Calgary Social Group
This is the Calgary PUA Lair for men (young and old) who want to get together to discuss PU and go sarging in Calgary. This group is meant to enrich the lives of men and, I believe ,women indirectly. Everyone can learn and it's only the lack of support and positive influence that cause people to stop trying. Here we can all grow as men and learn the skills we need to accomplish our goals.
Visit Yahoo Group: groups.yahoo.com/group/calgarysocialgroup/
Contact: Elantraman (elantraman2002@yahoo.com) or Docandwriter (docandwriter@shaw.ca)
NEW BRIGHTON LAIR
Darklight wrote to announce the new Lair which has just been set up in sunny Brighton on the south coast of England. They are a small group of PUAs hitting up the bars, clubs, street and beaches of Brighton. People are welcome to join, all styles and skill levels -- so long as they are active in field. Contact them at uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/brightonpickup/ or at brightonpickup@googlemail.com
IRISH LAIR
The Irish Lair has 211 members and was started December, 2005. Its Lair Leader is Stealth and their website is: www.irishseduction.com/forum or you can contact: stealth.waves@gmail.com or xrockridgex@gmail.com
NEW LAIR FORMING IN MILWAUKEE:
I am going to be starting a new lair consisting of only the Milwaukee and surrounding areas naturals. I feel like with this caliber of a Lair only success is an option. This is going to be a bunch of guys meeting up sporatically for sarging and for schedualed meetings. If you feel you qualify and can positively impact our group, email me at allimalgam@aol.com
AUSTRIAN PLAYERS
Home of the legendary EuroSummit 2005, most diverse members from total beginners to serial layers from Austria, Germany and Switzerland. Join us! (If you happen to ravel by, drop us a line!) Visit: www.austrianplayers.com Contact: Neodes@austrianplayers.com
Also, a new board has been started named AUSTRIAN SEDUCTON COMMUNITY (ASC) and the Lair URL for that is www.austrianseduction.com. Ben and Rey can be reached at info@6system.info. Described as the next generation of PU-Communities! ASC supports you with: - public/private photo albums; Event calender & Lair meeting System; PU-Lexicon; Video Blog; personal Notes System; & the best german-speaking PUAs including 2 females!
NEW LAIR FORMING IN AMSTERDAM/HOLLAND:
The lair can be found at groups.yahoo.com/group/Amsterdam_Dating/
NEW LAIR FORMING IN PORTLAND, MAINE
I'm starting a lair in Portland, Maine so we can truly be "the way life should be"!
Starting with a dozen AFCs & PUAs and looking to grow and share our skills.
Send email to magickman@maine.rr.com if you wish to join.
NEW LAIR FORMING IN MISSISSIPPI/ALABAMA
I'm starting up a lair in MS/AL for anyone in driving distance to the Birmingham area. Contact blake1_19@yahoo.com for anyone interested in joining.
SALT LAKE CITY AND SURROUNDING AREAS
AFCs to PUAs. Meet and share seduction tips. We meet once a week and help push members to become the man they desire! Contact UtahX at utahrafc@gmail.com
NEW LAIR FORMING IN NORFOLK-VIRGINIA BEACH, VIRGINIA
I'm interested in starting a Seduction Lair in the Norfolk-Virginia Beach area. If anyone is interested, please email me. Thanks,
Stingray9001 stingray9001@yahoo.com
NEW LAIR FORMED IN DENVER
Denver Lair is a community for Denver/Boulder/Colorado area PUAs to wing, talk about the game and make friends in the community. If you're in the Colorado, join our yahoo-group: groups.yahoo.com/group/denver_puas/
NEW LAIR FORMING IN RICHMOND, VIRGINIA
Hi, I'm starting a lair in Richmond, Virginia, the state capitol with a rather big scene. Currently all gamers in Richmond are forced to go up to DC, or down to North Carolina if they wish to attend a lair meeting. I would like to keep that experience at home, as we have many beautiful women in this wonderful city. Send an email to miikey723@yahoo.com if you wish to join.
EUROPE LAIR FOUNDED
Red Priest has founded the Europe Lair. You can find the description here:
http//groups.yahoo.com/group/europelair/
ISRAEL LAIR:
For the Israel Lair, Tironut 69, go to www.tironut69.com
DUNEDIN, NEW ZEALAND LAIR FORMING
For all you Otago students (or campus orbiters) who think you got game! This will be the southernmost lair in the world. Run by an RAFC with a fair bit of bookwork and small experience- any skill level you want, just prepared to approach, talk and try out new stuff. Email me at beest.goes.roar@gmail.com, and will see if we can't get a local lair started. it's time to bring the game to the deep south!
