LR: Ashley Madison fun aka a guide to sex with married women

18 months ago I thought my dating life was over. I thought I was old and past it. How wrong could I have been! For various reasons I was a sad separated man (kids to look after at home, time intensive travel type job). Didnt have confidence with women and was generally missing out.

Ashley Madison (you know the website that you can meet women for affairs) seemed perfect for me. So I joined and tried contacting women. Hopeless failure, absolutely zero success. So I gave up. In May this year things changed. A woman wrote to me, we exchanged a few emails. She had written to me, this gave me confidence, for once I was cool and fun. We met for drinks, liked each other and began seeing one another. This gave me heaps of confidence. I started going to the gym and got a trainer. I wrote to another girl. I was cool and fun and spoke to her in words she wanted to hear. We met for lunch. Then met for a date. Now I had two lovers. Way cool. But you know what, even with two girls there were plenty of nights on my own. They are married after all and you are their lover on the side. Time to get another gf. By now a friend had told me about Cliffs. I wrote and asked for advice and my Cliffs friend (Influence) gave me some advice, thanks man.

Now I have more than two gf's. Not saying how many as I dont want to sound like a dick. I have traded up and they are all smoking hot gym girls and they chase me all the time to be with me. I like athletic toned women. Life is good and tiring. It gets compulsive. You want to sleep with them all to make up for lost time. The cool thing is they know its not exclusive. They compete to be my No 1. Women in this situation are beyond hot in bed. They want to explore the sexual side of themselves and completely let go with their lover. If you know what you are doing, they will do Anything for you, to keep you and make you happy.

So here is a quick guide.

First, make sure you have money. This is not for guys who cant afford hotel rooms (they are married after all and want discretion, not your place and certainly not theirs Lol).
Two, invest in a professional photo for your avatar. The internet is a visual medium and first impressions count. My life on AM changed after I had professional shots done. I went from one email back for twenty sent out, to 60% to 80% replies just from two quality pics.
Three, write a fun bio. Dont just tick the boxes. Tell the truth but be cool and fun. They want a fantasy guy, to take them away from a dull boring marriage where they probably havent had sex for a year or two. (Yes really. Hot chicks missing out. I shit you not!)
Four, when you email a girl, try and be fun and flirty, with a hook to get them to write back.
Five, if you really like one and think you may connect send a second (different) email. Girls like to be chased. If you get nothing back move on.
Six, if you get a reply, its a bite, girls dont waste their time, be fun and flirty again and use what they write to you as new material. Always, repeat always, use a message read reply email. They gets lots of emails. A message reply read email gets priority and you are less likely to be lost in the stampede.
Seven, pace them, dont be too eager, if they are interested they will wait a day for you to reply. If you are connecting on AM move them to your private email. Its like moving them to a different club. If they follow you, its a big hurdle out of the way.
Eight, flirt some more and find out what they want. If its what you want set up a meet, doesnt matter what, coffee, lunch, drinks whatever.
Nine, just be natural you, when you meet, a gentleman, but a flirt and a tease if possible, but be yourself is paramount. If you are a stiff and formal guy, scope for girls who like that, they will be there.
Ten, almost always you will know whether there is chemistry, within seconds of the meet. Some girls are quiet and give nothing away. If they are still there and talking to you after half and hour, and you arent sure, just ask "so, are we going to see each other again?" with a smile like of course we are. Some girls are like yes lets have a hotel room date. Others are lets have dinner or a walk in the park I need to know you better. Either answer is excellent, as the second date means she wants to sleep with you but wants another date first so she doesnt seem a skank. Girls dont waste their time
Eleven, you are almost there dont stuff it up (like I have several times Lol). If they want to kiss you, kiss her. Go with her on the kiss, if she gets into it, go hard. I normally stop quick now and be cool and say there is a time and place, lets wait. It makes them hotter for you!
Twelve, have fun. The first time is always the worst. Its a bit awkward you dont know what each other likes. After a few hours on the first date you are getting there. Second and third dates YeeHaa!
Thirteen, they always say they dont want a relationship, its just fun on the side. This is BS. They want to Love you with their whole heart. I never lie to a woman. If I am feeling it I tell her I want to be with her and miss her when I am away. I have fallen twice, I take a while to tell them and make sure it is reciprocated first.
Fourteen, juggling gfs. These women crave attention from you, give it to them. Generally they love hot texts and emails
Fifteen, they want to submit to you. Thats cool enjoy it. They get off on being yours and doing what you want them to do. Dont fight it. Equality is just current culture crap. Women want to submit to and please a lover. Still be a gentleman, but also their hot lover who makes them feel Special!
Sixteen, when they get caught because they stop sleeping with their husbands. Write me for advice. I have been through this a few times now.

Rule No 1 Listen to them, hear them, talk to them the way they want their lover too!
Rule No 1 (OK I know its No 1 again). Its a fantasy. You need to be their ideal guy if you want to get laid. I have good genes, an underwear model body and a great job. I tick lots of boxes for girls. They can tell it when they read what I write and as soon as they see me and I open my mouth to talk. Just be the best guy you can be. There is always someone with more than you.

Have fun!