WELLINGTON, NEW ZEALAND LAIR
An active lair is up and running in Wellington, NZ. Primary focus is going out and working in the field. All skill levels are welcome. Anybody who wants to join constructive, like-minded people in persuing the PUA lifestyle. We have a forum, and a bunch of friendly people who can wing with you to get you off of the ground; email Matt via moxyfmac@gmail.com
TAMPA BAY AND ST. PETE, FLORIDA:
We started a new Lair in the Tampa Bay area. All styles welcome. e-mail us at paradigmaman@yahoo.com
NEW LAIR FORMING IN GENEVA
We want to create a Lair in Geneva, Switzerland. It would be open to French and English speaking people living in Geneva and neighbouring cities like Lausanne and France as well willing to meet and seduce women. All skill levels and ages are accepted. The main task of the Lair will be field experiences on a regular basis. Contact Julien at : Julien72@bluewin.ch
NEW GROUP FOR CHICAGO
Chicago Wingman Meetup Group which currently holds meetings on the first Saturday of every month at 3:00 pm, the place will be disclosed to members once they sign up for the group. The website address is wingman.meetup.com/18/ - this group is combining with the Chicago Lair, whose contact was Eric at theprogen2003@yahoo.com Since they've just starting to hold meetings, they have a flexible format but as they get more organized they plan to have guest speakers. Anyone who knows a local PUA (not self proclaimed) is encouraged to invite him/ her over to share ideas. Please post all org issues under www.fastseduction.com/cities/Chicago
NEW LAIR FOR EDMONTON
Edmonton Men's Social Improvement Club, a Registered Non-Profit Organization can be reached at: www.socialimprovementclub.org or by email: applicants@socialimprovementclub.org
SAN RAFAEL, CALIFORNIA
The Seduction Lair is up and running in San Rafael, California. Contact activte@aol.com for more information.
PARIS PICK UP CLUB
Formed by a group of FRIENDLY motivated guys from all nationalities with some solid game. The Paris Pick Up Club (PPC) is where all the PUA's and RAFC's BROTHERS living in Paris can share experiences, wing with different people and practice techniques. The goal is to IMPROVE our GAME while having lots of FUN. Since the purpose of the PPC is to practice, in order to join, future members must be available to sarge regularly. Contact alfaztec@yahoo.com
BELGIUM: NL Lounge at DutchSeduction.com An independent platform for the phenomenon known as "seduction" in the Dutch language with members in Amsterdam, the Netherlands, Belgium and points beyond. Founded in 1999, we are one of the first international groups dedicated to seduction. Our purpose is to help members meet one another and share information and experience. Write to passie at passie@gmail.com Visit our Website: www.DutchSeduction.com
NETHERLANDS: NL Lounge at DutchSeduction.com An independent platform for the phenomenon known as "seduction" in the Dutch language with members in Amsterdam, the Netherlands, Belgium and points beyond. Founded in 1999, we are one of the first international groups dedicated to seduction. Our purpose is to help members meet one another and share information and experience. Write to passie at passie@gmail.com Visit our Website: www.DutchSeduction.com
NEW LAIR IN NEW ORLEANS
There is a new Lair in New Orleans and here is the info:
groups.yahoo.com/group/NewOrleansPlayers/ - MIKEALW@HOTMAIL.COM.
Description: This group is for guys in the New Orleans area who are studying the Double your Dating material by David DeAngelo. This group is to get and give advice, to share your experiences and results, and to hook up with other guys so you can go out and work on your game together. Anyone in the New Orleans area is welcome from inexperienced to PUA's.
NEW LAIR IN SINGAPORE
The Singapore Lair is a community for guys interested in improving their skills in meeting and attracting/seducing women. This group is mainly for guys who live in or travel to Singapore, although PUAs from other countries are also welcome. Membership is restricted to doers only -- you must be in the field and have real field experience. No armchair theorists allowed. To join this group, email singaporelair-owner@yahoogroups.com with your name, background and experience.
DALLAS LAIR
The Dallas Seduction Lair has been around for over a year now. We have had 18 official events of both discussion and seminar style events. As well as countless nights of sarging with newfound wingmen by our members. We are now over 120 members strong. Anyone at any skill level with a desire to learn is welcome. More information at: wingman.meetup.com/6/ or www.DallasSeductionLair.com
DALLAS PUA
DallasPua.com is formed from the spirit of helping my fellow brothers become better in their sarging skills of women and of life; to develop their individual integrity. The site offers many free features such as a forum (www.dallaspua.com/forum), personal journals/blogs, extensive resource page, and more. It is based out of Dallas, but the tailored PUA features are available to anyone. This is your site! For more info go to www.DallasPua.com
HUNGARIAN LAIR FORMING
Hungarian Lair (Budapest) invites all visiting and local people for a great time of sarging in Budapest clubs and streets. We field test MM, SS, RSD, Maniac Plan and various other stuff. Contact us at redpriest_hu@yahoo.com!"
NEW LAIR FORMING IN ITALY:
Our goal is to have a lot of FUN! Why did we create a Lair? To keep in touch with each other and to rock the Italian scene, we want to live like rockstars since we know we DESERVE IT. We have had enough of all the boring guys and loser boyfriends out there that are making women's lives a nightmare when they are waiting for US, the playboys. Join us and we will share with you a lot of secrets that you need to know to totally transform your life life and get more choice not only in life but with every relationship. In order to learn you must be willing to go out with us and try new stuff asking to yourself: "What is possible? What if I get the results I only dreamed of and then even more than that?" Send an email at italy_lair@yahoo.com to join.
NEW LAIR FORMED IN NORWICH (UK):
The Norwich Lair is a group for pickup artists in Norwich (UK) and the surrounding areas. The lair meets every Saturday night , 10PM in Norwich
City. The group is not a talking shop, if you want to remain in the lair you must participate in fieldwork every 90 days. To join the group, send an email to thenorwichlair-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
OHIO LAIR FORMED:
An Ohio Lair has just been created for ASFers located in Ohio. I'm hoping to have regular sarging meetings at different cities in Ohio and regular guest speakers. Any ASFer in Ohio who is interested in joining please email me an intro of yourself to philonous03@yahoo.com.
VIRGINIA/CAROLINA LAIR GROUP
The VAC (Virginia Carolina) Lair is a community for Virginia and Carolina area PUAs to talk about the game, make friends in the community, and meet up with wings in the area. Current members are located in the Charlotte, Blacksburg/Radford, and Raleigh/Chapel Hill areas. While those from outside this area are encouraged to participate, most events will likely be held within these areas. The VAC Lair is open to all levels from Beginner to PickUp Artist (PUA). Just come with a desire to learn, a willingness to share what you know, and a commitment to field test what you learn. groups.yahoo.com/group/vaclair/
NEW YORK CITY LAIR
New York City Team Strike Force - The oldest lair in the U.S. and the only one that can lay claim to having dedicated instructors of reputation on staff, just for the members. Very organized, very respected and very strong sense of community, as well as life balance. You know you want us. Visit @ www.nyclair.com Please email admin@nyclair.com to request information about membership.
SECOND NEW YORK LAIR STARTED:
With the help of a few friends, Strongbad has started a lair in NYC. Send an email to either strongbadpua@yahoo.com or
NY-PLAY-subscribe@yahoogroups.com to join if you live in the NY area.
BLOOMINGTON LAIR STARTED:
The Bloomington, IN lair for guys interested in attraction/seduction. This is a group made for guys that want to discuss techniques, inner game, make new friends, and meet up with wings in the Bloomington area. If your interested in subscribing email: b-lair-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
AUCKLAND, NEW ZEALAND LAIR
Anyone living in Auckland (New Zealand) are welcome to join this bad ass lair. It's consantly growing, we have guys with all sorts of experience levels with diverse styles of game. We sarge regularly. So if you're up for some fun e-mail us at akpuah@gmail.com
SCOTLAND LAIR:
There is now a Scotland Lair. It's the SSs Group and we have a website at www.scotlandlair.com that we JUST put up. The group is currently yahoo based and we would like to start taking in any members who may or may not have heard about us yet. To join, they can visit SSs.scotlandlair.com which will redirect them to our mailing list, or email signup@scotlandlair.com for more instructions on joining. The website is starting to grow big as it's seen on ASF. We have our own discussion forums. We also have a photo and VIDEO gallery where PUAs can upload their own photos and videos and browse those of others!! We are also giving out free scotlandlair.com email addresses to contributors.
BRAZIL NOW HAS A LAIR
To join please send an email to Brazil_P-L-A-Y-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
NEW LAIR FORMING IN TOKYO:
The Tokyo lair now has a discussion board for discussing the finer points of the Japanese scene, guys looking to meet wings and discuss all things nanpa can email tokyolair@hotmail.com for an invite to the board.
ARIZONA LAIR
Arizona Pick-Up Artist: This lair was started in July 2004 by Cramias and J-Dog. We initially wanted to build a PUA community in Arizona to; improve our skills, have training resources, and especially encourage people in Arizona to actually get involved and wing together. As of Jan'05 we have 33 Arizona memebers and almost 200 members worldwide. Thousands of archived posts and more training resources under way. There is a wing contact list for Verified Arizonan's only, and we have frequent lair meetings and many people now wing together. Visit www.ArizonaPUA.com Contact jdog@arizonapua.com
ANNOUNCING SOUTH FLORIDA P-L-A-Y LIST:
The South Florida P-L-A-Y list is a community for Miami, Ft Lauderdale and Boca-Palm Beach area PUA's to meet up and improve their game in the field.
All methods are welcome. Please understand that our primary focus will be field work. To join, please contact Zuzu atSouthFlorida-P-L-A-Y-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
THE INDIA LAIR
We are a small but dynamic bunch of aspiring PUAs in India. Guys of all skill levels are welcome but MUST be serious about actually getting out in the field. Please register at the site. New registrants will be verified to weed out KJs. Visit www.indialair.com
BRISTOL LAIR
These guys have a truly great site, with a lot of terrific resources. Go to www.bristollair.com.
NEW LAIR FORMING IN DALLAS/FORT WORTH:
If you are interested in joining, please send an e-mail to dfwseductionlair@yahoo.com.
NEW LAIR IN GERMANY!
The name of the group is PU_Meetings_Germany. It´s a field oriented group and we welcome everybody from all over Germany to join and attend our meetings which are held in different cities all over Germany. For further information write to: pimpstylez@hotmail.com
NEW LAIR FORMING IN ORANGE COUNTY, CALIFORNIA:
A new lair called the O.C. Player's Group is forming for members of the seduction community in Orange County, California. The group will be a place for everyone from aspiring to accomplished PUAs in "the OC" to post their pick up experiences and successes and meet occasionally in a constructive and non-critical environment. Everyone is welcome, but you must be serious about becoming a PUA and the emphasis will be on getting out into the field and reporting on what worked and what didn't. Armchair pua/theorists need not apply! Contact pua1day (Kurt) for further information at o.c.playasgroup@sbcglobal.net or to join at:
groups.yahoo.com/group/ocplayasgroup/
NEW LAIR FORMING IN HARRISBURG, PA:
No keyboard Junkies, only people who are willing to go out in the field and just get better at the game. All levels are welcome. Contact Gaurang at
NEW SYDNEY LAIR STARTED!!!
Monthly meetings with guest speakers. All levels welcomed only prerequisite is that you are in the field. To join please email ta_justin@hotmail.com
NEW LAIR FORMING IN OKLAHOMA CITY:
Lu is looking to start a lair in Oklahoma City, OK. He would like to invite anyone who's interested in going out sarging to join, & help him get the lair started, please respond only if you are interested in Going Out & sarge, or Doing Field Work, contact him at ljp97001@yahoo.com.
NEW LAIR FORMING IN PHILADELPHIA
Looking for a group of guys interested in a Lair in the Philly area. All experience levels welcome but must be willing to actually go into the field. See philadelphiaLair@yahoogroups.com or email me at myaroch@yahoo.com
NEW LAIR FORMING IN AUCKLAND, NEW ZEALAND:
We have already met-up with couple of local guys and sarge 2-3 times a week. We are willing to meet-up with more guys to share the PU knowledge and experience to improve our game. Those of you who are interested contact us at sexualpredator@em-wave.com"
KANSAS CITY LAIR FORMING:
Looking to get a group of like minded guys together to share ideas and most importantly work the field in Kansas City MO. Write eclypz@hotmail.com and include "From Cliff's List" in the title.
NEW LAIR FORMED IN CONNECTICUT:
Open to PUAs and RAFCs who live in CT who are interested in or have real field experience as opposed to keyboard theory. Send an email to djsemtp00@aol.com with your background and experience.
CONNECTICUT PLAYER'S LAIR:
CT Player's Lair now opens its membership to any PUA from the skill levels of RAFC to MPUA and lives in the CT, NY, NJ, RI, or Massachusetts area. We have our own private pick up knowledge base that all members may use as a resource to learn from and use in the field with us. Please register at: www.spiritual-seduction.com/phpBB2/index.php. Registration is free until January 20th of Next Year!
NEW LAIR FORMED IN OTTAWA:
Ottawa Lair yahoo group created groups.yahoo.com/group/ottawalair/
NEW LAIR FORMED IN BOSTON:
The Boston Lair is now open. The lair is a forum for brothers in the Boston, Rhode Island, and upper New England area to get together and meet others in the game and to build an active community in Boston and the surrounding areas. To subscribe to the Lair, email b-o-s-lair-subscribe@yahoogroups.com.
NEW LAIR FORMING IN NORTH CAROLINA:
A group is interested in forming a lair in the North Carolina area. Members include attendees of the Charlotte Sargeathon in November 2003. Meetings may rotate through different cities (possibly outside North Carolina) depending on interest. Contact Jason at thee_jacas@yahoo.com with LAIR in the subject line for more information.
NEW LAIR FORMED IN POLAND:
We've formed a LAIR in Poland groups.yahoo.com/group/pflayers/join so if anybody is interested in joining it contact me at PFLayers-owner@yahoogroups.com or subscribe at PFLayers-subscribe@yahoogroups.com. It's unmoderated formum where You can excange your views on the game and meet with wings in your area.
NEW LAIR FORMING IN LAS VEGAS:
Nightlife who runs San Diego is helping a few guys set something up in Vegas so a new group is now forming. To join please send an email LV-P-L-A-Y-subscribe@yahoogroups.com be prepared to give a brief intro.
NEW LAIR FORMING IN ITALY:
Milano will be headquarters. All Italians, Swiss, Austrians, etc are welcome to join. Would like to set up infrastructure for weekly or biweekly weekend sargefests, both day and night. Goals include: hosting seminars/workshops of the world's best PUAs, sharing the best techniques for Italian hotbabes, sarging together, sarging trips to Roma, Firenze, etc. We need to get a solid core of about 10 guys to really get it going. All levels welcome. Email italypua@yahoo.com for info.
ATLANTA LAIR:
Contact: groovewhiz@yahoo.com
NEW LAIR FORMING MILWAUKEE TO MADISON:
A Lair is start for the Milwaukee to Madison, Wisconsin area. Emphasis will be on field sarging and developing a network of like-minded "wings" to develop and maintain a secret society in this area. We will sarge from the college bars of Madison to the redneck fishermen bars of Lake Country to the cheesy working class discos of Milwaukee. All interested parties (male or female) please contact g66@outgun.com
NEW LAIR FORMING IN MONTERREY, MEXICO:
The style I use is C&F from DYD, but am willing to try other styles, and will be very focused in going out and learning. Anyone interested in forming a Lair here in Mexico just write to me: javimartinez50@hotmail.com
NEW LAIR FORMING IN HONOLULU, HAWAII:
Showing those surfergirls a good time since late '03. Drop an e-mail to lair808@hotmail.com for more info on building sandcastles.
NEW LAIR IN CHINA (MAINLAND, TAIWAN, HK):
A list for China based PUA has been set-up. Discuss PU tactics/experiences in China, and meet and practice with other local PUA. Contact Angel Caido on el_angel_caido@lycos.com and join the group @ groups.yahoo.com/group/PUA-china/join
NEW LAIR FORMING IN OSLO:
The Oslo Lair just opened. If you are interested / want to join, go to groups.yahoo.com/group/asf-Oslo/ and apply. We will start out with monthly meetings, on the first Sunday of every month. The first meeting will be held December 7th, at 18h00.
NEW LAIR FORMING IN LOS ANGELES:
The LA List, PLAY (Player's Los Angeles Yahoo) Group, is a community for Los Angeles area PUAs to talk about the game, make friends in the community, and meet up with wings in the LA area. The PLAY List is a community that is open to the public and is a place where you can share your views on any methods in an unmoderated (except for deletion of spam) forum. Contact Papa at papa@realsocialdynamics.com and get on the mailing list by emailing p-l-a-y-subscribe@yahoogroups.com.
WASHINGTON, D.C.:
DC Seduction, formerly known as DC Area PUAs, has been around since 2000. We are over three dozen brothers drawn from the FastSeduction, SS, and the Lounge communities. Contact Minger at minger@dcseduction.com
SEATTLE LAIR FORMING!
I would like to find out how many are interested in forming a Seattle Lair. Contact theloinking1@hotmail.com to get on their mailing list.
THE AUSTIN SOCIETY (AUSTIN, TEXAS)
The Austin Society is a group of friends, within the greater Austin/San Antonio area, improving their attraction and relationship skills through field work and study. If you are interested in joining and contributing to our group, email us at theaustinsociety@yahoogroups.com for more info. Open-minded gentlemen of all skill levels are welcome.
NEW ORLEANS LAIR FORMING:
Joseph is looking to set up or find a "mastermind group" of like-minded people and he is in the south MS area about 1.5 hours drive from New Orleans or the MS gulf coast. He would like to invite anyone in MS/LA/AL within driving distance to participate, and to help him to get it started. Contact him at: veuxdeux@yahoo.com
NYC:
Contact Marco, marcorulesinfinity@yahoo.com and get on their mailing list: NYCTSF-SUBSCRIBE@YAHOOGROUPS.COM
SAN DIEGO (TWO GROUPS NOW!):
1) The San Diego lair is now opening their doors to potential new members for the next 30 days. If interested in joining the San Diego lair please contact Nightlife at nightlife@playboylifestyle.net
2) Pete M., and Nightlife have formed another seduction group in San Diego. This is to benefit guys who are interested in Pick Up who live or frequent San Diego. It is a group that is modeled after the LA P-L-A-Y list. To join send an email to SD-P-L-A-Y-subscribe@yahoogroups.com It is open to everyone in San Diego.
SAN FRANCISCO BAY AREA LAIR:
We have a very active group in the San Francisco area dedicated to improving their game. All skill levels and types of game welcome. We have meetings once every 6 weeks or so, and numerous sarge outings. We also have top PUA's share their knowledge with us when they come to San Francisco. Our list traffic is low but valuable. Lots of field reports and feedback. To join send an email to sf_morpheus_x@yahoo.com, and mention you heard about us on Cliff's list.
DETROIT LAIR:
New lair starting in Detroit area. Guys of all skill levels are welcome but MUST be SERIOUS about learning. The group will be interactive and do field work also.
Any one willing to learn or teach is welcome. Send Greg an email saying your interested at Grgreg_2001@yahoo.com
HOUSTON:
www.houstonlair.com Members of the Lair meet regularly, actively apply and improve their skills and are eager to teach success. Contact: xmlenigma, bashev can be reached at xmlenigma@yahoo.com, rnkayab@hotmail.com
MELBOURNE, AUSTRALIA:
Turning KJs into Active PUA
Members meet twice weekly with approximately 200+ registered members. Currently run mini study groups on Mystery Method, Gunwitch Method, Juggler, SS. We usually meet out in the field and streets so there is plenty of field practice. Our Sarge-Fest is a great learning night for newbies where some of Australias best PUA coach you to improve your game. We also organize other activities such as Salsa dance nights for our members and we encourage our members to contribute back to the community to help it grow. The lair currently runs its own forum so come join this active lair.
Contact iceman at melb.lair.autoreply@gmail.com. See Melb-Lair.com
AUCKLAND, NEW ZEALAND
Philip has started a LAIR for those who live in the upper North Island of New Zealand (Auckland, Hamilton, Tauranga, etc). There are already 4 of them who have been meeting regularly in Auckland, and they welcome others to be in touch. SSer's from elsewhere in New Zealand are also welcome to email to share experiences and form a network. Contact: philip@toeb.co.nz
MIAMI:
Contact Jerry at trudelle@email.com to attend.
LONDON, ENGLAND
The London Seduction Society www.thelss.com
AMSTERDAM:
Contact Big Bear groups.yahoo.com/group/nllounge/
The main purpose of the Lair is to help Wingmen to get in touch with each other and "in field" action! Membership open to anyone who lives in Holland or Belgium, or is a frequent visitor. However membership policy is strict.
PERTH, AUSTRALIA:
The Perth lair is a small group of people who sarge regularly several times a week. At the moment, I'm actively looking for new members to join us on our outings (the more the merrier!). Anyone wishing to go sarging with us any day of the week should email me at tnejad@hotmail.com to meet up.
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Blake Richards has put out a new ebook that looks very interesting. Check it out here: www.social-mastery.com/Game.html
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Real Social Dynamics WORKSHOPS:
I highly recommend that you check these guys out. They are in the final stages of producing their long-awaited e-book.
Real Social Dynamics (www.realsocialdynamics.com/):
Learn what works in seminar, and then jump directly into the field and watch the instructors demonstrate and teach it live. Stop feeling the fear of not knowing what to do ...
Individualized Bootcamps
Sign up and get more info here: www.realsocialdynamics.com/)
Real Social Dynamics has just launched its new website, forum communities, and Foundations DVD/CD set. This is the most comprehensive program they've delivered at a seminar and they were fortunate to have recorded it as well. Visitors can check out the new forum or get the new Foundations home study course at www.realsocialdynamics.com/
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The Venusian Art Society is dedicated to the pursuit of Relationship Mastery.
We have started a Yahoo group in each city our members are located in Denver,Houston, and Atlanta. You can register for membership by going to Yahoo and joining V_A_S_D or V_A_S_A or V_A_S_H. Be sure to include your experience in the Venusian Arts as well as what you hope to get out of them.
This forum will serve as a way to discuss any and all issues related to the Venusian Arts, from cold approach to relationship management. We welcome all active participants in the Venusian arts from any of the various schools such as MM, SS, DYD, etc..
This will be a controlled forum so feel free to post anything you want as long as it is directly relatable to the Venusian Arts. This is not a classified board or a place to advertise.
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Doc is promoting his new DVDs and Spring Summer Workshop Schedule
DVDs: I am just releasing my 3-DVD set The Dating manual for men that
covers everything from Creating a high impact 1st impression (using style to
convey personality and create attraction instantly), Creating the right
Chemistry with a woman (how women think and how to create an unforgettable
experience and lasting attraction), and Overcoming personal roadblocks
(improving confidence, self-esteem and overcoming negative programming).
Workshops: Doc's 3-day transformational workshop puts the emphasis on
BECOMING the man that naturally attracts women, without tricks, gimmicks or
pickup lines. Most men will ruin their chances with women BEFORE they even
leave the house because they are not aware of what they project and how
people see them. Your transformation will start with a complete style
makeover to make a high impact first impression and create instant
attraction. Next, we get you working one on one with our female dating
coaches who help you fine tune your body language and conversational skills,
followed by a group outing with our wing-women who will be by your side to
coach you in real life. Our 3rd day covers everything your need to become a
sensual man and keep her coming back for more: erotic techniques and sexual
mastery.
April 20-22 New York
May 11-13 Montreal
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Register at www.TrueLifeSkills.com
Dates to be announced for Toronto, Seattle, Chicago and other North American
cities soon.
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Mystery Method Workshops:
What method are YOU using?
If you are opening groups (or sets: 2-sets, 3-sets, mixed sets, etc) of people with the 3 second rule by stacking indirect openers (including false opinion openers), false time constraining (discovered by Style), demonstrating a higher value to your romantic interest’s peer group with high octane DHVs while she obliquely observes (locking her into her own set with a prop), and simultaneously performing false disqualifiers (which include negs) on her with the intension of disarming her peergroup and then isolating her to rebuild her self-esteem once you have enough IOIs (indicators of interest) so you may share in a comfort and trust building effort and then build in a jealousy subplot to solidify her attraction for you, you are using The Mystery Method.
If instead you are only approaching women who are alone, you are greatly limiting your options and quite likely alienating your target's friends. Do you want a lonely woman (why is she lonely?) or a woman who already has a healthy social lfe? Truth is, healthy women have healthy relationships ... sometimes good friendships with guys. Like it or not, you will have to meet these women with men in her group.
Women of beauty are rarely found alone. Don't miss the opportunity to meet and attract them WITH social proof from her very own peergroup. Group Approach Theory improves your options and increases the chances for attraction DRAMATICALLY over Single Approach Theory (SAT).
The guys who are GREAT in this game KNOW that they can improve their game ten-fold through seminars and personal coaching in-field workshops. Think about this: Why did so many of the greats who use Mystery's GAT (Style, Tyler D., MTL_PUA, and others) take MM seminars and workshops? What started them off to greatness in this game? Can you see the co-relation may in fact be a causation?
If you have NEVER taken a seminar or workshop before, it's time to finally reconsider. They are life-transforming. Workshops and seminars were for many of the greats THE difference between great success and failure. If you are ready, visit www.themysterymethod.com/magicbullets.html
Tenmagnet is doing Mystery Method workshops in Toronto and Montreal.
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DJ:
Upcoming 2 day inner game and storytelling programs:
This program focuses on how to take experiences from your life and convey them in an attractive, fun, and seductive way and incorporates everything from voice projection exercises to hypnotic language structures to deep inner work on who you are and what you want to convey. The first day is inner game intensive while the second day focuses on the mechanics of storytelling for a truly *complete* experience
I've received so many requests to build in some of the "old school" material on value elicitation and creating a rapport that invites her to open up to you, that I've decided to build it into this program. There will be a special section on moving from flash attraction to true connection. Please contact me for a flier with more details!
I’m offering special discounts for these programs so please email me for details at dj_seminar@yahoo.com
I hope everyone is well and I look forward to hearing from you. Feel free to drop a line to say hello…
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DR. PAUL SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT:
This is your first chance in the New Year to learn the bottom line in dating. You can bridge the gap between who you are and who you want to be. In an industry increasingly dominated by hype, I want to make a rare move and speak very plainly about what distinguishes the 7th Sense Seminar(TM) from other training in self help and social skills.
When you think about it, everything relevant to your love life simply breaks down into three areas of understanding and mastery: You, her, and the interaction between you. Here’s what you’ll learn:
You…
The core technology I’ve taught for years is known as MindOS. I called it the operating system of the human mind for a reason. If you start to dig into psychology you see patterns and predictable responses to life, a sort of biological machinery. People are often frustrated when they learn this and feel trapped in their own head as they struggle again and again with the same problems. What makes the difference, and what I teach as a board certified psychologist, is the connection and pattern that goes beyond the different theories of psychology.
This isn’t an arm chair notion. I’ve used my approach to the mind to produce profound change in patients for over a decade, refining it into a system that is easy to understand and use. It’s no surprise that what works for people with huge challenges in therapy works even better and faster for those who are already functional people looking for change.
You have the rare opportunity to truly work on your life from the "inside out" by mastering yourself, rather than looking at the surface behaviors. Many dating coaches are, in effect, teaching you to be an actor with a very specific role. Is that really what calls to you in life, or do you want more?
Her…
One of the criticisms you may have seen on T.V. when people respond to guru’s teaching about "seduction" is the claim that women are "objectified." If you don’t look at people as individuals, you’re cheating yourself of a lot of the joy you can have. Do you know anybody who obsesses over every interaction they have with a girl? Has their view of dating become rigid and mechanical?
The bottom line is that individuality matters, and you can’t approach every woman with the same mindset. You can increase your success with women, your peace of mind and your mental health by learning more about others. At the 7th Sense Seminar(TM) you’ll learn a revolutionary system of understanding personality types known as KWML(TM). This stands for King, Warrior, Magician and Lover.
KWML™ has an advantage over other personality profiling systems because it can be used quickly, in the moment and out in the open. It doesn’t require lengthy questionnaires or tests like a traditional Myers-Briggs. You can learn to get a true sense of a person’s motivations and needs in an instant just by talking and keeping your eyes open. This lets you give people what they need at a deep level, and helps you predict the challenges and rewards of dating a particular girl from day one.
When you master this system of understanding personality, you’ll have the key that lets you look at yourself and others objectively. Understanding people will always be a puzzle to be solved, but you can learn to see how the pieces fit.
You and Her…
You’ve probably noticed that a lot of attention is given to the surface interactions in dating. Men’s advice has focused on things to say and ways to behave. Women’s advice has focused on how to look and "rules" for dating. With DatingOS, you have the chance to put it all together and understand the real connection that binds dating behavior to inner psychology. This is the model of human courtship.
Courtship covers all the elements of evolutionary psychology, biology, sociology and culture that bring a man and a woman from attraction and friendship to a possible long term or sexual connection. DatingOS is the premium model for understanding human sexuality.
What does it all mean? When you combine real skill at self mastery, deep insight into other people as individuals, and a solid grasp of the real science of human courtship, you will know all that you need to change your life, not only with women but in everything.
The 7th Sense Seminar (TM) also includes more time with live coaching than other social trainers, nearly a full 24 hours dedicated to practice, workshops and field work. This is in addition to all the seminar and classroom training.
Put it all together and you have more deep education and more practical applications than you can find anywhere else. To see the full sales description and checkout all the details, visit doctorpaul.net/products.htm. See you there
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The new technology (DatingOS) Dr. Paul is unleashing on the world completely explains what your hangups are, not only in "hooking up" or "approaching," but through the dating process and deep into relationships. This doesn't exist anywhere else, nor will it, because Dr Paul has gone through twenty years of both psychiatric clinical training, seen 15,000 patients with problems of both a "dating" nature, AND comprehensively solves deep problems that people have with sexual attraction, commitment, marriage, breakups, relationships, trauma, depression, anxiety disorders, ADD, OCD, career complications, cheating and betrayal.
If you want permanent RESULTS, you may need some real science, and the same fun time you have at other seminars of course, with more mastery of ALL psychology of dating—INNER GAME, OUTER GAME, and never before seen PROFILING of women for perfect fit to your personality.
So far, DatingOS has only been available in person, at seminars in the heart of the city of SINGLES, in summertime after a bitter winter has all females in a frenzy of cabin fever. See doctorpaul.net/products.htm
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Herbal, one of the characters made famous by The Game, has finally released an ebook after taking some time away from the community. He also offers a free 10 Day E-Mail Bootcamp.. For more information, visit www.makeherchaseyou.com/
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Brian has a network of sites at bogdock.com/ and in there he has launched a dating site, www.fullcontactdating.com/
which he generously has included a page for Cliff's List at:
www.fullcontactdating.com/index.php/cliffs-list/
which you should visit! As a reward for visiting Brian's site, you can get a F R E E copy of his new e-book which can be downloaded from:
www.fullcontactdating.com/index.php/btp/
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Dear fellow PUAs,
Probably you've heard that this year's EuroSummit will be held in London. After last year's awesome success in Vienna, we decided to take it to the
next level. In London, the nerve centre of Europe, we are getting ready to rock the world.
If have some PU experience and ready to travel, come join us, and take part in our celebration of the fairer sex. During these 3 days and 3 nights of sarging, you can meet